Anyone else testing on 5th Nov 2010???

[Phyona]

Margi, I'm so sorry! I can't imagin how u must be feeling (hugs)
I've been spottin more today, looks like some fresh blood in there, really nervous! Hope it's not bad news for me tomorrow!!

[margi26]

Phyona: Thanks for the support. I am still rooting for you! Hang in there...just one more day. Try to think positively. I want to help you celebrate tomorrow to help pull me out of the dumps.

[eyes230]

Margi, I am sorry! I wish there was something I could say to you, hang in there...it has to happen just is taking us all a little longer. The waiting is always the hardest. Stay strong, it will be your turn soon!

[eyes230]

Bfn

[Phyona]

It's unfortunately a bfn for me to
I started bleeding properly yesterday night so I kinda new what the test was goin to say! I have had lots of tears today, but I guess it just wasn't meant to be yet!!

Eyes: I'm sry you also had a bfn (hugs) I also now kno how heartbreaking it is to see the negative result on the test!

I will talk more to everyone in a day or to but at the moment I just dnt feel like talkin about it...

[margi26]

Aw ladies: This is terribly heartbreaking...I am so sorry...take time to grieve, be mad, be disappointed, be mad some more...I am. (((((HUGS)))))

Then we can step back and plan for next steps. But for right now the emotion is just raw. So sorry.

Talk to you ladies soon.

[Phyona]

Hi Margi, I'm feelin a bit better today!! I didn't realize just how upsetting it would be!! Tryin to stay positive an think towards the FET! Do u know what the procedure is for the FET? What drugs u have to take etc??? I think it will be in a few months so I'm goin to use this time to go back to the gym an loose the weight i gained on the hormones, dye my hair and anything else I haven't been able to do for a while!!

[margi26]

Phyona: Great attitude!! So glad that you are feeling better now. I never did a FET, but I understand that they are a lot less stressful on your system and can have wonderful outcomes. Some women talk about "natural" FET. I think it depends on if you ovulate on your own or not in terms of how much intervention and hormones are needed to get you prepared. And you have 7 frosties, right?! Let them put 2 back this time and I'll bet you'll get your BFP! Taking time to get in shape, get your hair done, etc sounds like a wonderful plan.

Stay in touch!!

Eyes?: How are you doing?

AFM: I go in tomorrow to consult and (hopefully) move forward. I would like to do more accupuncture this cycle, but don't think we can afford to.

[Phyona]

Hi margi, sry I haven't been on for a while! I hope all is good with u! Well I spk to the hospital yesterday and they have said I have to have 3 bleeds between cycles so it will b January b4 we try again! As we now have to pay fir the treatment I am considering having 2 put back in! The nurse said I could save money by takin part in a trial were they randomly select you fir a natural or drug cycle and it's costs less than half! So I'm goin to give that a go as I wouldn't mind doin a natural fet! I have my period on time every month It's jus i only have 1 tube and it's blocked!
I will keep checking in but I'm goin back to normality for a while till this all starts again!!!

[margi26]

Phyona: That sounds like a wonderful plan! Good for you...and half off--wow--can't beat that. I would definitely say to put back two--as long as you are "ok" with multiples.

I don't blame you wanting to check out of this forum for a bit and feel "normal" but remember we are here if doubts, questions or anything arise!

Take care of yourself!! And I will be checking back on YOU early in the year to see how your FET goes.

Enjoy your holidays if I don't hear from you in a while.

Baby Dust!!

PS: Eyes: ?? How are you holding up? I know how hard it is to have so many disappointments. It is so unfair! But you have 6 frosties right? Do you have a plan? Did your RE discuss any changes they could make to increase your success? Hang in there!! Your time will come. We are here for you in the meantime....have they thought about doing PGD? To test the embryos to make sure there isn't a genetic/chromosomal issue? I ask because several of the women didn't even realize they were carriers for disorders until they started IVF cycling. Some women now test the embryos so that they only put back the healthy ones. Sorry if that is intrusive, but it was just an idea I had.

AFM: I am moving ahead with another cycle of IUI. I didn't respond as well as last time, but I am trying to stay strong and hopeful. I have 2 mature follies and maybe a few close behind. I go Thursday.