Cycling In 2012 Board (formerly Fall/Winter 2011-2012)

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Leora- So sorry about Rosie.... This journey is already hard enough and then something like this happens, please give send her hugs from me... I dont know her but I couldnt imagine what she is feeling, my heart goes out to her... She is lucky to have you... Ill will keep her in my prayers... Hopefully you and DH can compromise on a new cycle date, I'll be praying he agrees to let you cycle soon :) As for me poas I am so nervous to, I dont want to get bad news any earlier then I have to if that makes sense...
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That is such terrible news. My heart breaks for Rosie.
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Hi everyone,
It's been a sad depressing day, and I'm needing to take a break from the boards for a little bit to clear my head been struggling with personal stuff.
Married 13 yrs
36, unexplained
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Christy- Take the time you need, but don't stay away too long :) I'll pray that you will find peace.
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Leora-please let Rosie know that my thoughts and prayers are with her. This is such a horrible thing. I am beside myself with sadness for her and her family. I am also sorry that this is bringing up sad feelings for you. This is all so difficult. I'll be praying for all.

Sunshine-I am dosorry your feeling down. I am praying that whatever is going on is resolved. Sending you a big hug.
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Gina - I would complain if I were your husband! My husband was in the Air Force, and I know how they like to have you "hurry up and wait" and if there's a problem you better find it, cuz they won't! Hopefully he can get it pushed faster if he complains???

Leora - Yes, I play "words with friends" all day long! :) Guilty pleasure. It's lovely! Yes, 1 week and I am super stressing. It will be fine...I hope all goes well with you and hubby. Marriage is all about compromise! ;)

Sunshine - I hope you are ok. Will pray for you.
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akdelp- I agree! I think after these last couple of months with runarounds, he's learned from me that you HAVE to be pushy sometimes and definitely proactive! He doesn't have to be rude to be stern and get the message across! For instance this morning...he went to do a leave form because it was kicked back due to that. Instead of the one that does them, he had to do it and had to redo it twice. She should stop being so lazy!! Then she leaves before he could take it back. We had to go do something else and came back and she was there. So annoying. He told her to contact him on the phone if anything is wrong this time, NOT email him with his work email, if he isn't there (he is off more than he works with this job) then he won't get it.

I know this getting done asap won't get us out earlier, BUT we can finally KNOW! Ugh. So hopefully all is good and it went out when we left.


AFM- Heading to Paris in 12 hrs!!! We leave at 3:30am! There was a fire there so hopefully the smoke is cleared up by then!
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Gina- Have Fun in Paris :) Cant wait to hear about it even if it is a short stay, Im still jealous :)

Hope everyone is doing well :)

AFM- 1 week down 1 week to go :) Been staying busy so the time seems to be flying :) had a few twinges in my ovary today not sure if that is the old follies or a positive sign, I been trying to see if I notice anything different but with the progesterone who knows, but still fun to try to figure it out :) This has been a stress free cycle hoping my positive energy pays off this time around... All my faith is in God's hands... :) Staying in and relaxing all weekend with the Puppy and DH :) Happpy Friday everyone...
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well, we went to couple's therapy again on Friday. We hadn't really talked about the "starting vs not starting" the whole week, and just focused on doing things together and having fun as a couple (which went really well).

After talking a lot about a bunch of different things - we've compromised on waiting another month. I wanted to start now, DH wanted to wait until we "were in a better place" (but I can't deal with abstract/ambiguous goals, I need a date to start again). So we are waiting until after Passover (which is a big, giant important Jewish holiday in a few weeks).

We are starting again April 15 (day after Passover ends). I'll start a pack of birth control pills so that I can regulate my cycles. I asked him if I can stop the pills ON Passover (since it's about a week from stopping the pill until starting the cycle -- 3-4 days to get a period, and then starting on CD3) - he says he's not sure if he is comfortable with that. So either I'll start stims on April 15, or I'll stop my BCP on April 15th -- we'll have to figure that out.

