Looking for November Cycle Buddies

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DJ-BJ
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Re: Looking for November Cycle Buddies

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OMG im so sorry blair...i wish we could do something to ease the pain you're feeling right now. i know its harder everytime cause you think that everything is ok but when the time comes that you lose your angel...it is never easy...oh so sorry for you....

riogirl...thats great news..im soooo happy for u..i wish i could say the same thing when i have my first u/s on tues... now im more scared...maybe i need to pray more and harder....
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My Re just called my Beta doubled from 16 to 38!!! :D

I know, I know, I know....its still really low...but I am still hopeful!

Next Beta Monday...Oh gosh Monday is sooooo far away!! :shock:
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Sweetie Pie -Low count
IVF Oct 2009 -CP
IVF June 2010- BFN
IVF Nov 2010-BFP- Ectopic
FET- 4/15, BFP (hpt)- 4/19
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May 4-1 beautiful blob gestation sac and yolk;May 11-HB :)
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Just stopping in to send Blair a virtual hug. I'm so sorry.
IVF # 1 - Fresh cycle ended in OHSS with 2 frosties May 2010
FET # 1 - Transfer 13 Aug 2010, Beta 8/24 101, Beta 8/31 2021, Beta 9/7 17017
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Blair- I'm so sorry to hear your news. You are in our thoughts and prayers. xoxo
Me: 40, mild pcos
DH: 38, male factor
IVF#2 BFP! Twins! PTL at 23wks
IVF #3 Nov '10 BFP
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Blair: I sent you a PM...but I am so very sorry. This is so difficult and I wish there were the "right" words to take away the pain and loss. But there aren't. Just know that many of us--myself included, have been there and lost. I am so sorry. Please take good care of yourself---hold tight to DH....and realize that we are all here feeling your sadness. Let us help if we can. ((((HUGS))))
Me: 44, endo. & 1 tube due to rupture
DH 36 fine
IVF#1 double ectopic/severe OHSS 12/08
IVF#2 BFN
IVF#3 BFP-->m/c
IUI#1, #2, and #3, 2010 BFN
IVF#4-2/11 HPT=BFP 11dpo; 13dpo=240! 15dpo=653, 20dpo=5522,3/29=u/s-1sac1yolk 4/4=2 HBs!
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BabyDreamz: Yes! So glad that you got a rise...now let's keep it coming! Sending you lots of baby dust....take good care of yourself and let us know Monday--first thing! ImageImage

Rio: My friend!! I said it on the Fall Board--I'll say it again here: I am beyond ecstatic for you and DH!! I cried out when I read your news. This is so fabulous--in fact *twice* as good as you hoped for. :D :D Hope that you and DH are celebrating...I love that he was carrying the picture around.

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Me: 44, endo. & 1 tube due to rupture
DH 36 fine
IVF#1 double ectopic/severe OHSS 12/08
IVF#2 BFN
IVF#3 BFP-->m/c
IUI#1, #2, and #3, 2010 BFN
IVF#4-2/11 HPT=BFP 11dpo; 13dpo=240! 15dpo=653, 20dpo=5522,3/29=u/s-1sac1yolk 4/4=2 HBs!
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Blair, my heart just breaks for you. After what we went through this summer and now this...I know how it feels, and it hurts. Don't give up on hoping though, the silver lining in this is that you can get pregnant...the right little embryo will come along and things will not always be like this. I'm so sorry. I've had a blighted ovum before, but I carried it until the 12th week without knowing, it's a horrible thing to endure. Take care of yourself and don't give up. I will be praying for you. Big hugs to you.
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RIO What the heck!! Holy Cow, Mama...when you do things you do them big! You totally just made my crappy day sooo much better. :) I am thrilled for you!! That is the best news of the day.

