Fall 2010 Cycle Group

[Lauren]

morning....

So I guess I am doing ok! Sipping gatorade and laying around! My urine is dark and very little amounts...my pain goes thru waves..but I think I will be ok. I really hope it is a sign of BFP but I am starting to think otherwise. My DH is so cute..all worried about me. in his mind Im pregnant..now hes positive and Im the negative one...go figure. We'll see monday..my beta is 14po..I would think I would have a positive hpt by that point.

Amanda-Hope you are resting with your feet up and LOTS of FLUIDS!!!!!!!!!! The progesterone causes irritation to the cervix which can cause little blood vessels to "pop" and cause spotting. Fluids can knock out those cramps...trust me!!!! It may just be a combination of things...and nothing to worry about! maybe you were too active or your dehydrated...so rest up girl!!! let dh wait on you

Tammy-Ok so you have to lend them the stuff...your right. you kinda started all this. But you better let them know when you get your BFP in december yours gonna need it ALL back I hope you can find some way to enjoy urself tonight. whenever I have to go to things that I would prefer not too I just focus myself and energy on my dh and I and make it a great time!!! Do you always do back to back cycles? I dont think if I get a BFN I will be able too bc of OHSS and my lab shuts down at xmas I think. I will most likely wait a few months..

[DandMe]

morning....

So I guess I am doing ok! Sipping gatorade and laying around! My urine is dark and very little amounts...my pain goes thru waves..but I think I will be ok. I really hope it is a sign of BFP but I am starting to think otherwise. My DH is so cute..all worried about me. in his mind Im pregnant..now hes positive and Im the negative one...go figure. We'll see monday..my beta is 14po..I would think I would have a positive hpt by that point.

Amanda-Hope you are resting with your feet up and LOTS of FLUIDS!!!!!!!!!! The progesterone causes irritation to the cervix which can cause little blood vessels to "pop" and cause spotting. Fluids can knock out those cramps...trust me!!!! It may just be a combination of things...and nothing to worry about! maybe you were too active or your dehydrated...so rest up girl!!! let dh wait on you

Tammy-Ok so you have to lend them the stuff...your right. you kinda started all this. But you better let them know when you get your BFP in december yours gonna need it ALL back I hope you can find some way to enjoy urself tonight. whenever I have to go to things that I would prefer not too I just focus myself and energy on my dh and I and make it a great time!!! Do you always do back to back cycles? I dont think if I get a BFN I will be able too bc of OHSS and my lab shuts down at xmas I think. I will most likely wait a few months..

Hey Lauren; it sounds like you are feeling a little better. Keep pumping those liquids into you and combat the ohss. So strange that you got it with the number of follies you got - maybe it is a good sign!! I've heard it's extremely uncomfortable and honestly I was kind of freaked out because I was considered a high risk for it. Did you bother to poas today? I am keeping everything possible crossed for your bfp on Monday

[margi26]

Lauren: Sooooo glad that you are feeling a bit better. Keep up the PMA and take it easy!! Listen to DH

Rio: So sorry about your loss of your embie...all of this process is so filled with ups and downs. But your other 3 are snuggling in and I’m praying for your BFP.

Heather: Welcome! You have come to the right place. These women are the most strong and supportive women you could meet. So sorry for your loss--words cannot express. Hoping that you have success with your upcoming FET. Keep us posted!

Kynlee: Sorry you may have pulled a muscle. Ouch. Yes, Tuesday will be here before you know it..hard decision about whether to POAS or not. Personal too. For some it increases anxiety, for others it helps to decrease. It isn’t for everyone. For me? I'm an addict...