Purim was fantastic -- we dressed up as Marvin the Martian from the Looney Tunes cartoons (green buckets with brooms on the top!) and got lots of fun reactions. Lots of good food, friends and alcohol.

This weeks is crazy crazy crazy busy for me! A full work week - with a wedding Sunday night, babysitting for a friend Mon & Tues, seeing a show on Wed - and then Thurs&Fri my company is going on our yearly trip. Should be fun!
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Hi ladies,

Leaving on our cruise tomorrow morning. Everyone is super excited. The kids can't wait to get in the ship and start exploring. I won't be able to check in with you ladies for tge next 8 days. I will miss all of you but rest assured you will all be in my thoughts and prayers everyday. Sending you all lots of xoxo...
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DS14pr mrg
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IUI 12/10 BFN
IVF 1/11 OHSS
FET 5/11 BFN
FET 7/11 MC
FET 9/11 MC46 XY
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We - have fun! Sounds so exciting!

Leora - Glad you guys could compromise. :)

AFM - started spotting again...this time it is not stopping and I have a little cramping. Ugh...the spotting is weird it's a yellow/brown/pink, more on the yellow side. It's not like anything I have ever had...Sorry for TMI!
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We-have fun! I love cruises!

Akdelp-yellow? Hmmm, have you done any searching online about that?
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IVF#2- Dec 2011- M/C at 8w1d
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Akdelp-so, from what I am reading about the colors of discharge.... So brown, normal, old blood or blood that has come into contact with air at some point a while back. Pink- better than red, could be from normal vaginal changed during pregnancy. Yellow- so far, if coming out yellow could be infection or virus or they said normal vaginal discharge can dry yellow. So probably way TMI, when I get prego(even 20 yrs ago when it happened naturally) I have lots if extra discharge, including slightly yellow (now that I think about it). Not like banana yellow, but almost offwhite yellowish. now they do say to let doc know if experiencing cramps....but that can be normal too.
Me- 40 (Tubal),DH- 46 (MF)
DS- 20 & 18 (previous marriage)
IVF#1- Aug 2011-Chemical/MC at 4 1/2 weeks
IVF#2- Dec 2011- M/C at 8w1d
IVF#3- April 2012- BFN
IVF#4- Aug 2012 DE 8/17 ET, beta 8/31- BFN(have 8 frosties)
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akdelp wrote:We - have fun! Sounds so exciting!

Leora - Glad you guys could compromise. :)

AFM - started spotting again...this time it is not stopping and I have a little cramping. Ugh...the spotting is weird it's a yellow/brown/pink, more on the yellow side. It's not like anything I have ever had...Sorry for TMI!

Akdelp - I cannot remember if it was a 7 or 9 weeks (for some reasons those numbers are in my head) but that sound very similar to the discharge I had before the OB detected my Subchorionic Hematoma. It was not true bleeding at first, it was like this yellowish/pinkish for the first week or so - kinda watery too (TMI). I have cramped on and off throughout the pregnancy - OB says it my uterus accommodating my little one. Stay positive.
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IVF #2 - 7/11- BFN :(
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I will have to get caught up! Wasn't gone long but the boards are moving along quickly and that's great!!

Leora- Glad you came to a compromise. I know it isn't as soon as you like but it isn't too long

Maria- Have a wonderful time!! Enjoy it and get that much needed rest and relaxation!


I will do more personals later, so tired and feel like I'm still on a bus!! lol


AFM- We got back at 3am this morning. We had about 11 hrs in Paris and that is definitely NOT enough time to see the beauty of Paris. SO we plan to go back and stay at least over night so we can get 2 days. We have other trips first to do and then we'll see, but hopefully we can. Things are so spread out there that we wanted to see. Our main thing was the Eiffel Tower and Jim Morrison's Grave Site. We saw lots of others too. Our feet hurt SO BAD! We actually came back with some Euro left! lol I will have to work on getting some pictures on here to share.
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