Y_ghazaly – I am so happy that you have come to your decision about your DH. If he is there for you like you say and you love him, everything else will work itself out. If you are working on losing weight and are having problems, maybe you should get your thyroid checked out because if your thyroid is functioning too low it will be almost impossible to lose weight but there are medications like Synthroid that will have will help.y_ghazaly wrote:hi everyone
i'm so grateful 2 be on this board with such great supportive pplthanx a lot 4 all ur kind words
i chilled down & thought of how much i luv my DH & wouldn't trade him 4 the world
a successful marriage is much more than having a child i guess, it's mainly about love & standing by each other thru thick & thin & i can't imagine being with anyone else other than my DH esp. that he's so good 2 me & i've known him for 10 yrs before we got married & we were best friends in the very beginning
we were college sweethearts afterward
:):) & i also realized that i'm depressed about other things like my weight gain & how hard it'll b 2 lose all the weight again (i lost 25 kgs before the ICSIs & gained it all back now - depression , no exercise , comfort eating & ICSI medication) & i'm also stressed about my job (an abusive boss) which i'll probably quit in a couple of months & chill @ home till i find something else (maybe even focus on losing weight & just having fun a bit , building up my self esteem again)
anyway , we decided 2 try a different route with male infertility doctors then another ICSI ....... but we're on a break from all that crap now .........so just wish us luck
and best of luck 2 all u wonderful ppl out there
babydust 2 us all!
I think it is a good idea to concentrate on losing weight and maybe finding a new job while taking some time off from the IVF rollercoaster. I wish you good luck!
Angela