Cycling In 2012 Board (formerly Fall/Winter 2011-2012)

[Gina1976]

Oh my.....So my Mom calls me a couple of hrs ago (Dh and I just got in the bed for a nap) to let me know they got home safe from their short trip yesterday. I was glad of course. She then tells me someone too ALL of their money out of their account and left them a measly $500!!???!?!! They have a really big sum of money in there too. My Dad is retired and they just got a brand new truck. I know they have other banks but don't if it's just stocks, bonds and such or what. It is horrible and made them both sick!

Today they are going to the Police station to file a report and one at the bank. This is the second time at this bank (it was bought out however since the first) this has happened to them. The first time someone just ordered tons of weight loss stuff and had it mailed to them? Luckily it was stopped and they returned it all. This is however, much bigger. I am thinking the bank should be able to put that back until they find the money? It was in TX and my Mom said it was a check. Not sure if that means they duplicated theirs. I'm sure you can do checks online though electronically, at least some banks. I don't know the details of that part. I hope they can trace it back to whoever did it. If it was a check, a business cashed that without asking for ID and if it was all done online then they should be able to trace it back to the computer. Oh I hope so! This is horrible. My Dad hasn't even had to touch Social Security. I'm sure he has investments he can cash if need be.

Hopefully it gets taken care of ASAP and it's back in there or some bank error. My Dad has always had a lawyer because of investments so that's a good thing. Please pray/think kind thoughts for them right now.

[blueeyedreamer]

Gina, it depends on the banks policy for theft and fraud. Been there and it sucks. I hope they get it worked out soon.

Leora, I'm sorry you guys are having so much trouble. Everyone deals with trauma differently and maybe your dh is really scared of going thru that again. Good for you for making a workout decision. I don't recommend making a goal of going to the gym 6days per week. That isn't a realistic starting place. You will be setting yourself up for failure. My trainers recommended 4or 5 and anything more was bonus. The diet is critical, much more so than the exercise. Good luck. It will take a long time to make it a habit. Give yourself a solid 6weeks to adjust.

[kynlee]

Gina- That is horrible your poor parents, hopefully the bank can figure it out and get the money back in there acct... I have a friend that someone took a check she wrote years prior and used a special solution to wash the To: info and changed it to cash and cashed it thank God her bank figured it out and later reput the money in her acct... People are nuts...

Amanda- Awesome Beta

Ninde- training went well, made me more nervous but ill pull through it...

Leora- Had my training but we didnt do a test run she said I could reschedule the week of my real shots and they can do a saline shot with the person that will be giving me my shots, but its to much to get my friend from work there etc so we will wing it Foster to adopt sounds like a plan, it will keep you going and then you can conitinue with IVF while fostering... I would love to do that too I always wanted a big family so that is something I will be keeping in my mind alongw ith adoption after IVF Best of luck with the Foster to adopt, I am sure you guys will be great candiates Stay positive it is still early maybe it is a slow implanter...

Christy- THank you for the Birthday wishes, it is actually Weds Thank you so much for the gift it was great coming home to a surprise The cape is absolutely beautiful had a great time, you would love it there

Kryse- Welcome

Nicole- So sorry you had to deal with the IL's I know the feeling... We are already going through enough and then to deal with comments gets frustrating... My MIL can be nice one day and then next she is on fire about something... I just try to avoid the negativity with the IL's.. My MIL tends to get jealous when DH does things for me cause that is when she will send a random text about it trying to get info and pushing my buttons...

AFM- had a awesome time in the Cape so needed to get away and relax now back to reality and work Hope everyone has a great week

[DandMe]

Okay.... seems I am back.... Life has been uber crazy the last year - renovations, pregnancy, birth, work... I have missed all of you, thought of you and worried about my sisters out there in cyberspace who are going through the heartache and wonders of IVF.

I had a bfp with our first fresh cycle and another with our first FET - both ended up with blighted ovums - go figure - two in a row.... then we did a second fresh cycle and had our little boy, Brogan. He's nearly a year old and we have decided to transfer our remaining frozen embryos in June. So far everything is going great - all tests showing what we want them to show.

Other than my crazy in-laws announcing that they are staying with us for an entire month (right in June) and my worries about being stressed out... I'm super excited!

