How do you find a surrogate in the UK?

[Vickyp]

Hi all

We did IVF 5 times and were finally successful with our baby boy in 2006. Since then I have had two miscarriages and a natural pregnancy. We still have 4 embryos frozen and are very keen to use them but I was diagnosed with early stage breast cancer in August so I am not sure whetyher it would be wise for me to be pregnant again - particularly as it was oestrogen receptive. I was wondering if anyone knew anything about surrogacy in the UK - how to find one and any experiences of course would be really helpful. I am really very upset by the thought of having to destroy my embryos and although I have recently extended the freeze time from 5 yrs to 10 yrs, the 5 yrs is up in April and after this I believe I can only use them myself or donate them for research. I don't want to put myself at any increased risk of recurrence - which I fear may be the case if I am pregnant again but I also don't want to destroy my embryo's. I could of course donate them before April but that is SO soon and I will be most likely be infertile after chemo. Any help would be really appreciated - Sorry to go on so long! Vicky

[Friendly]

http://www.surrogacy.org.uk

Hi, I think this site will answer some of your questions. Good luck. Not used surrogacy myself as dh wasn't keen so we adopted a little boy.

[irena]

Hi everyone..I was infertile during 9 years and had many surgeries and IVF faillures.. Eventually we made up our mind to find surrogate mother .We were in Ukraine Kiev and later in Georgia .Because of the Chernobyl finally we choose Georgia.. They have great surrogate mothers and clinic and doctors are also perfect..Our son is 2 years old now..We want another baby now..

[dreamcometrue]

We were from UK and had no joy for 5 years
Message Yes we thoroughly recommend treatment in India. we did surrogacy there 10 times! So from this experience we can safely say to others that you're wasting your time hanging about in the west!
There's a lot of info and detail that you can search for Bobby and Nikki on the web.
oh and if you are white and still need an egg donor, relax, most couples who do surrogacy in India are white and most couples who need donor eggs are white too and happy to use Indian donor eggs. Your names will be on the birth certificate irrespective of whose eggs or sperm was used.
Your baby days will soon be upon you if you can shake off wrongly negative perceptions by those losing business to overseas clinics.
Be brave and follow our lead.


We have a baby daughter after 14 years and second baby due in Aug 2010

[woodyanita]

Surrogacy program in Asian countries like India is very cheaper and economical. If you are thinking of India you can try at Rotunda The center for human Reproduction. Think of rotunda with surrogacy,surrogacy India,Gestational surrogacy India,what is surrogacy and surrogacy costs.

[Victorialeitman]

Hi everyone..I was infertile during 9 years and had many surgeries and IVF faillures.. Eventually we made up our mind to find surrogate mother .We were in Ukraine Kiev and later in Georgia .Because of the Chernobyl finally we choose Georgia.. They have great surrogate mothers and clinic and doctors are also perfect..Our son is 2 years old now..We want another baby now..

Hi!Can u tell me more about surrogacy in Ukraine? Did u hear anything about International Reproductive Technologies Support Agency?
We r planning to have a baby through them there in a month or two.

Thank u!

[theknightrider61]

Hi if you are using a GS, I am an available donor,

"Don’t look at your
form, however ugly or beautiful. Look at love and at the aim of your
quest...O you whose lips are parched, keep looking for water. Those
parched lips are proof that eventually you will reach the source."

Hi I am an attractive blond on my fathers side dutch French British and norse and naturally proud of my heritage which my father proved to me by showing papers in his streamline travel trailer proving some of my first ancestors from overseas in south Carolina were half French the French are a great people who don't surrender to terrorists as a result and out of pride for.my heritage and respect 4 my father and a desire 2 help I extend myself as an eggdonor I am on "the Pill" so all my eggs are healthy and safe I'm at the older end of the spectrum 4 donors yet what a surrogate can do I do better! 32 if an open minded doctor wants 2 work with me I am a great candidate using the pill means all my eggs that id otherwise lose are preserved so open ur mind and take a chance! Love, theknightrider61@yahoo.com talk 2 me I'm someone who cares

"Be like a river in generosity and giving help. Be like a sun in
tenderness and pity. Be like night when covering other's faults. Be like
a dead when furious and angry. Be like earth in modesty and humbleness.
Be like a sea in tolerance. Be as you are or as you look like."

[Intended parents]

We would like to WARN about the services of IRTSA and the clinic NeoMed that they use.

We have recently gone through an process that has been like a period of hell. All our mail conversations is saved and in the future we will start a blogg and present how their responses change from the initial contact until later when we were in the middle of the treatment, depending on them and in their hands. Their treatment were, according to several doctors that we have contacted in our home county Sweden, proved to be dangerous to our donor. Right now we are exhausted from what happened but would like to WARN everybody from using there services.

[emma anders]

We are looking forward to the birth of
our son and we are preparing his room.
We are very happy, that all is well with Tatiana, our surrogate mother.
Now we are waiting for the birth of our son.
When you write that he is born, Thomas will fly as soon as possible to
Kharkov to sign all the papers.
Now to our program. We have tried 4 times to get a child and it was not
successful until the last time. It was very hard for us for the three times
it failed.
Also we only got mails from the clinic, which said that the pregnancy faild.
And now to La Vita Felice.
We are in great parts very happy with your service and the communication
between us especially with your part in this.
In the end we are very happy that we started the program and that it was
successful. We are thankful that you provide such good service to people
like us who wish to get a family.

[davina]

can anyone tell me about their expierence in neomed clinic with ivf and icsi
i have not been there before but was introduce throught the medical care eurpoe to the clinc and hope to start off with them
dont know how the standard of clinic in ukrain is but hoping that anyone can give me any information

[Anymargarco]

Hi there,
When I saw the message of irene got surprised a bit. How did Chernobyl influenced your decision? Because I know that there are many clinics with success rates that are high enough. And really a huge amount of infertil people become parents in Ukraine. And I hope to be one of those people Our surrogate is pregnant and we are looking forward for the biggest day! the day when our little angel will be born really can`t wait it..
good luck to all future parents

[milagro7]

Free Online Seminar! January 29, 2015

BioTexCom managers will answer all your questions concerning surrogacy and egg donation during the video – chat.
Reference for participance in webinar
English speaking managers of the Center for Human Reproduction BioTexCom will held the web conference on January 29, 2015 (Thursday) from 16:00 to 17:00 Kiev time (GMT + 2) which will take place on the clinic’s official web site. Meeting online in a real time is a unique opportunity for the infertile people to get acquainted with the assisted methods of reproductive medicine, and ask any questions with the regards to the surrogacy, egg donation, procedure stages, donors’ selection, legal issues and many others. English-speaking managers who daily work with foreign clients and lead the programs will help you to understand all the tricks of modern reproduction. You need only to write your question in the chat.
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Visit the official website of the clinic BioTexCom http://mother-surrogate.info/;
Click on the box “webinar” on the home page;
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Fill in your name;
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