Winter Cycle Friends 2009/2010 - Everyone Welcome!

[PA_FA]

Natasha- I get those same pains too right now and my OB said it was round ligament pain. I know it hurts and it sucks and it's scary. I got one of those belly bands. I think mine is called the be band. I wear it all the time at work and sometimes if I am not wearing super supportive maternity pants. It seems to help. You will feel those kicks soon. I had one so strong this morning that it was even a bit uncomfortable! I only feel it when I am resting or sitting still. I can't even be in a moving car. Once I felt a flutter while I was standing still putting on make up. It does feel like a flutter or a wave. Sometimes, for me, it feels like when a cat puts his paws on you and pets you. Do you know what I mean? Like a soft tap tap tap. OK back to topic...belly pain...get a belly band. I love mine. For meds you can always call your regular practicioner. They know how to treat pregnant women too. I hope you get to feeling better soon. Hugs sweetie!

[TammyS]

Thankyou everyone for your kind words and it was so cool to see my name added back to the top of the list...but...now for the bad news...
I think it is over already...chemical. My line this morning was way fainter than it was even at 8dp3dt. I am 11dp3dt today. They were getting darker every day and I was shocked this morning...but yet not shocked either, cause "my personal odd symptoms" that I always get when pregnant, like drooling while I sleep...have been virtually gone since Friday night. I even told Bill that I no longer felt pregnant Friday night. I also had minor spotting Friday and Saturday, light pink and brown, which I know is normally fine and likely implantation bleeding...but not this time. I called the clinic on Friday and told them about the spotting and asked if it was okay to continue cleaning and prepping for Zach's birthday party and she told me yes...with frequent breaks, no lifting, etc. I did take it pretty easy (Bill did almost everything while I supervised), but perhaps not as much as I should have...then I ran around like crazy at his birthday party the next day...yet still really didnt do anything strenuous...besides I think the baby died Friday afternoon/evening. Saturday' mornings pee stick was almost the same darkness as Friday morning...almost cant tell them apart, except that I marked them. So the hcg probably stopped going up sometime Friday afternoon/evening ...which is why my stick on Saturday was back down to the same color as Fridays and almost gone today. Likely implantation issues since I am very full of fibroids...and when I googled...of course fibroids were a huge reason for a loss this early. The nurse moved my first beta up to Monday rather than Wednesday, thank goodness. I'm just sooo sad this morning.

[natasha10]

tammy- Aww i wish you the best and hope you have some good news Hang in there.

angela- i usually notice it when im standing or sitting. but in the lower abdomen and sometimes in the left side. I'm sure your right. its not constant just every blew moon so im not too worried. if it were constant pains then i'd call them right away and ask about it. I may bring it up on my appt in a week. thanks for your advice. I do remember you asking about that but i couldn't remember how far along you were. but you said it went away for you which is good.

pa- You feel the baby moving alot already huh? Is this your first baby? I sometimes think im feeling something but im not sure. Im patiently waiting though. I have a be band i think i got it from target. How do u wear yours? I wear it but usually to hold up my pre pregnancy jeans. but they are getting too tight im gaining alot of weight already bout 20 lbs so i try n squeeze into them jeans but now its to the point im suffocating. so my Dh went and go t me some maternity jeans but im still too small for them so its a lose lose situation =) im sure my tummy will fill them in soon. I got a hold of my Ob nurse finally friday to ask about the meds. I forgot about my primary doctor but i havent seen him in awhile so i guess i wouldnt be comfortable asking him either. but its all ok now hopefully i can get rid of this cough.

thanks ladies for the advice. I hope to feel her moving soon. =)

[angelaezra]

Tammy – Oh, I am so sorry to hear your news. I am just hoping for the best for you and your DH right now. Maybe, we will all be pleasantly surprised after your beta tests. It is interesting that you looked at your HPT each morning to see if they were getting darker because I did the same thing during this pregnancy but I noticed the sticks didn’t appear to be getting that much darker than the day before. So I am hoping that when you tested your urine was diluted maybe due to excess water drinking or some other reason and everything will turn out fine. I am anxiously awaiting your news this week. Try to stay positive because you still are PUPO!

PA_FA – Yes, the belly bands are very helpful. I think I purchased my way too early and it was almost painful to use but now that I am much bigger it helps me a lot towards the end of the day.

Natasha – I am sure you will feel your baby girl move very soon. The first few movements are a little strange and if you don’t know what you are feeling sometimes it is hard to distinguish what it is. But, she will be moving around and kicking before you know it.

AFM – Well, we finally found the crib that we wanted to purchase for Gabriella yesterday. It isn’t the 3 in 1 or the 4 in 1; it is the crib, changing table, dresser combo. We just figured that we will just purchase her a toddler bed when she needs one later. I really liked the combo dresser and was too uncomfortable to go to another store to search for another one. I think we really should have started looking before I turned 20 weeks because when we entered the store I immediately had Braxton Hicks contractions, my feet became swollen, and I was out of breath. Oh, well at least we have the main things that we need for now. I also purchased newborn diapers, baby wipes, baby bottles, bottle warmer, diaper bag, and a high chair. Next, we went to Home Depot to get some paint to paint her room. We choose the color taupe but now I am just anxious to start to put everything together but my DH said I have to wait a week or two because he wants to paint first. I can’t believe that I am down to almost 12 weeks left! Well, only 12 weeks if I wait to be induced but she could arrive a little earlier (I just hope not too early). I just can’t wait to finally meet her!

