I know you know that I am very sorry but quite frankly sorry just does not cut it and nothing I do or say will help....... I am quite frankly at a loss.
My thoughts are with you
Love
Tracey
xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
Life really sucks....I am so sorry it has not worked for you....I totally understand you feeling negative.........you have really been through it and really deserve to be a mum....Life is so unfair...
When you are feeling better, speak to your clinic again re funding....Our consultant said the only reason not to get funding would be over 38, not trying to conceive for 2 years plus or having a child......He said that having passed tmts already would not go against us(I assume he meant private goes) We do not have this in writing yet but will find out in Sept..
If you like I will let you know in Sept what they say...Hopefully by then you will be pregnant!!
Anyway,
Take care my special buddy and make sure you give dh lots of cuddles(they seem to get forgotton about sometimes by everyone else if you know what I mean)
Sorry to read your news.. You are amazing to have been through so much allready. Hope u carry out your plan and come back next year.
Thinking of you
lots of love
shelld
xxx
So, so sorry You have been through so much it's just not fair. I left a message for you somewhere else but just wanted to say how sorry I am again. Have some time out and indulge yourself, you deserve it.
Take care and look after yourself.
Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
been in tmt for 4 years.Male factor. Have had 3 icsi, one ivf with donor sperm.Went for fet with 7 eggs but none made it to blastocyst. just had 5 DI. test date 27 july
July ann - O babe I am SO SO sorry - its just so unfair - its all been said - but I just wanted to send a massive hug to you - I am thinking of you and have everything crossed (for you and Jen!)
You so deserve it.
Get VERY drunk - maybe take a break and then we'll all be here for you when you decide to get back in the saddle.
Just catching up with the messages and was sorry to see your post. I wish I could say something to make you feel better but I guess I don't have any words that are going to help much. Just know that we are all here for you. Take care of yourself. Things will start to look brighter with time and I hope to see you back trying again before too long.
July Ann,
So sorry to hear that tmt hasn't worked - you deserve so much for a different outcome! As you know I know only too well the dispare at repeated failures and the heartbreak - but try to keep going and have as many different tests done as are available and I'm sure one day your turn will come.
You take care and look afte yourself,
Di xxxxxx
sorry have not been in touch, dh and I have been going through a bad patch. We have been together 12 years and tmt for 5 so it has taken it's toll. We are sorting things out and get are getting back on track. Life after a failed tmt is so hard, you would thought I would be use to it by now.You guys are the only one's who understand the despair you can feel..
well have just booked to go horse racing next week for my sister's birthday, so I hope I have better luck at the betting side of things.
hope you are all well,
july ann
been in tmt for 4 years.Male factor. Have had 3 icsi, one ivf with donor sperm.Went for fet with 7 eggs but none made it to blastocyst. just had 5 DI. test date 27 july
Sorry to hear things haven't been going so well. DH and I have been married 4 years and TTC for around 3 but it's only within the past year that we started with the infertility clinic. We have had some problems already as a result of the whole thing and, to be quite honest, I'm not sure we'd still even be speaking to each other after 5 yrs. of treatment! To your credit, the two of you must be doing something right to have gotten through all of this together so far.
I LOVE horse racing!! I just won a decent amount last week betting on Belmont (the race before the Triple Crown). I haven't been able to actually go to a track recently as there isn't one near us but usually place my bets online and watch the races on television. Nowhere near as much fun as actually being there. What track are you going to?