David and I are gutted and I just can't stop crying. This is so unfair and I am so scared I will never be a Mummy. The ache in me is so painful and I just can't understand why we have to go through this.
I want to thank you all so much for all your support during my treatment and for helping me through what has been the longest 2ww in the history of IVF.
Wishing you all lots of luck and babydust especially you lot on your 2ww's and I expect to see some good news for a change.
Love from a really sad Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
oh dagny, i don't know what to say except that i'm really sorry, i really do feel for you and DH, life really does suck at times.
Take good care of each other.
You are in my thoughts,
Lotsa love
Dagny and DH,
I am so very sorry and wished there was something positive i could say but there isn't i just don't understand this whole bl***y IVF thing and why it hasn't worked for you when you so deserved it to work.Please try and be strong and i know you will both get through this as you have proved to us that you are a fighter and you will get there one day.Again i am so sorry and just don't understand why life can be so poo sometimes.
Love,
Nicky
Hi Dagny
So sorry to hear your news I know how you feel as do many others. Your pain is all you feel right now and I hope you can get through this time with the love and support of your DH and all your friends here on the site. I may not have posted but I've been with you all the way and I really felt this would be your time. I wish I could wave a wand and make it so. my thoughts and prayers are with you both
Love Aly
x
Hi Dagny, I was so sorry to see your news, I've been popping in all day on & off to see if you had posted & was getting worried - you of all people really deserved to have some good news. Like the others say, we know you'll get through it even if it doesn't seem like it right now
Take care of yourself and David,
Lots of love
Kat xx
Me & DH both 41
ICSI #1 - abandoned
#2 - cancelled - DH accident
#3 - 1 transferred, bfn
#4 - 2 transferred, bfn
#5 - abandoned
#6 - no eggs at EC
#7 - DE in Barcelona - bfp but lost Dec'05
#8 - DE UK - bfn
#9 - FET Sept/Oct '07....
Oh damn b******ks and s**t why the heck is life so damn cruel hunny
i am so so sorry theres is nothing i can say that is gonna make you feel any better but you are in my thoughts always hun
all my love to you hun go have a good ole drink wont stop the hurt nothings gonna do that but well it may relax you a little im thinking of you hun {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Lots of love to you and David
Ang xxxxxx
Our dream came true after 5 yrs ttc we know have 8month old twin boys Adam and Kieran and our gorgeous 9 yr old daughter.
Hang in there miracles really do happen
I am absolutely gutted! Cannot believe it! What the bloody hell is going on! IT IS S*** .........
Big hugs to you both,
Keep your strength and remember ......... that which doesn't break us, makes us stronger! Hard to think like that at the mo I Know but .....
xxxx
Nickie
1st Cycle ICSI - Cancelled before E/R due to poor response
2nd Cycle ICSI - April 2004 Negative
3rd Cycle FET - July 2004 - Negative
4th Cycle ICSI - Nov 2004 - BFP (Oh my GOD)
oh dagny you poor thing, i havent been on for a couple of days but had to log on today to see your news, i really thought you would get the bfp you so deserve, what a b$%^&^d this ivf this, i am still really sad over what happened to me but now i feel sadder for you as i really wanted this to work this time for you and dh,
take care of yourself and dh, i know exactly how you feel about thinking you will never be a mummy, but we both will be one day,
love loopy.
hello again dagny,i just read that your test date is 26th, is that right? so does that mean you tested early and may get a positive tomorrow?i really hope so.
take care buddy.love loopy.
To Dagny and DH,
So so sorry ... what an absolute bummer. This ivf thing is so cruel. Why do the embryos stick around sometimes and not others. We are left with so many unanswered question. Look after yourself Dagny, and we are all thinking of you. Nothing I can say will make you feel better. Life is crap sometimes.
So big big hugs.
Love from Sophie-Jane
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
I'm so sorry to read your news. We'd had everything crossed for you and you both so deserved a better result than this.
Take care of each other.
Love Jules
TTC 5 years. Daniel & Charlotte born 22.03.02, 1st ICSI treatment. TTC for 4 further years. 2nd ICSI cycle abandoned, 3rd cycle BFN. Looking forward to being a happy family of 4.
This is such crap. It's all so unfair and I'm so sorry. I really thought it was your time. I mean how much does a person have to endure?
I know it probably seems like the end of the world right now but try to hang in there, ok? You're a very strong person and you've been such an inspiration to all of us. You know we are all here for you if you need to vent.
all I can say it really sucks... Hope you are drinking lot's of wine..
thinking of you both.
july ann
been in tmt for 4 years.Male factor. Have had 3 icsi, one ivf with donor sperm.Went for fet with 7 eggs but none made it to blastocyst. just had 5 DI. test date 27 july
