First, thanks so much for answering all of these questions! You are a life saver!!
Here is the dilemma:
I like the clinic with which I have worked, but its success rate hovers around 50% for de cycles. I would leave for another clinic (though I am in NYC and none of the clinics get near the success rates of those West Coast ones). However, I met with the coordinator of donor eggs just to discuss things with her. I hadn't started the process of really looking, when she called with what seems to be a wonderful match -- a young, talented woman who looks a lot like me (appearance was going to be difficult as no one looks like me!). The donor feels completely right, the timing is completely right, and everything seems to be working, but I am nervous about the success rates. Obviously I can't take the donor with me to another clinic.
Thoughts? How married should I be to success rates, especially when the success rates at other clinics in the area max out in the low 60% range?
Many thanks!