I wasn't sure where to post this, since I'm not part of any thread. There have been so many ladies that have cheered me on, that I thought I should let you know that I found out today (on my birthday ) that I lost the baby. I would have been 10 weeks tomorrow.
Not sure where we'll go from here, but I wanted to thank you all (you know who you are!) for all of your support on this emotional journey.
Good luck to you and I'll check in from time to time.
oh sweetie...that is so unfair...i don't even have the words...my heart breaks for you & your dh. i have tears in my eyes. this is so cruel. i'm so soory! i'm going to send you a pm. (((HUGS)))
~ Franny
me-35- stage 4 endo
DH-30- perfect
TTC for 5 years
1+2 IVF 2009- both cxl
3rd IVF Jan. 2010- BFN
4th IVF April 2010- BFN
5th IVF July 2010-BFN
6TH IVF Sept 2010- BFN
moving on to donor embies
FET Feb 2012-BFN
FET Jun 2012- Here we go again!
Kim -- Nooooo.... My heart just sank when I read this. I'm soo very sorry. I know that feeling all too well. It's horrible. I felt so lonely and sad for a long time. If you need to talk I'm here. Sometimes it helps to talk too someone who has been there and understands. Hows DH doing? I was just thinking of you today and were wondering how you were feeling. This sucks soo bad. Did you go to the hospital or did you find out at an appt? I had some spotting and went to the ER. It was awful. Do you need to have a D&C? That's what I needed.I'm just so sorry. And on your birthday no less. Life is cruel sometimes.
Lou--- 1 beautiful baby girl from a single 8 cell embie in Sept 2011
Ah kim i am so sorry (((((hugs))))) how devastating for you and dh and on your birthday. I lost my last baby at 10wks also just before my 30th and can totally feel your pain right now, I pray you will get your miracle baby some day xxxx
gi xx
7th IVF finally our precious miracle girl Kayla born 24/11/10, 8th IVF FET Sept 2012 BFP!!!
Its TRIPLETS!!!!
Kim - NOOOO!!! my heart just broke when I read this. I am so so very sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of hugs through the most difficult time for you. We are all here for you and lots of love.
me: 29
DH: 39 non-obst azoo
IVF#1 2/10 - Cancld at E/R no sperm found
IUI with DS - 8 times 2010-2011 all BFN
IVF#2-DS - BFP-chem preg Feb12
IVF#3-July BFP-Beta 7/23: 125 Beta 7/25: 244 Beta 7/27: 584.8 Beta 8/3 12,000+
U/S on 8/14
I was trying to think of a way to thank you for your posts without having to bring this thread up to the top, but I couldn't. Sorry about that.
I do really want to thank you all for all of your sweet, supportive, and caring posts and PMs. They really helped me more than you can know. We told only 2 people about the pregnancy, so when I suffered the loss it felt so lonely. Your support was invaluable.
I was blessed with a DS from an IVF cycle 2.5 years ago. I feel selfish feeling so much sorrow when I have him in my life. I hope I haven't offended anyone with my whining. I was just so hoping to give him a sibling.
I do have some frozen embryos from this past IVF cycle, so maybe we'll try again in time. It's just looking like it may not be in the cards for us given all of the failures we've had this year. Who knows. Time will tell.
Thanks, again, to all of you. All of the best in your journeys--I'll be watching and praying for you!
I was trying to think of a way to thank you for your posts without having to bring this thread up to the top, but I couldn't. Sorry about that.
I do really want to thank you all for all of your sweet, supportive, and caring posts and PMs. They really helped me more than you can know. We told only 2 people about the pregnancy, so when I suffered the loss it felt so lonely. Your support was invaluable.
I was blessed with a DS from an IVF cycle 2.5 years ago. I feel selfish feeling so much sorrow when I have him in my life. I hope I haven't offended anyone with my whining. I was just so hoping to give him a sibling.
I do have some frozen embryos from this past IVF cycle, so maybe we'll try again in time. It's just looking like it may not be in the cards for us given all of the failures we've had this year. Who knows. Time will tell.
Thanks, again, to all of you. All of the best in your journeys--I'll be watching and praying for you!
All my love,
-Kim
Kim – Please don’t feel selfish because you already have your DS. Just remember a loss is a loss no matter how many kids you currently have or do not have. I and many other women on this site understand how you feel and wish we could take the pain away. Once again, I am so very sorry for your loss. I do hope that you are able to achieve your dream of a sibling one day soon! Please take care!
) that I lost the baby. I would have been 10 weeks tomorrow.
