Can i still hope ?

[Newhere]

I am 8dp6dt and my FRER is still BFN. Is there still hope for me. My Beta is scheduled for 10/4. I sarted POAS since sunday, i dont even see a faint line. one dark line is all I see.

[leorira11]

sorry! If you google - you'll find stories of women who got negative HPTs even on the day of their blood tests, but got positive betas and had healthy babies. Personally, if I don't see a second line on a HPT at '12dpo' (ie 9dp3dt or 7dp5dt) I've never been pregnant.

It's not a good sign, but you aren't definitely out! Try to keep your chin up until your beta!

best of luck!

[LisaB75]

Absolutely you can still hope! I did not take an HPT until the night before my scheduled beta because I was so scared I would get a false BFN. It had happened to a lot of girls I was cycling with at the time. They got a BFN and cried their eyes out ony to go on to have a BFP I think you are still a little early with the HPT. I will keep my fingers crossed for you!

[kizmet]

I'd still be holding out some hope. I didn't get a second line until 10dp5dt.

[angelaezra]

I am 8dp6dt and my FRER is still BFN. Is there still hope for me. My Beta is scheduled for 10/4. I sarted POAS since sunday, i dont even see a faint line. one dark line is all I see.

Newhere - Yes, I certainly think there is hope for you. For some women it takes a little linger for your HCG to raise high even to test positive. I would not give up until you hear your results from your beta.

I want to wish you good luck!

Angela

[leorira11]

and in either case, keep us posted!

[Newhere]

Thank you Ladies , I will keep you guys posted.

I called my RE's office and rescheduled my beta to Friday(10/01) instead of 10/04. I did not POAS this morning, I will try my best not to tomorrow and Friday. Will know something by Friday.

[margi26]

Good luck tomorrow!!!! Sending lots of baby dust your way...let's hear about a BFP!!!

[Newhere]

The doc just called and gave me the news : BFN

He told me to take another appointment to sit down and talk with the doctor about our next steps. I am thinking nothing until atleast January. My son is getting ready for a bone marrow transplant and his radiation starts in 8 days. I dont know if I can handle both at the same time.
Thank you Ladies for showing support, Hopefully everything will go well in the next couple of months in my life and I will see you next year(I really hope most of you are on the pregnancy board by then). Good luck!!!!!

[leorira11]

I'm so sorry to hear about your BFN....

[margi26]

So sorry "newhere"---BFN is always so disappointing. Sounds like you have a lot on your plate. Hope that all goes smoothly with your son's transplant...I cannot even imagine what you are going through. You are clearly a strong woman!

Don't forget to take care of YOU and see you back here when you are ready! This board really has the most amazing women for support, encouragement, information, and inspiration! I myself feel so blessed to have found them.

Take care.