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DeeDee
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Post by DeeDee »

Kel

What can I say that hasn't already been said or will be said.

Take care of yourself and your DH, its a cliche I know but time is a great healer, you won't ever forget this time but you will recover from it and be stronger too.

Thanks for being there for me

So sorry that this didn't happen for you

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Tracey S
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Post by Tracey S »

Kel

Just wanted to add my bit and say how sorry I am - thought you would do it. I well remember the telling DH bit and the sheer desperation you feel in doing so. I totally understand why you won't be on the board for a bit and know you will come back in time when you are ready! It is a tough one this tmt but nothing can prepare you for it............
TAke very special care and hope the review goes ok for you
Love
Tracey
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ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
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Post by Bronagh »

Kel,

Sounds like you have been threw something very similar to me, I felt dreadful after getting my AF but then a strange thing happened after a few days it just felt so wonderful to be of all the drugs and have my body back. Of coarse I'd rather be pregnant but my cycle was so long I felt I was wishing my life away to get to the next bit.

Your lucky to get your appointment so early I am still waiting on a date for mine 3 weeks after the event. Step back into the real world for a while and gather yourself the next step will reveal itself.
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Post by AMITHIS »

Kel,

I had the exact same experience as Bronagh so hoping that, in a few days when the hormones clear out of your system, things will look brighter for you as well.

{{Staci}}
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Post by loopylou57uk »

hi kel,i just wanted to say how sorry i am ,i have been there twice now and its not good,but it will get better and hopefully you will be ready to try again soon,take care of your self and dh,love loopy, :D
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Post by Traci »

Bloody Pantz
was hoping it was just spotting , well you have done the right thing to get away and speding time with DH is very important, while you are away I want you to spend an obseen amout of money on yourselves and eat lots of crap. Take care now

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Trace x
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Post by Dagny »

Kel :cry:

I posted on the JCB thread but thought I would post here too. I am so sorry honey. It's just not fair I know. I can't say anything to make you feel better only that we are all here for you buddy and will be here when you feel like coming back. I hope you and your DH have a lovely break away. It's so hard coming to terms with a negative which I know only too well. We go through so much but I makes us stronger so have some time out and pamper yourself.

Thinking of you.

Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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