Sex during 2ww ssupport

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zdia
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Sex during 2ww ssupport

Post by zdia »

Hello, I had sex on day6 after my FET. Please advise if you have this experience and yet still ended with BFP. I am soo nervous. I am in 3dt8det today and just POAS and its negative but I am just hoping its negative because its too early. This is my second and final try and I am just not at all emotionally prepared for a negative result.
Age: 35yrs
PCOS
DH:36yrs
TTC:12yrs
Fertilized: 33 Retrieved, 11Embryo
IVF #1: 9/16/10, OHSS, Day5 Transfer 2 embryos-- BFN
FET #1: 2/15/11, 4 survived & 4 transfered --Beta 3/311 BFN
IVF #2: Plan to start Induction 11/30/12
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wannabeamum
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Re: Sex during 2ww ssupport

Post by wannabeamum »

Hi hun

I got told not to sexual intercourse at all in the 2ww im not sure about after?

maybe someone else can help! but my clinic said no?

Good question though? As for poas i think thats too early.

good luck i had ET on saturday xxx
Happy Bunny
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Re: Sex during 2ww ssupport

Post by Happy Bunny »

Although the doctor said not to, we had sex during the 2WW after IVF and we're pregnant. I can't remember what day it was but it wasn't in the first 4 days.
Barbara
Me: 38 2X Ectopic; DH: 38 MF
IVF #1 ET 10/11/10 BFP Brooke Marie
IVF #2 ET 11/11/11 BFP Travis James

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zdia
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Re: Sex during 2ww ssupport

Post by zdia »

wannabeamum - Thanks for the kind words of support and I wish you success and I will try being strong. 2ww is so though.

Happy Bunny
- You are my hero. I have been so terrified since i found out I shouldn't have. Especially this being my last try due to financial aspect. I have been beating myself up. Now I can sleep and continue being hopeful during PUPO. How far into the world of dreams (Preggo) are you?

zdia
Age: 35yrs
PCOS
DH:36yrs
TTC:12yrs
Fertilized: 33 Retrieved, 11Embryo
IVF #1: 9/16/10, OHSS, Day5 Transfer 2 embryos-- BFN
FET #1: 2/15/11, 4 survived & 4 transfered --Beta 3/311 BFN
IVF #2: Plan to start Induction 11/30/12
Happy Bunny
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Re: Sex during 2ww ssupport

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zdia wrote:wannabeamum - Thanks for the kind words of support and I wish you success and I will try being strong. 2ww is so though.

Happy Bunny
- You are my hero. I have been so terrified since i found out I shouldn't have. Especially this being my last try due to financial aspect. I have been beating myself up. Now I can sleep and continue being hopeful during PUPO. How far into the world of dreams (Preggo) are you?

zdia
I am 22 weeks. I beat myself up pretty bad when we broke the rule too. Looking back, I think that we just wanted some comfort and normalcy in a really stressful and uncertain time.

What I thought of to make myself feel better was crack whore moms (terrible, I know). I figured if they could get and stay pregnant while crawling the streets, having diseases and doing tons of drugs, one night of passion with my husband probably wouldn't hurt our chances (and it didn't!).
Barbara
Me: 38 2X Ectopic; DH: 38 MF
IVF #1 ET 10/11/10 BFP Brooke Marie
IVF #2 ET 11/11/11 BFP Travis James

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MamaBoo
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Re: Sex during 2ww ssupport

Post by MamaBoo »

People have sex while pregnant - especially in the early stages all the time. If this kept you from getting pregnant or maintaining a pregnancy, the earth would be alot less populated. :mrgreen:
Me 34 endo, MTHFR, clotting issues
DH 47 semi-low morphology
TTC 6 yrs
3 IUI's all BFN
IVF#1: 10/08 BFP early MC
FET#1: 03/09 BFP
DS born 11/28/09
FET#2: 03/11
DS born 11/21/2011
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Post by brit1612 »

I know the doctors tell you not to have sex, but think about all the people who get pregnant naturally. They would not even have a clue they were pregnant at this point. Try to relax as much as possible. Good luck to you!
After 7 attempts (2 negatives/3 miscarriages), we have TWO miracle boys!! If you would like to hear our story, please visit http://www.ivfsuccessstories.info. Never give up, it can happen for you!!
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