Ectopic number 2

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Dolly
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Ectopic number 2

Post by Dolly »

Hi guys

As you can see from the title things did not work out for us again.

They finally found the embryo in my left (and only) tube on Monday - so I was admitted immediately and had it removed that evening. I am feeling pretty raw emotionally and physically - but am off on holiday tomorrow - so hoping a change of scene will do me the world of good.

I am only in work briefly - so havn't got time to catch up with what is going on. But I will be back on board as soon as I get back from my hols.

Love to everyone.

Dolly
Me 38 / DH 40. TTC 8 yrs
3 natural pg - 2 ectopics and 1 miscarriage
2nd IVF +ve but miscarried
1st, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th IVF all -ve
Moved to the ARGC.
Just started for the 7th time (!) Feb/March 2006.
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Dagny
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Post by Dagny »

Oh Dolly :cry:

My poor friend. I am so sorry that this has happened yet again. I had a feeling things were not good when we hadn't heard from you for a bit.

I hope you both have a lovely holiday and relax. You so deserve some time away to get yourself back on track.

Take care Dolly and see you back on here soon.

Much love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Post by Juliana »

Dear Dolly,
I am so sorry! I cannot imagine how hard this new blow must be! I guess you knew what was coming but still this must be devastating. You will be in my thoughts! and I do hope that the holiday helps to get you a bit better both physically and emotionally. we'll be here when you get back.
lots of love and hugs,
juliana
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Post by DebraP »

Dolly, I'm sorry. Yet again life sucks. It really is unbelievably cruel at times.

I hope your holiday and break from routine help you both. We'll here waiting on your return.

love
Debra.
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Post by Tracey S »

Oh Dolly

I am sorry - have a blinkin good holiday and see you when you get back. The chances are always heightened when you have had one :( That's why I asked for both tubes removed but they could only get one out so clipped the others but different for me as both knackered tubes anyway.
Big hug
Love
Tracey
xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
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Post by Zed2003 »

Oh Dolly,

I am so, so sorry. Spend the next couple of weeks taking a step back and enjoy as much as you can together. Thinking of you...

Zoe x
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Post by loopylou57uk »

HI DOLLY,I AM REALLY SORRY YOU HAVE HAD TO GO THROUGH THIS AGAIN,PLEASE TAKE CARE,
LOVE LOOPY.
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Post by Kel »

Dolly,

I am so sorry too.. I am thinking of you.. I hope you can feel strong soon.

Kel x
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Post by Amanda A »

I am sorry Dolly.

You may remember me, I had a 2nd m/c at Xmas around the same time as you.

I too have just had another cycle which failed and am off on holiday next week!

It's crap isn't it but just wanted to post because in a funny sort of way it can sometimes help to know that others are facing similiar situations.

Take Care,
Rach xx
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