Angela

[angelaezra]

Tammy - I forgot to ask you about your fibroids that you mentioned. Is there a reason that your RE didn't remove them prior to your transfer? I was thinking about your prior C-section and wondered if that was one of the reasons. I only asked because my RE insisted on removing my fibroids before each transfer, so I have had it done twice now. Actually, before my frozen transfer last June, I had extensive surgery to remove two or three fibroids and part of the placenta which was leftover from my pregnancy with Ashley. I was pretty sore after that surgery and my physician said he had to pretty much resect my entire uterus.

Angela

[TammyS]

Angela, my old RE doctor removed one large one blocking the uterus opening...but was afraid to remove more...cause they say that it can make things worse. When I had my csection...that MFM doctor said..."My God, you are full of fibroids!" I tried to tell them with each ultrasound and they always said they didnt really see anything...maybe 1 or 2. lol Same thing my old RE said...he didnt realize till he opened me up...how bad it is. My new RE...and the one who got me pregnant with Zach...says from ultrasound that they dont see anything for concern ...however...I know for a fact that I am full of them. I am now going to tell him...what is going on...and what I think is the problem...and see if we shouldnt go back in. Maybe while they are in there they could strengthen the vertical scar and make it stronger too for the next pregnancy.

My urine was the best it could have been. All week I had insomnia (one of my normal symptoms) and would pee every 1-3 hours all night and day. Last night, after being exhausted from not sleeping and running around at Zach's party...I had a urine sample of 7 hours...not 3 hours. Plus some of my tests were taken in the afternoon with 2.5 hrs of holding it...and they had a decent line. This mornings was barely there.

At this point...I'm hoping that another 1 implanted Fri/Sat since I had implantation spotting then...and my hcg will start to rise again. I'm going to go test again now since I've been holding it for a few hours...

It is slightly darker than this mornings...so maybe another did implant a couple of days ago. Holding my breath now.

[natasha10]

angela- oh no your getting uncomfortable. Im sure the crib you chose will do you good for awhile. Im sure i'll feel her soon. thanks

tammy- so intense.. the waiting game. Dont worry yourself too early.

[PA_FA]

Natasha- Yes this is my first baby and first pregnancy. It kicks so much I wonder if I am going to have a fully formed soccer player? I don't always feel it. Maybe a few times a week. So DH bought you maternity jeans and they don't fit? All of my maternity jeans that I have bought are the same size as pre pregnancy. I like the ones with the "Secret fit" belly. I think they are a bit more comfy. Try going to Motherhood Maternity or Pea in a Pod. Both have great jeans that fit early on. The secret fit part is tight enough to be held up on small baby bellies but stretchy enough to still fit when you almost pop.

Tammy- Tomorrow is your beta right? Baby dust to you honey. Big huge hugs too!

Stephanie- How are you feeling this weekend? It's been so quiet around here. I'm getting worried without all of the weekday chatter.

Hazel- Soooooo how is Zorba? I can't wait to hear from you!

AFM- nothing new...I am finally off for 9 days. Time to put up the Fall decorations. DH comes home tomorrow night. I am so excited. I have only seen him like 5 days so far this month. UGH! Just waiting for my level II on the 29th. When I got to Ireland the other day I was laying in bed at what was like 4am my time in PA. The baby kicked me so hard it was actually uncomfortable. I had to sit there and talk to him/her until it stopped. If I am feeling this at 18w what's going to happen later?????? Oh and does anyone know of any remedies for leg cramps in the middle of the night? I woke up with a charlie horse in both calves so bad that I almost screamed. OUCH!
OK chat tomorrow ladies!

[natasha10]

Pa- yes i have looked at the motherhood store but not the pea in a pod. im not sure we have that around here. Im still just waiting to feel her move good. i think feel her at night but its no where like your saying it hurt. so im just waiting for another feeling to compare. I think i feel her when i keep changing sides as if she does like me moving so much cuz im uncomfortable. =) Sounds like you have a soccer baby =) that must be a little tough to not see the Dh all the time. But you might get use to it huh. Enjoy tomorrow then that you're both home and together. Im sure its probably more exciting than us who see our DH every day.

Happy monday ladies and have a great week!!

[TammyS]

Hey girls,
Just got my beta back. It's a 38. I'm still pretty sure it is on its way back down...but I guess we'll see on Wednesday. Thanks for all of your thoughts, words, and prayers.

[Emerald32]

Hi Ladies,

Been a while I logged in and guess it might be my last for months now...

