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Dagny
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Post by Dagny »

Hi there girls

Thanks for your replies. I know I have done well to get to ET so I am focusing on my wibbly wobbly little embies and hoping that they have the strength to embed and make me the happiest Mummy in the universe.

Anjela - So lovely to hear from you. I am sorry your AF is playing up. Have you thought of reflexology?? I had 2 sessions and it sorted me out good and proper. I had the mother of all AF's and all sorts of bits and bobs came out like old bikes and boots and shopping trollies - OK maybe not that much but it gave me a jolly good clean out and my lining for this ET was perfect. Give it a go honey!! Hope you are managing to move on a bit step by step. It is so hard as we both know but I do believe I have the perfect Guardian Angel looking over me and so do you. The right time will come when it's the RIGHT time. Thinking of you.

Kel - How are you feeling my buddy? Have you seen DeeDee's news? I hope it's not the end for her :(

I must get back to watching Wife Swap that I recorded last night.

Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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DebraP
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Post by DebraP »

Oh Dagny....I take a few hours off and come back to a sea of worries. I really, really hope you have a painfree, stressless, sleep-filled night tonight. I agree with everyone who has said the embies are doing their own sweet thing irrespective of what else is going on in your body.

Try to relax and not worry - think how many times you've written that to other people, now you must take your own advice :lol:

I've seen Wife Swap once and it was horrible, really awful. A young woman :twisted: with 8 kids swapping with a very delicate princess. It was almost too nasty to watch. The woman with 8 and her DH were the foulest mouthed people I'd seen for a long time, chain smoking around their kids, on benefits (which can befall anyone but maybe hold back on a few of the ciggies huh?). I'll not watch it again although could see the awful/fascination appeal of it.

I read your other thread re. DH. We're lucky aren't we? David sounds like a lovely, lovely man and just who you need to help you through. You undoubtedly deserve him!

love
Debra.
Dagny
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Post by Dagny »

Hi Debra

Wife Swap IS awful but compelling watching. I wonder how some of these families survive.

I am feeling a bit better today not so much pain but on and off. I had a much better nights sleep and DH got a proper nights sleep too without me moaning and groaning and tossing and turning.

Its day 3 and OMG it's dragging. It's because I am not working and no one knows so I can't talk about it and I am just sitting at home with BB and my DVD's. I have turned into a couch potato :roll:

The embies should be embedding any day soon and I am praying so hard and visualising like Auntie Zita suggests. I hate not being in control and this is so out of my control. It's all down to fate now.

Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Post by Tracey S »

Debra


Good to see you back hun.

Dagny - I am visualizing for you two and sorry to say have visualized twins but knew you wouldn't mind! Anyone watching super nanny - makes us feel quite sick as it is like watching all the mistakes of DH's ex rolled in to one!

Love
Tracey
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ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
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Post by elaine uk »

Good luck.

Have not been on the site for a month or two, not been up to it really, but I have been catching up on the boards,so when I read that you were cycling again I wanted to let you know I was thinking of you, all those follies - my goodness

Have got all my fingers and toes crossed for you and hope you get your wish, just have this feeling that the twin thinging that your two friends have could be heading your way !!

Elaine
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Post by DebraP »

Dagny...I wanted you to be the recipient of my 400th post :)

How are you doing? The pain all gone? feeling OK??? plans for the weekend? how are you passing the time? Not seen many posts from you today...are you alright? You're nearly half way through :D

love
Debra.
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Post by Dagny »

Hi there

Debra - Thankyou for letting me be the recipient of your 400th post!! Most honoured. I was out yesterday so didn't log on. My pains are still there but not half as bad. I am going insane though, this week had dragged like no bodies business :roll: How are you doing? When do you come to the UK?

Tracey - I hope you are right about the twins thing. It would be my biggest wish come true and I just hope to follow in your foot steps mate. Did you and DH enjoy your birthdays?? Glad the girlies didn't make an early appearance!

Elaine - So lovely to hear from you and thanks for thinking of me. How are you doing?? Are you managing to look forward and to the future? It's very hard Elaine but sometimes there are situations out of your control and there is nothing else for it but to move on. We have got our special babies in our hearts for all our lives and they will never be forgotten and we have the most special guardian angels looking down and seeing us through the tough times. I hope you and I can feel that happiness again and climb out of the nightmare once and for all. I do think of you and wonder how you are.

