I've tested.......

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Sand
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Post by Sand »

Dagny

I'm sooo sorry to hear your news... I thought your test date was tomorrow, 26th ? Have you tested early ...?

Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Post by sue.m »

NO NO NO NO NO, this is so not the post I wanted or expected to see.

A few of the other have mentioned it Dagny, and I too wondered whether testing even just that one day too early could make a difference. I hope it can.

I'm so sorry hun, I really felt sure hearing all your symptoms that this treatment had been successful for you and David.

Sending a massive cyber hug to you both.

Sue.x
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Post by Traci »

well how gutted was I to get your text tonight and when I phoned you I felt completely helpless on what was the right words to say to you , you know how it is , well I have just come back from my sisters and have lit my lucky candel for you in the hope that tomorrow paints a different picture .

You know I am here for you and if it is a bloody Negative we are going shopping :lol:

Take care now buddy

Love and hugs

Trace x
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Post by Wibbs1 »

GUTTED :( :( :(
JUST AS WELL AS YOU ARE. :cry:


As you can see everyone has been popping in and out all day awaiting your news..... :cry:

I am so sorry you did not get a bfp, please try to stay positive you will be a Mummy in the future, you are such a nice person and I am sure your time will come soon.
This is not much help at the mo. but we are all rooting for you.
Love
Wibbs xxxxx & Joshua :D xxxx :cry:
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Post by Guest »

Dagny

Gutted..........so hoped this would answer all your prayers.

You will get there eventually, you have been so strong already...you can do this!

Hugs

JenFx
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Post by alicia »

Dagny,

What terrible news. I am at a loss. As I've read everyone's struggles on here I have been totally unable to make sense of it. But I'm SO glad I'm not alone.

Happily you have your wonderful DH who will hold and cry with you. I read your signature to my DH and we are both so sorry this time won't be the one. Wishing you all the luck for the future, whatever you decide to do.

Alicia
TTC 2.5 years - Me 38 no tubes; DH 32
1st- IVF June 2004 - early MC
2nd - FET Aug 2004 - Twin boys born April 25, 2005!!!
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Post by SBROWN »

Dagny&David....

I am so so sorry to read your news.........
Life is so unfair.....you so deserve to be a mummy & daddy(as does everyone on this board) and I just know you will one day,Im just really gutted its not this time.......

Take care of each other and being the strong person you are, good luck for your next try!

Sarah (your old SCB buddy)
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Post by Nick »

Dagny,
I have just logged on after quite a long time, (we have moved quite close to you, between Dking and Rgate) but have been thinking that it must be that time..... So sorry. The feelings of bitterness, hopelessness and general tiredness/depresson. I know that feeling too. My fourth was unsuccessful, and after getting pregnant before, you just think that.. this is the one.

What can I say. Time is always a great healer, and you are not alone at all.

Nicky
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Post by Grace »

Dagny
I have n't been posting to you but have been willing this to work for you from afar. I am so, very sorry.
It just is n't fair, I wish I had something wise to say but I am afraid I don't. The main thing is you are not alone in your pain we all feel it with you.
Thinking of you both
Gracexx
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Post by DeeDee »

Dagny

Soooooo sorry, you do not deserve this and I feel so for you, I soooo wanted you to get that BFP.

Take it easy, thinking of you
Love
DeeDee
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Post by Dolly »

Dagny,

I am SO gutted for you both - I was really hoping that you would get the +ve result you deserve. :cry: But you will be a mummy and daddy one day - you have to keep believing that.

Take care of each other

Love and massive hugs

Dolly
Me 38 / DH 40. TTC 8 yrs
3 natural pg - 2 ectopics and 1 miscarriage
2nd IVF +ve but miscarried
1st, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th IVF all -ve
Moved to the ARGC.
Just started for the 7th time (!) Feb/March 2006.
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Post by gem »

Dagny and David
I'm so sorry to read about your bfn its just not fair.
Take care and you will be a mummy one day dont give up.


Love gemxxxx
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Post by DebraP »

Oh Dagny I'm sorry. How disappointing and how sad. You know what to do, take very good care of yourself and David.

It doesn't seem fair and it's not.

You know we're here for you.
love
Debra.
Me: 44, DH: 31
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
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Post by Tracey S »

Dagny

You know my feelings on this - it's CRAP!!! and have not managed to get on here as too upset since you told me yesterday - was hoping today might be a +++++ I suppose. I texted you from my walk this am so just got back and wanted to say that you will be a mummy one day but I totally understand why you think you won't as I said the very same thing over and over again.

WE are sending both of you our love and I know you know I am here if you need anything.
Massive hug
Love
Tracey
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ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
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Post by Kel »

Dagny,

I am so so sorry, I can't believe it.. It's just not bloody fair and I wish I could say something to help..It's just not fair.

Just want to send massive hugs to you and DH and am always here for you with all the girls..

Love Kel XX
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