I guess I beat you ALL - I delivered my Baby girl @ 26.3 weeks. She is in the Neonatal ICU and as of now doing fine. I am still in a shock ( premature labor - for NO REASON ATALL !!!) and recovering from my C-section.

I wish you ALL - the VERY BEST and hope u have smooth deliveries. Take care and Thank you all for your wonderful support throughout my pregnancy. Sorry I cannot get into personals..but do know I shall pray for all of u.

Love, Emerald.

[claud662]

Emerald-HOLY MOLY!!! Congrats on your baby girl and glad to hear she is doing well-what is her name???

Tammy-I'm still holding out your beta rises

Hazel-can't wait to get an update from you!!

Natasha-leggings have become my best friend cause they fit pre and during pregnancy!!!

Steph-I also registered at buybuybaby-how do you want me to go about this for the registry? Should I pm you privately to let you know my last name? Are you still in the hospita?

AFM...we finally did some nesting yesterday!! We cleared out the baby room and combined our office/guest room!! Now our next step is taking off the wallpaper and painting!! I am ordering the baby furniture on Thursday which is a relief and it's coming together slowly but surely!!

[gi]

Hi ladies,

Sorry i have been MIA had a busy weekend with my last wedding!! Thankfully no more this year i am wreaked. I am so far behind so will only do couple of personals.

Hazel i am assuming no news is good news at this stage I really hope ye had a safe and happy birth xxx

Emerald OMG i was soooo not expecting that!!! I had wondered where you were. I am so thrilled your little girl is doing well and Please God she doesnt stay too long in the NICU though i am assuming a min. of couple of months? Big Congrats xxx

Tammy oh hon i really hope and pray you have a little miracle in there, did i read you had your beta a bit early, i cycled with dogzrule last yr and she had a lower beta than you and she now has a baby girl, i will keep praying for you xxx

Sorry for not doing anymore but i really cant remember even though i read everything!!!! I cant believe i am 32 wks starting to get lots of BH and Kayla seems to love them!! Lots of sleepness nights lately even though i am wreaked but i dont mind as i never realised how much she moves during the night! so i just lie there and enjoy it though i reckon she is just preparing me for the Real Sleepness nights I spent ages last night trying to put a picture up here of j and i at the wedding, i noticed he downloaded them onto his pc but i wasnt able to copy and paste them to here i am such a techno phobic!! Hope everyone is doing well and No more Early Babies they need to keep cooking for a while longer!!

gi xxx

[natasha10]

emerald- wow!! that was unexpected. I hope all is well and i wish you the best!!! Get better you and your baby so you can take her home.

Claudia- Yes I have legging they are comfortable but i just dont like to wear them all the time. the elastic band also gets a bit tight im thinking of cutting it lol

[angelaezra]

Tammy – ok, once I got home I immediately logged in to see what your beta is and 38 is not bad. Ok, so I am praying and doing a dance that it keeps going up like it is supposed to for your next beta in 48 hours. Remember, keep thinking positive thoughts!

PA_FA – It sounds like you there is a much needed break for both you and DH. Please enjoy each other (only seen him 5 times … wow). Oh, those Charlie horses can be so uncomfortable. According to what I have heard and read, it should be relieved by just flexing your foot but I noticed that when I increased my potassium intake that I didn’t have them as much. So I ate bananas, etc. with us urinating so much being pregnant our potassium is quickly depleted.

Emerald – What a shock!!!! You already delivered your baby girl already at 26.3 weeks! WOWWWW! I just read your post to my DH because he keeps procrastinating putting Gabriella’s crib together and I keep saying you never know when I will go into labor! And, you are definite proof of that! By the way, he kept asking if the baby was ok, and when I said yes he said thank god! CONGRATULATIONS!!!! What did you name her?

Claudia – Ok, now that you started on your house can you come and combine our rooms at my house now … lol. No, I am kidding but that is exactly what we need to do. There is a queen size bed in Gabriella’s room and a day bed in the computer so we need to move the queen bed into the computer room and the day bed in Gabriella’s room. Oh boy, so much to do!!

Gi – I am glad the weddings are over and you made it … yeah! Yes, the weeks are just flying by for you now (32 weeks)!

Stephanie – Where are you? I am starting to get worried because we haven’t heard from you for awhile!!

Natasha - i hope you have some luck finding more maternity clothes. I had a hard time finding things also but I did a few things at the Motherhood store and Lazarus (maternity section).

Hazel - I keep looking for the good news but I know it might take awhile before you are able to post again.

AFM – Well, today was my last official weekly u/s for cervical length checks and Gabriella is doing very well. So today at my OB appointment I received my orders for my 28 week testing, such as the glucose test, blood test, and thyroid function test, etc., so now I have to get those test scheduled for next week. You ladies are going to laugh but I told my DH that Gabriella and I weren’t talking to him until we see the crib up … lol (As you can see I am very anxious and excited to see everything out together). But, after reading Emerald’s post, my fears are definitely valid! But, of course I broke down and talked to him anyway. Oh well, hopefully he will work on it this weekend after our maternity tour.

Angela