As for me well this 2ww has got to be the worst one ever. I am going MAD and I really do believe that it hasn't worked. I feel far too NORMAL - (no rude comments please, I can be normal sometimes :roll: ) I don't have any real signs which I can analyse. I know it's the 2nd week that has most of them and I am still in the first but I am desparate to test - yes TS I know but I don't know what's wrong with me. When did any of the positives start to get 'symptoms'??

I have resigned myself to the fact it's a BFN already which is crap. I am just feeling too normal. I can't remember how I was feeling when I got my positive with Katelyn, my mind has drawn a blank and I need help.

Love from a deflated Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Post by Kel »

Dagny,

NO NO to negative thoughts!!! Put that PMA back!!! I know it's very easy for me to say but listen to auntie Zita and keep the visualising and postive talking going! There is a lot of twinnie vibes in the air all heading in your direction you know!!!!!!! :lol:
Have the pains eased up a bit now? When is test date???? Sending you loads of PMA!!

Thanks for asking how I'm doing buddy, I feel right on form now thanks! Running around like a loony so that's normal for me!!! :lol:
Debra - are you ok too?

Love Kel X
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Post by DebraP »

Hi Dagny - how are you feeling now? those days are s-l-o-w-l-y inching by.....all pains and twinges gone now? getting some decent sleep? feeling healthy, positive, pregnant?? details please!

Kel - thanks for thinking of me. I'll drop you a private message, don't want to bore everyone with Brazil stories!

love
Debra.
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Post by DeeDee »

Dagny

Do not I repeat do not be negative - you my girl are going to get a BFP - Trust me - if there is any justice in this world.

Hope you are doing OK - I'm still feeling a bit rubbish after last week but I think its getting better

Take care - I'm counting down those days with you
DeeDee
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Post by Traci »

Come on now girl lets get some PMA back into that body of yours , I recon the more times you go for it the harder the 2ww is , I know I wanted to test earlier and earlier but Tracey Sharp is watching you . bet youve done one already and you are too affraid to tell :lol: anyway if you have you know its too early so it would be a wrong reading . I have a strong feeling about you this time god damn you deserve it .

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Hang in there buddy

Trace x
Dagny
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Post by Dagny »

Hi Everyone :D

Traci - I have NOT done a test..........yet :roll: You will get me into trouble with TS!!!

Last night I got really BAD AF pains and it lasted all night and this morning I thought I was going to bleed at any moment but thankfully it has held off - phew. The pains have eased off for now so fingers crossed.

It is now a week since ET and apart from the AF pains nothing much else to shout about. Had a few shooting pains this morning in my belly but nothing that a good old fart didn't put right :oops: Sorry guys, you want details so you get details :lol:

My boobs are normal, still teeny weeny but very normal. Keep on bashing them but they don't really hurt :(

Had my 2nd Hypnotherapy session this morning so I hope I can be a bit calmer this week. Bank balance is dwindelling now but David is working hard to keep it topped up - what am I like :roll: ??

The support and encouragement from you lot is humbling and I love you all. I just wish we all could get the happiness we all deserve. Thank you all so much. I could never do this with out you lot and I do really appreciate it :P

Lots of catching up around the boards so I'll sign off for now - until my next drama :roll:

Kisses and hugs

Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Post by Traci »

The pains could be also the ovaries filling up with fluid !!!
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Post by Dolly »

Hi Dagny, I just wondered how you are doing?

How are you finding the hypnotherapy? I had my first session a week ago and I have got another one next week (just in time for my injections!).

Well done you for not testing. I have never been able to resist and always test early.... but this time is going to be different I am going to be strong!!!!!

Hope you're feeling a bit more positive - but I am sending you truck loads of PMA just in case.

Take care of yourself and not long now.

Love

Dolly
Me 38 / DH 40. TTC 8 yrs
3 natural pg - 2 ectopics and 1 miscarriage
2nd IVF +ve but miscarried
1st, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th IVF all -ve
Moved to the ARGC.
Just started for the 7th time (!) Feb/March 2006.
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Post by sue.m »

No wonder Darren Day dumped you!

........small tits and big farts, is how you'll be remembered in his memoirs :lol:
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