Hello, I am back and very brown!!!!!!!!!

[Tracey S]

Glad to see you made it back from Asda Dagny!!! I agree over the cleaner - I wish but never had one when I did work and was earning well so fat chance now when I have done sod all since hols - oooooooops!

Sue how was work or dare we ask?

Must do something useful like check ebay!
Love
Tracey
xxx

[Dagny]

Tracey

I nearly didn't make it back from Asda as I was so enraged with a girl I know who works there. I haven't spoken to her for about a year and she talks incessently about herself it's all her, her, her. She has a 4 year old son.

But, amazingly she did ask me if I had any kids yet. I told her I had a little baby girl 11 weeks ago and that unfortunately she died and she just shrugged and said 'Oh well, I've had 9 miscarriages and thats REALLY bad isn't it'? Like me having a fully formed baby which died isn't bad then? She really pi$$ed me off.

Then she said "Did IT (It, not 'her' IT(!)) die inside you"? I said no 3 minutes after she was born and she just said "Oh well, you can have another one".

F**K I was so angry I just shouted "Well I f***ing can't you stupid b!tch" and stormed out. I was shaking and felt like ramming my fist down her throat. I am not a violent person by any stretch of the imagination but this really upset me. I don't remember driving home and went straight to Katelyn's grave and sobbed.

I have calmed down now after talking it through with my best friend who knows her too and she put it all into perspective for me.

Sorry for rambling but thought I would tell you as I can't believe how many insensitive comments I can get in a space of a few weeks.

Any how I hope today will be better. My friend STILL hasn't had her baby, she's HUGE! I had a dream last night that she had a boy weighing 9lb 10oz and they called him Fenton!! What's that all about??

Love Dagny xkx

Ps Sorry Marcus for the swearing but I am sooooo angry

[Tracey S]

Dagny

OMG - I just can't believe what I have read - are you ok? Had to read it all over again to make sure I was not having a nightmare

What a completely B****H - I have gone off in to a fit of swearing myself and would have buried her sodding head into a great mountain of ASDA tin peas - see back on the peas again

You just don't need her - cut her out - you have friends like you enormous best friend and that is what you need - not silly bints like that - I mean has she got a brain or an amoeba??????????????

I think you have done well to blow it out your system though you should have blown it up her A**E (sorry dr Marcus we are not happy )

Katelyn is and always be special and never forget that - you won't and silly moos like that are just dim bints you don't need.

As for you dream - not sure on that one - FENTON - does she know what she is having - wouldn't it be funny if it all came true

Big hug ok
Love
Tracey
xxx

[Dagny]

Hi Tracey

Yeah, I am OK now thanks. Still seeth slightly when I think about it but like you quite rightly said she is a stupid bint and is not blessed in the brain department. Her whole family are very stupid and my brother went out with her sister for a bit - OMG I soon showed him the error of his ways and it ended quite quickly. Thank God!!!!!!!

I have known her for years but never had much to do with her and only see her in Asda occasionally but she saw me yesterday trying to make a quick exit and collared me Damn - I should have just kept on walking!

Do you think Marcus reads our posts??

I brought his attention to some dodgy members who had registered not long ago with questionable website addresses and he sent me a message thanking me and asked me to keep a look out for more kooks and to let him know. I am so grateful to him and this website. It's been my life saver. Cheers Marcus, if you're reading!

Love Dagny xkx

[Tracey S]

Dagny

I think DR Marcus looks over some but not all and not likely to throw us off!!! We are his best customers!!! I too had a private email off him asking me to be vigilant - said I would be of course - what I should have said is "and pg at the same time ?"

Glad you are ok - Nik just rang me - lovely to talk to her!

Love
Tracey
xxx

[Nikola]

hello chicks!

So much swearing - bloody hell thought it was only me that lowered the tone!! But yours is with good reason though......rather than a pathetic excuse of northern colloquialisms!

Dagny, I refuse to waste valuable energy even commenting on that silly tart from the supermarket! I'm glad you said what you did and didn't just walk away thinking - I wish I'd said this or I wish I'd said that - at last you can feel satisfied that she got a mouthful! But that is from me, never one to sit on the fence or keep my mouth shut!

Perhaps you should start and shop in Marks and Spencers they have a far better clientelle of shoppers!!!!

What I would like to know (sorry Marcus to revert to the swearing), but could TS please explain to me what "What a completely B****H " actually stands for - there are too many asterixes for it to be '*****' and besides, surely that isn't swearing - even for you two goody two shoes!

Right I'm still looking to find out what all this 'pea' and vegetable business is all about!!

Honestly I'll never get back into the swing of things......

Dagny - keep your chin up girl!

love nikola.x

[Tracey S]

N

Sorry sent the "pea" thing to you but probably all ruined now as this is the end - I emailed it anyway.

As for a B****H - first I had to few *'s and then too many - PG brain I fear or just me Should have said sod it and just written it in!

You will catch up - I will keep sending you a potted history. Lucky Helen S is not here she would have a fit is saw the language (but wish she was on this side if you know what I mean)
Love
Tracey
xxx

[Dagny]

Hiya

Nikola - You really do make me laugh out loud It is so good to have you back even if it is in a limited capacity.