Tammy, Tammy, Tammy: First--don’t ever apologize for venting, and you are NEVER being inconsiderate. Everyone has different pains at different degrees and different times--you know that is what we are here for--the good, the bad and the ugly. SO sorry that you are dealing with the ugly (your situation with your brother) on top of the bad (BFN). You are strong and it sounds like things were very good between you and your brother at one point, so I am hoping that some day soon he realizes that his head is stuck up somewhere-where-the-sun-don’t-shine and will come apologize to his dear sister for his A-H behavior. In the meanwhile, try to keep focused on the positives in your life-Zach, DH, etc. And certainly don’t be bullied into giving away your nice baby stuff! For goodness sakes, that is absurd!! You will be pregnant this next time (you and me both!!) and you will be USING your baby stuff. My heart is with you and I am sending you strength. Focusing on the next cycle ahead is what helps me too.. I like the "moving on" idea as well. I hope that you enjoyed that glass of wine-or 2 or 3, and I too, am in search of a chocolate chip cookie! ((HUGS))

Ester and Cheri: Good luck with ER today!!! Closer and closer to PUPO!! Can’t wait to hear your reports later today.

Baby_blu: So sorry to hear about your pulled ligament--ouch!! 6 weeks to heal....but glad you are starting to feel better already. Don’t push yourself though!

Renee: No need for forgiveness--we love hearing from the BFP’s Sorry it hasn’t been an easy journey for you so far. Congratulations on your twins, and keep us posted!

Amanda: you cracked me up with your story about running around the house covered in oatmeal...what a visual! So very glad you have some answers and can get some real relief! Sorry to hear about a little spotting last night...it is so hard to ever “relax” during this process...but as you said, it is fairly common in normal, healthy pregnancies. Try to focus on that and any other possible distractions--movies, reading, and anything restful. Sleep until Monday? Hm....maybe you have an idea there....I think I will ask if I can “sleep” my 2ww this go-round! Sounds a lot less stressful to me.

Leorira: I think it is time to resume the AF dance for ya! Wooya!

AFM: Stimming away. Went to acupuncture yesterday...go in for SnS on Monday to see how all is progressing and to determine trigger/IUI day. I think I mentioned in a previous post that AF was horrific this month. I was thinking it might have had to do with being on crinone for the first time? Anyway, I am still bleeding which is VERY unusual for me. I usual finish up within 3 days and today is day 6. Should I be concerned that this will affect my ability to move ahead with IUI early next week in terms of my lining? I haven't ever had to worry about that before.

[karin1]

I thought that I posted last night before bed, but it must not have gone through. Anyways.....we have a lot going on here. I went to see the house and I LOVE it. DH has good taste. It's not perfect...but with a little bit of work it can be. DH works in Silicon Valley and travels for work every week. He flies out Mon and comes home Wed or Thurs, he's tired of it. So this is why we want to move. It will be nice to sleep with him every night. We are getting offers on ours here and showing it alot. I had lunch and shopping with my MIL and SIL yesterday. As for IVF.......My ED was triggered last night! ER is Sunday morning! I am so nervous and excited! He said he expects 10+. I am starting my PIO this morning and am dreading it so bad!

I will catch up with ladies later! Lots to do!


Have a great weekend!

[moorebaby]

On our way home from the er. They got 22 eggs. Tomorrow we find out how many were mature & the fert report. Thank you so much for all the support! I love you ladies!

[crystal335]

Hello ladies: I just received my beta results and at 16 dpo it's at 926. Ultrasound is 11/29 at 11:00.

[moorebaby]

Hello ladies: I just received my beta results and at 16 dpo it's at 926. Ultrasound is 11/29 at 11:00.

Congrats! That is a fantastic beta #!

[klinger13]

Thanks ladies for making me feel better!! My PMA's coming back to me as the day goes on so thank you!

ester - 22 eggs - WOW!!! Congrats and can't wait to hear your fert report. I have a feeling it's going to be great this time!

karin - YAY for the house and for ED triggering and having her ER tomorrow. I can't wait to hear a great report from her ER!

crystal - that 2nd beta is awesome!! Can't wait until your u/s!!

