Not many husbands seem to post on these forums, but my wife and I teach in Saudia and consequently only have each other to lean on at the moment (and to be honest I'm feeling a bit wobbly.)
She tested on hpt this morning (and yesterday) both negative - today is day 11 after transfer of 4 embryo's (2day transfer.) Now she is convinced IVF has failed, as she is feeling the same symptons as pre-period (i.e stomach and leg ache). We are due for blood test in two days and fly back to UK for a weeks holiday on the same day. I know she desperately wants to go back home with good news. Is there still a chance?
Welcome Stephen, there is still hope. There are many stories of false negative hpts and great stories of low betas turning into beautiful bundles of joy. There is no reason to prematurely grieve. Why spend extra days sad? I always say its not over until the beta!!
Me/DH 36
1 tube/low morph
TTC since 2008 only one spontaneous in 2012
Ivf 1-1/2009 DS
FET- miscarried
Ivf 2.- 10/11 DS
12/12 miscarried (spontaneous pregnant, so cliche minus the miscarriage part)
Now--- back to TTC at home in hopes for a final addition