Babydreamz~ Yay for a doubling beta...and yes Monday is far away. Sorry you have to wait, but you got some good news today. Still low, but doubling is good. Hold on to that. :)


AFM~ What a crapper of a day...my whole body is aching from the major tension. I was in a court deposition all day long for the loss of our son. It was hard, and they asked me questions for 5 hours. Then my husband answered questions for 2 more hours. I found myself feeling motion sick sitting there at the end...don't know if that is from stress or pregnancy. I hurt all over and think I will go to bed now...I'm exhausted. Night all, glad to hear some good news from Rio and Baby. :)
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blairwh58 wrote:Rio- Congrats on such great news. I am glad things worked out and you can feel relieved from all that unneccessary worrying you did.

AFM- Thanks for all the support but since the sac measured 11.2 Friday, and only 12.1 yesterday there really isnt much room for hope. It should have grown 1mm every day and at this point (from the LMP) I would actually be 7wk2d today...and since it was only measuring 5wk6d I think its a lost cause. I agree that sometimes the RE jump too fast, but I think in this case they are right. I appreciate all the support and hopefully I can convince DH to try again in January. Until then I may take a break from the board and try to re-focus my attention on school or work.
Blair- once again, i am so sorry. You are in my prayers today. loads of babydust to you sweety.
Moi-1tube after ectopic
Sweetie Pie -Low count
IVF Oct 2009 -CP
IVF June 2010- BFN
IVF Nov 2010-BFP- Ectopic
FET- 4/15, BFP (hpt)- 4/19
Beta 15dpo- 392 ;Beta 19dpo- 2654;Beta 24dpo- 13,701
May 4-1 beautiful blob gestation sac and yolk;May 11-HB :)
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Blair - I am so sorry! Praying for you.

Rio- Seriously! You gave me the shivers congrats girl! What were your beta's?

Babydream - Thank you Lord!! So excited for you!!! LOL!! Monday is far away but enjoy the weekend and knowing your baby is growing Waaaaahoooooo!

AFM: 3rd Beta today - waiting for call with #'s. Feeling some cramping - hoping this is normal…
Me-35 (no problems)
DH-33 (male factor)
IVF -BFP 5/08 (twins-m/c 1 @ 9 weeks, beautiful girl -1/7/09)
BFP 12-5-10
Beta #1 12-6-10: 26.5
Beta #2 12-8-10: 79.2
Beta #3 12-10-10: 169 (Grow Baby Grow)
Next U/S 12-28-10 (DH Birthday!)
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Blessedmomof1thruIVF wrote:Blair - I am so sorry! Praying for you.

Rio- Seriously! You gave me the shivers congrats girl! What were your beta's?

Babydream - Thank you Lord!! So excited for you!!! LOL!! Monday is far away but enjoy the weekend and knowing your baby is growing Waaaaahoooooo!

AFM: 3rd Beta today - waiting for call with #'s. Feeling some cramping - hoping this is normal…
Blessed- yr #s are going to be AWESOME! update as soon as you hear back from RE. Yup, cramping is normal. I too get paranoid about periods like cramps, but I try to be positive and think that my little bean is growing :) Do u get cramps on the sides?
Moi-1tube after ectopic
Sweetie Pie -Low count
IVF Oct 2009 -CP
IVF June 2010- BFN
IVF Nov 2010-BFP- Ectopic
FET- 4/15, BFP (hpt)- 4/19
Beta 15dpo- 392 ;Beta 19dpo- 2654;Beta 24dpo- 13,701
May 4-1 beautiful blob gestation sac and yolk;May 11-HB :)
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mellow4 wrote:RIO What the heck!! Holy Cow, Mama...when you do things you do them big! You totally just made my crappy day sooo much better. :) I am thrilled for you!! That is the best news of the day.

Babydreamz~ Yay for a doubling beta...and yes Monday is far away. Sorry you have to wait, but you got some good news today. Still low, but doubling is good. Hold on to that. :)


