rypell1985 wrote:Sonya...Do you want to know the funny part (not funny haha by any means)....my ovaries don't even work! I do not ovulate. Each month my blood work shows that I do no ovulate, hense the IVF. So now, when I thought this woul dbe the easy part, they aren't cooperating...now suddenly they don't want to be shut down!? How frustrating! My mom and I were talking about this last night, and I was wondering if it may be because they are still feeling the effects of the stims a month ago? Who the heck knows! You seem so educated on all of this and I admire you for that. I am going through this blindly and I wonder if it doesn't bite me in the ass sometimes? It all goes back to December when I was trying to schedule my HSG...when AF came the nurse said that the RE was going to be out of town and we would have to wait until my next AF. Well when my nest AF came, I was still bleeding when my HSG rolled around so they pushed it back a week....why could they have pushed it back a week the month before?? Then I asked if we could start in April, the same month as my trial transfer and they said no because RE wanted a month in between. Well by the time my next AF came around I had 3 dormoids. I feel like if I were more educated or more confident in all of this I could have stood up for myself and had my first IVF last April. Now the year is coming to an end and I haven't even had a transfer yet. I have insurance coverage and with my surgery my deductible is met for the year. Once we get into Jaunary, I start over again. Sorry for the novel....long story short, I wish I had you knowledge and voice through this whole thing!
karenthescorpio...YAY FOR STARTING STIMS!!!!
Margi...another POAS addict? Are you our next Sonya? Let's see pics whent hose BFPs start showing up!
You know what... I was totally ignorant about all this until I miscarried in July 2008. I dealt with it through educating myself. It was what I did to handle the grief. I read and I wrote and read and wrote. I actually had a pharmacist call me the other day to ask how I suggested administer a hcg shot! LOL
I became fascinated with my own body, the simplicity and complexity of how conception works. I read on hormones, cycles, medications for this and that, and when we finally moved onto IVF, I knew what we were doing. I was also blessed (cursed) to be from a small town with a horrible obgyn who used to do some RE work a long, long time ago. He is a certified quack and I learned a lot from his retarded attempts of making me pregnant. Like how putting a woman on clomid for twelve months straight can be dangerous (I had begun to have vision issues - trailing images, spots, etc.). Or proving that I had a bona fide progesterone deficiency by insisting I be tested in the very early stages of miscarriages (chemical pregnancies or early miscarriages that I lost before 21dpo). Yadda yadda yadda.
I believe we NEED to be warriors and protectors of our fertility and bodies. Not all doctors are right, and not all doctors are compassionate. If we don't question them, they don't question themselves. A patient who is educated is someone they know to take seriously... they know we won't just tuck tail and listen... we want to know WHY.... HOW... what makes you think that?
You are going to be just fine. Everything will work out.....
