new to this site, really need support

[deeplysad]

hi, ive been tcc for 6 yrs, unexplained infertlity, after a beautiful embie been transfered 9 days ago in a an easy transfer i start spotting yesterday which has continued into today, so i decieded to do a hpt with was neg , i am on 400mg of cyclogest every night should this have stopped my period !! we are devastated really thought it would work .

[qita71]

9 days post transfer is still pretty early for a home pregnancy test. Also the spotting you have may be implantation bleeding. Don't give up hope yet. When is your beta?

[Wishingandhoping]

Don't let the spotting get you down. Many women spot during early pregnancy...I read 1 in 4 women will have some bleeding in the first trimester. Also, plenty of women get a negative HPT and then have a positive beta.

I know that it's easier said than done, but don't be discouraged if this isn't a positive for you. Even with a perfect embie it sometimes takes more than 1 round of IVF.

[jmbella]

I agree with Wishing dont give up just yet...9 days is still a little early. If it is support you are looking for you are in a great place these ladies here are the best and you will get nothing but support from them...Good luck and I will be wishing for the best for you

[deeplysad]

hi thanks for the replys, i was hopin it was only a little bleed but woke up this morning and it was full blast af at her best . My clinic dont do beta, they seem to do things a lot diff in ireland, i was just to do a hpt on 14dpt and ring them with the results looks like ill be rining them a little earlier than expected

[qita71]

i am very sorry to hear that- big hugs. it is rare for ivf to work 1st time but that's no consolation for you at the moment. allow yourself to be deeply sad for a wee while and then pick yourself up to go again. loads of luck for round 2 and take care. x

[brit1612]

I'm sorry to hear that your cycle was not successful. Don't give up, many RE's look at the first cycle almost like a trial run. They tend to understand your body better after making it through that first cycle. Of course everyone would like to be one of the lucky ones that have success right away, but I guess we can't all be that lucky. We went through six cycles before having our DS and he was worth every bit of it. Keep trying. HUGGS