AFM~ What a crapper of a day...my whole body is aching from the major tension. I was in a court deposition all day long for the loss of our son. It was hard, and they asked me questions for 5 hours. Then my husband answered questions for 2 more hours. I found myself feeling motion sick sitting there at the end...don't know if that is from stress or pregnancy. I hurt all over and think I will go to bed now...I'm exhausted. Night all, glad to hear some good news from Rio and Baby. :)
Mellow- I am sorry that you have to deal with all this crap, instead of just enjoying yr precious preggyness. 5 hrs of questioning, :shock: that must be rough...hope you get to just relax the entire weekend!
Moi-1tube after ectopic
Sweetie Pie -Low count
IVF Oct 2009 -CP
IVF June 2010- BFN
IVF Nov 2010-BFP- Ectopic
FET- 4/15, BFP (hpt)- 4/19
Beta 15dpo- 392 ;Beta 19dpo- 2654;Beta 24dpo- 13,701
May 4-1 beautiful blob gestation sac and yolk;May 11-HB :)
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babydreamz: Thanks! Cramping isn't in the side. I m/c'ed one of the twins at 9 weeks last time so it's different cramping. I hope it's growing pains =)

AFM - Beta #3 Doubled, It was 166! I freaked because the Nurse sounded sad but than she said it's growing beautifully and that it's up to 166. Damn her for having a bad day, she almost gave me a heartattack! U/S next Friday!
Me-35 (no problems)
DH-33 (male factor)
IVF -BFP 5/08 (twins-m/c 1 @ 9 weeks, beautiful girl -1/7/09)
BFP 12-5-10
Beta #1 12-6-10: 26.5
Beta #2 12-8-10: 79.2
Beta #3 12-10-10: 169 (Grow Baby Grow)
Next U/S 12-28-10 (DH Birthday!)
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Baby - I posted in other places too but congrats and praying for a great number on Monday! Enjoy your BFP!

blessed - my numbers were 107 at 13dpo and 387 at 16dpo so I honestly thought one little guy! My estradiol was through the roof like 2nd trimester pregnancy and I had late onset OHSS and now I know why! Cramping is very normal! Let us know what your great beta is!

mellow - I am so sorry you had a tough day, reliving and answering questions about such a tragedy will take a huge toll on you and your body. I hope you are feeling a little better today for the sake of your triplets ;););) yeah can you believe this? If this is not a cool miracle story? Not even a second sac a week ago!

SDtrying - I vote you get twins too on your next cycle :) gor for the 3 under 3 theme! I was scared of twins too but at my age they want to be aggressive in transferring so we transferred 4, with our son it was 4 also but only one made it. We are all out of pocket so we wanted that BFP this time and we could not afford another cycle. I am shocked! You are too funny with the tube tied comment. I always worry that after we have our 3 under 3 that somehow my DH's sperm will go sky high and we get an ooops, when I am like 44 or something crazy, just because we would be done growing our family, you know how those things work. THose who really want to get pregnant don't naturally, those who don't want to get pregnant, do in a flash!

Margi - let me know how the SnS was, lots of plump follies!

DJ-BJ - how far along will you be in your US?

Blair - sending you a hug and thinking of you!

AFM my head is still spinning :) Unfortunately DH has been getting sick, his epidural leaked spinal fluid somehow and he is getting horrible migraines, poor guy! But I hope he feels better tomorrow and we are going out to celebrate at lunch! WOW and WOW. Moral of the story is, unless you are worried about an ectopic, don't get an early US!
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Blessedmomof1thruIVF wrote:babydreamz: Thanks! Cramping isn't in the side. I m/c'ed one of the twins at 9 weeks last time so it's different cramping. I hope it's growing pains =)

AFM - Beta #3 Doubled, It was 166! I freaked because the Nurse sounded sad but than she said it's growing beautifully and that it's up to 166. Damn her for having a bad day, she almost gave me a heartattack! U/S next Friday!
YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For Beta doubling and growing pain!! I am really happy for you. :lol: :lol:
My RE refuses to do another beta till MOnday, so its going to be a looooong weekend.
Enjoy being preggys!!! :D
Moi-1tube after ectopic
Sweetie Pie -Low count
IVF Oct 2009 -CP
IVF June 2010- BFN
IVF Nov 2010-BFP- Ectopic
FET- 4/15, BFP (hpt)- 4/19
Beta 15dpo- 392 ;Beta 19dpo- 2654;Beta 24dpo- 13,701
May 4-1 beautiful blob gestation sac and yolk;May 11-HB :)
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