
Rio - I'm so sorry it looks like one of your twins isn't going to make it. It's completely understandable to grieve over the loss so you take your time getting through that pain. And your other baby seems like it's good and healthy so just keep sending lots of positive energy and love to him/her. Let us know how Thursday's appointment goes and sending you extra virtual (((HUGS))) today.riogirl71 wrote:One of the twins lost his heartbeat and he is not going to make it, he is in a weird position but the OB really tried and could not find it. The other one seems very healthy.
I am just so upset right now. I know having twins was going to be complicated and risky but I already was in love with him/her and I am devastated. We go in again on Thursday to make sure. One in five twins don't make it, I just never thought we would be the statistic. Also they say once you see a heartbeat and sac measuring over 12mm on day 33dpo that your chances of losing that baby are 8%, I didn't think we would be in the 8% either.
I thought I was going to see both babies big and healthy and I am happy for one baby but I can't get over our loss right now.
I am praying so hard that the one baby is healthy and we can meet him/her in 8 months!
Oh Rio, I'm so sorry. Is the OB sure? I'm sure that it's got to be tough to celebrate one healthy baby while simultaneously mourning the other baby. We're all here for you... If you need to vent out some feelings, please do so. *hugs* I'm hoping for a positive report for you on Thursday.riogirl71 wrote:One of the twins lost his heartbeat and he is not going to make it, he is in a weird position but the OB really tried and could not find it. The other one seems very healthy.
I am just so upset right now. I know having twins was going to be complicated and risky but I already was in love with him/her and I am devastated. We go in again on Thursday to make sure. One in five twins don't make it, I just never thought we would be the statistic. Also they say once you see a heartbeat and sac measuring over 12mm on day 33dpo that your chances of losing that baby are 8%, I didn't think we would be in the 8% either.
I thought I was going to see both babies big and healthy and I am happy for one baby but I can't get over our loss right now.
I am praying so hard that the one baby is healthy and we can meet him/her in 8 months!