[annashope]

Hi girls sorry I have been mia

Sonya awesome to see you here...I too have been wondering how you were doing. Our in-laws live with us in the in-law suite so they are always here but if my parents decided to visit for a month I would lose it...lol Good luck

Leora how are you today dear??? Did you get the good sticks from your friend? If this is not a bfp I too hope you can cycle right away again. Good for you on agreeing to work out. I soooo need to do that too. After Paul I only got back down to within 10lb of my original weight and now I worry I will completely blow up...lolI promised myself that once this pregnancy is over and we are done having kids I will work for however long it takes to get my body back...I hope it will be possible

Krys welcome and good luck

Nichole so sorry about the in-laws...you are very patient I think I would lose it from all those comments. My father's girlfriend whom I don't see often (thank God) always makes comments about my weight and what I eat....Grrrr she is one of those that starves herself. Hang in there

Kynlee glad you had fun at the Cape...I am dying for a getaway....We used to travel a lot but have not gone anywhere in 2 years and I just can't wait to get away somewhere. Hopefully we will sneak away to Myrtle Beach in August

Gina that is so terrible about your parents! I hope they can get the money back

Amanda congrats on the awesome betas Do you have any more betas? when is the first u/s

Lauren 319 so glad first ultrasound went well They become more and more fun every week. My RE does an ultrasound every week until 9 weeks when he releases you to the ob so it is so cool to see how much changes in 1 week. Praying you get an awesome HB or 2

Maria so sorry about the palpitations...I too get them which is why during pregnancy I have to stay away from everything with caffeine and cannot get frustrated or angry...which is so hard since many of my friends like to get into political debates with me which I try to avoid. Drinking extra water helps me...feel better

I know I am missing many of you but I have to run. Will try to post more later. AFM nothing new just moving along...9 week ultrasound went well...we saw the baby move...but I am always so scared that something will go wrong....Hoping and praying for the best

[leorira11]

definitely a BFN.

Crap.

Blood test tomorrow and dr. appt on Wednesday.

[kynlee]

Sonya- Nice to see you back Your son is adorable

Leora- so sorry

AFM- Quick question... I am on estrace forgot to take it this morning at 8 830 remembered at 1230 so I took it late is that a huge deal? I left a message with the nurse so she should be getting back to me but I am worried if I ruined this cycle...

[to_have_fun08]

Kynlee - should be a big deal.. its just the stims that they need you to take around the same time every day. A few hours doesn't make a difference.

[kynlee]

tohavefun- Thanks Nurse just called to and said it was fine as long as I took it today I havent been feeling good since saturday night so I have had a mesh brain lol...

[blueeyedreamer]

sorry Leora

[Gina1976]

Well.....my parents will get everything back in about a week. Apparently this company bought some construction vehicles in TX. They have very similar account numbers as my parents.


Leora- Nooo! I truly hope things turn around and that isn't the case!! My heart breaks for y'all. I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling. (((HUGS)) It just isn't right.

[Ninde]

Ladies I'll do personals later I just wanted to jump on for leora

Lenora: I'm so so.sorry and I'm desperately hoping the bloods say something different. Yku poor woman, my hear goes out to you and david. I'm really keeping you in my thoughts x

Ninde

[DandMe]

definitely a BFN.

Crap.

Blood test tomorrow and dr. appt on Wednesday.

You've been through sooo much.... My heart goes out to you both. As a crazy old woman with way too many relationship 'experiences'... do you think that it might be a huge help to take a few months to focus on you and your husband to relax, renew your relationship, focus on your health and then start again? Even three months? I don't know what's best for YOU, only you know that, but I know that I would be unable to function after what you've been going through, and you are young enough to have the luxury of a few months, unlike us older woman who have the clock ticking so loud it keeps us up at night. Don't be offended - this comes from a place of heartfelt concern.

[annashope]

Leora I am so sorry honey my heart breaks for you

[Tess69]

Crashing....

Leora I'm so sorry. This last cycle sounded like a bit of a nightmare all round. I know you'll hate me saying this but there is still a tiny smidgen of hope. Two of my friends had negative HPTs on beta day and both ended up pregnant. One is about 30 wks now and one a few weeks behind me. It does happen....

IVF takes a huge toll on relationships. DH and I have also been through counselling. It's really important that DH feels that his point of view is being heard and that he is a part of the decision making process. I can be a bit one-eyed. Once I've made a decision, I'll steam ahead and often leave Dh feeling very left out and inadequate. Not good!