I really am so sorry. I think there is nothing anyone can say to make it better for you right now. Just have some quality time with your DH and be strong for each other.
Thinking of you
Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
I test on May 23 am well and truly in paranoid zone now as in last part of 2ww, really tempted to test on May 22 as DH will be at home but I have read the boards and so will try hard to resisit. At home all this week enjoying the sun so there are some bonuses, but will probably be bald by the end of this week!!
lots of love to everyone
Shelld
xxx
well I'm on the two week wait yet again. Feel really positive but have 14 days to go.
will test on the 3 of june, as long as af does not show.
wish me luck....
all the best to the other girls testing..Positive thoughts
july ann
been in tmt for 4 years.Male factor. Have had 3 icsi, one ivf with donor sperm.Went for fet with 7 eggs but none made it to blastocyst. just had 5 DI. test date 27 july
Just want to wish all 2ww waiters the very best of luck . I will be thinking of you all. Just wondered the clinic told me test on 7th June. Had ET on 19th May which makes that nearly 3 weeks. Should I wait or test on 2nd June? that would be 2 weeks. Any opinions greatly appreciated.
PMA to everyone & fingers crossed for all of us!
Christina Proud Mum Of Bradley after successful 1st IVF.
We had EC and ET on the same day. I test on 31st. Even if you do not get the blood test until the 7th the suspence would drive you mad. I'd do a hpt on 31st. Have you asked the clinic why you test after 3 weeks?
Shellie
DH 37, me 28 with Endometriosis
First attempt at IVF in May, now pregnant with twins. Fingers still crossed.
went on and tested today BFN, actually got my hopes up that may not be the case then got deflated, now (am i thick or what) starting to think that i maybe need to test again in case the test is faulty. Got trouble being realistic here?!?
Anyway, just poured a biiiiiiig glass of chardonnay, and will celebrate the experience, coz it hasn't all been negative.
Good luck to all still to test. I hope to be back after the summer holidays. Yeah that's the next plan - exotic holiday to recharge batteries then coming back on this roller coaster again. Yeeeee Haaaaaa!!!!
Janice. x
me 38, DP 35. 1st try at IVF, EC 3/5 6 eggs, ET on 5/5 2 embryos, nil for freezing.
I agree with you. I think I am going to test on 31st also, which is two weeks. Then blood test on week 3. Think the clinic is just really busy & decided to leave until 7th June, which seems a lifetime away at the minute. So everything croosed for everyone testing soon, I will say a prayer for everyone.
Good luck to everyone.
Loadsa Hugs
Christina Proud Mum Of Bradley after successful 1st IVF.
Just wanted to say I'm very sorry about the BFN. I was in your shoes last week (but not dealing with it quite so optimistically and well as you seem to be). I was doing 2 tests a day at one point; sometimes one only a few hours after the first one in the hopes that the -tive would somehow miraculously become +tive. Somehow, the ability to be realistic kind of gets tossed out the window during the whole IVF process.
Anyway, hopefully we'll both have better luck next go.