If I see that twonk in Asda again soon I will most probably throw a tin of beans at her!!!! Stupid old gimp!!!!!! Oooohhhhhh I am so cross still, can you tell?? Hee hee

TS - Sorry for ruining your 'veg joke' but I am sure Nik would have thought of something other than the normal carrot. I imagins she would think, mange tout

Love to you both

Dagny xkx

[Nikola]

Dagny - If you do see her, please don't lower yourself to her standards and throw Asda's extra value beans, please make sure they are Heinz!

As I said in my email I suspect I'm more a 'minging trout' than mange tout!

Why am I sat playing on the site I hear you both ask....good question! Well florrie has gone with dh to the garage to collect our car and then to Marks and Spencers to get something for tea......meanwhile Millie and I are supposed to be going into the village SHOPPING!!

Hurrah, I'm actually allowed out to shop and would you believe it, she won't wake up!!! I've tried everything, prodding, poking, I even started singing and she is refusing to acknowledge I'm here! She is a nightmare. She doesn't sleep all night and now when the shops are open and we can go and spend spend spend, she wants to sleep, sleep, sleep.

I knew I was having a boy! She is definitely a tomboy! Perlease! Not only does she not suit pink, she looks better in blue, she would rather have a kip than shop. Why?????

Its a lovely sunny day here and I want to go out and play with the bugaboo and all she wants to do is stay home with Arthur and Jeremy and have a snoooooooze.

As if!

I daren't go out without feeding her otherwise she'll have a screaming fit and everyone will stare and think I don't know what I'm doing (quite true, but don't need the whole of Ilkley to realise this!)

Right I'm off to do more singing......surely she'll wake up just to shut me up!

I even managed to change her nappy and wash her face (both things she hates most in the world!) and she didn't even open her eyes......just keps snoring away......

Hope you two are ok!

love me.x

[Dagny]

Oh dear Nik

Perhaps their Daddy has had a little talk to them both and told them they DON'T like shopping and not to indulge you!!

How does it feel having one without the other? Do you feel like there is something missing?

Hope your singing managed to rouse her eventually and you got to have a bit of a shopping trip.

Love Dagny xkx

[sue.m]

Hi Girlies,

well I survived my first week back at work. Had a shock though on Monday to find that even after many assurances about what I'd be returning to do, my managers had decided that I'd be stuck in a mega stressful position instead, one that I have barely enough experience to do! To be honest it's a good job I didn't find out until I arrived, or I don't think I'd have gone back in. They've treated me appallingly while I've been on maternity leave, it's unbelievable really that they think that their behaviour is acceptable. Anyway, I'm in for just three days a week, so am going to just make the best of a bad lot.

Dan survived his first day at nursery without too many tears.........well not from him anyway. My mom was another story altogether! She was off on Wednesday so offered to drop him off for me, and be on hand if they needed her to settle him. Well apparently she was in floods of tears when she left him, the snivelling snotty sort, so felt a bit of a prat! I think it took her by surprise that she reacted in the way that she did. So I don't think she'll be offering to drop him off again. Honestly, she's worrying about it more than I am.

Dagny sorry you had to deal with that silly cow at asda, why do people think that you can measure levels of tragedy, and that they have the right to tell you that they've been through worse? Idiot! Anyway, she might think twice next time about what she says to people.

Well hope you're all ok........suppose while Dan's napping I should really go and have a shower and brush my teeth rather than sit gassing to you lot!

Sue.x

[Tracey S]

Sue

How awful - poor you - can't believe they think they can get away with such shoddy tmt - anything you can do or is it not worth rocking the boat too much. And your poor mum bless her - Dan is probably oblivious to all this.........

Nik - left a post somewhere else for you on the fact that your DH removed Amelia's shopping genes when you were out cold - think he posted it to me - want it back????

Dagny - where are you today or are you with your pg friend - can't remember
Love
Tracey
xxx

[sue.m]

Hi Trace,

unfortunately nothing I can do about it. On Monday morning I thought I might be fighting a winnable battle but two unsympathetic and very rigid senior managers later, realised I was wasting my time!

Oh well...........not worth stressing over.

Sue.x

[Tracey S]

Sue

You have always had one of the gutsiest attitudes on this board

Love
Tracey
xxx

[Dagny]

Hello all

Sue - Glad you survived your week at work. Oh your poor Mum, Grannies can be so silly at times

Your work sound a right bunch of losers. How frustrating though. Hold you head up high and rise above them, I say.

I don't think I will be going back to Asda for a while!!!

Tracey - I was at my friends house who is having IVF twins. One of each and fell first time. Her flat is sooooooooooooo minimalist and cream with lovely polished glass tables. NOT FOR LONG She is booked in for a c-section on the 26th. I am not sure she is really prepared for what her life will be like soon. Her flat is her castle and she say's she won't change how it is. Well the twins will if nothing else.

Go my AF today so off to the hospital for bloods tomorrow. If I came on today would that be day one or would it be tomorrow? I have to have bloods done between day 2 and 5. Getting confused now or just very thick

Love Dagny xkx