[riogirl71]

Amanda - I had some big cramps too and the spotting is mostlikely from your vajayjay, even some bleeding is ok as long as you are not soaking a pad. Also don't forget that because of IVF your ovaries are swollen so when you cramp, those hurt too although it seems like it is your uterus. I had that with my son, my ovaries took forever to recover and not hurt, so any little cramp and even gas made them hurt. But we can't really identify the exact part sometimes so I assume this IVF pregnancy start will be different than the previous ones you had becaue of that. Realx and your bean(s) is fine!!!

Tammy - Remember PMApsy? She was a super cool girl here and decided to try a couple of times after her son, it didn't work and she went on to have a great time as a 3 some. So I do pray and hope that your next IVF works, just like I pray our IVF works too. But if by a long shot they don't, I am sure we will both be fine with our one miracle son. WE were so blessed having our sons with our first IVF. Have you considered taking a break of IVF to do DHEA or something like that? I can share my protocol with you if it helps any, I had 2x the number of eggs this time. I have been going back and forth too on whether we would try again or not since we are out of pocket. I really hope we can be pregnant again together Tammy, you are a dear friend and I pray so hard for your BFP. I understand the pressure you would have to lend them your stuff. But hopefully you won't need to cause your baby will be in there! Did you do AH? Sorry about the family drama!

[riogirl71]

Crystal _ congratulations on your strong beta!!!!!!!

Moorebaby - 22 eggs wow that is awesome!!! I can't wait for the fert report! Lots and lots of embies!!!

karin - good luck on the move! We will be about 1 hour apart, maybe our new babies can play one day! GOod luck on ET!

margi - I sent you a pm back we transfered 4 and it is weird to think ok I really want one to snuggle in, but that means the others don't make it, oh mommy's guilt!!! I am doing Acupuncture too for the first time this cycle. Sorry your bleeding is so heavy.

Lauren - glad you are feeling better today. Are you going to POAS again?

karenscorpio - did you have your ET yet?

AFM - Can I POAS today to test out the trigger? I am 7dpo today. The baby is supposed to be attaching to the lining today so no HCG in my blood yet but my trigger should be gone right? How much longer do I need to take it easy and not lift anything?

[baby_blu73]

Amanda - Maybe I should PM you about this, but... How are your BMs? I had "backed up" and had three insanely nasty cramps in a row (like, had to breathe through them they were so bad), thought for sure something awful was about to happen. Thank the Lord it was just my bowels! They said it's super crowded down there with ovaries being huge and uterus growing, intestines get squished. Just a thought to consider, 'cause I know you're dwelling on it... Sending good vibes and prayers your way!

Tammy - Geez hon! You definitely have A LOT on your plate! Your family drama reminds me a bit of my fam (for instance, when I got married, my family wouldn't let me choose my BFF as my Matron of Honor... my lazy, immature sister was somehow granted the glory of that postion ) It's so crazy how some families just EXPECT certain members to do what they would like for them to do, rather than let them make their own decisions and HOPE it's what they would like to see happen. Same with all of your baby stuff, they shouldn't GUILT you about YOUR stuff... Sorry to be so opinionated. Your story hits close to home. That being said, I sure admire your strength and class during this extremely difficult time. Keep your head held high and know that even if your biological family can't muster up the compassion to show their support for you and your DH during this trying time, your IVF family is here for you! I just know things will turn around for you

Lauren - Glad to hear surfing the couch for a day is already bringing some relief.

afm - I'm turning into a raging lunatic today! Dog puked twice on the carpet (guess who had to get down on the floor to clean it up???), kids are driving me insane (rainy and cold outside and if I hear "I'm bored" one more time, I may pull my hair out) and I feel like throwing up too. DH probably thinks I'm losing it, but I can't help but be ridiculously frustrated. Since this whole process has begun, my house is falling to shambles without Mom up and at 'em to keep it in order... And it's seriously pissing me off today!

[riogirl71]

I have to ask you this, my RE called me today and said our embryo did not freeze because it had some - insert complicated term here - but that the good news is that he was the poorest one of the 5 (we put in 4) and he made it to blast with no problem so she thinks the other ones would have made blasts too. Now here is the weird thing. She asked me:
"Do you have any pregnancy symptoms, you would know since you were pregnant with IVF before" My transfer was Tuesday and there is no way I would have symptoms yet, the baby is not even attached. I said I was tired and in a fog from the progesterone. I do have some peculiar symptoms but they don't come until later. She did say everything went so well and it looks good for a BFP!

[dvcantu7378]

ok just tried posting and it disappeared!

Hello All,
I haven't posted lately but I have been keeping up with everyone.
Amanda: Congrats!! I'm so happy for you. Don't worry so much.
Osi: Keep a PMA and don't give up
Rio: Congrats on PUPO
Tammy: hang in there I understand I have a crazy mexican family who is the same. Sorry for BFN
So you want to hear some stupid crap!
I finally go to RE follow up after the BFN. I just didn't want to deal with him cuz he can be negative. Anyway, he comes to tell me that as he was doing ET he had a hard time finding a endometrium linning. WHAT??? Now he is tell me this after the whole ordeal. Did'nt he see that before the ER? Ok so now he wants me to go to a another RE in San Antonio. Well this is why I went to him because he was the only RE in a 300 mile radius. So now he wants me to go to this RE so that I can get a second opinoin cuz now he is saying this is it I have to get a surrogate. WHAT?? AGAIN??? But correct me if I am wrong can a linning be worked on with meds. If is its thin then with meds it can be thickened. Can you believe this shit? I never felt comfortable going to him he was always so negative and I never felt like he was telling me everything I always had to ask the nurse for info. So what do you all think? Crazy right? Victoira

[Cheri76]

Hi everyone!

I'm still in a bit of pain so I just wanted to give an update and personals later.

They only got 10 eggs which is kinda disappointing since they were seeing 18+ on the ultrasounds. Not sure what happened, but I was pretty out of it this morning and didn't get a chance to ask a lot of questions. Has this happened to anyone else? I know its not a bad number, but I just hope that this isnt an indicator of egg quality. I really thought they were going to come back and tell me some fantastic number. Just a little bummed. Hopefully, I get good fertilization rates though.

[Karian]

Tammy: sorry for what you are going through... Waiting for my Chocolate Chip cookies in the mail!

Lauren: Hope your OHSS is better.

x0Heather0x: Welcome!!!

Klinger: I'm sure everything will be fine! I wish you the best!!! I can't believe you u/s is next week.... Time seems to fly!

Karin1: Good luck on the house hunt!... Congrats on ED triggering!... You will be PUPO soon....

Moorebaby: That's awesome!... 22 eggs is great... Congrats, now get some rest and don't forget to drink plenty of fluids!.

Crystal: Great beta!!!

Riogirl: Sticky thoughts for you....

dvcantu7378: your RE sounds crazy!... Maybe it's not such a bad idea to get a second opinion.

Cheri76: I'm sure you'll get a great fert report tomorrow!!!... Good Luck

AFM: I got very bloated after my ER. I went to see RE and they gave me IV fluids and sent me home. He never mentioned that I had OHSS, but told me to continue drinking lots of fluids and to rest. My ET is scheduled for this monday, so I will be having a 5day transfer. I took this week off because I wanted to be able to rest and not to worry about work.

All our embryos are doing great.... al 21 of them. I don't know what we are going to do with so many. They even showed us pictures today! DH got very emotional when he saw the pics. Now he wants to donate a few of them to other couples that have been less fortunate than us. I don't feel comfortable with that. I don't want to be thinking about the "other" kids we might have somewhere else.... I'm sorry if i'm being a little selfish, but I can't see it any other way. I'm still thinking about it and would love your input on this matter....