did not get to test

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Dagny
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Post by Dagny »

Oh July ann :(

I am so very sorry. It's just not fair and it's even worse that you didn't even get to test. It's been a crap weekend all round really hasn't it?

What are we like eh??

I am really sorry and I am thinking of you and your DH. How did he take it by the way??

I told my Mum and Dad this morning and they fully understood why I did it quietly but my Mum said she would have liked to have been there for me but she is so sad now. We do all this and try to protect the ones we love but it's us that end up coping with all the trauma afterwards anyway.

What are your next plans. I'm NOT giving up just yet. I will have to wait at least 3 months but I think it will do me good.

Thinking of you

Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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hope2004
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Post by hope2004 »

July-Ann,
I so sorry! IVF really sucks and it's not fair.
Do what you have to do for yourself this week.

:cry:

Hope
Me - 35 Unexplained DH 37
TTC#1 since '97
5 IUIs
1st IVF 5/04 - transferred 2-neg
2nd IVF 7/04 - transferred 3-pos but MC at 8 wks.
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Post by Val R »

July Ann,

I am so sorry to read your news. I was an SCB with you. I found out about Dagny just a few minutes ago too. My heart aches for both of you. I really hope you both get a chance to try again. The world will be a much better place once you and Dagny get to post a positive.

You are in my thoughts...
Love,
Val xxx
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Post by TERESAWANTBABY »

Hey July Ann,
A big hug to you, AARRGGHHH !!! Why is life so unfair !! Hang in there!

-Teresa :D
TTC 20 months
Me 28 Dh 31 low sperm count
IVM/ICSI 1st try
IVM (Invitro Maturation) Natural Cycle (no meds)
PREGNANT !!!
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Post by ANGELA »

Hi Julyann

God this i.v.f just sucks dont it

im real sorry to hear your news you are in my thoughts hunny
look after yourself and dont give up hun

lots of love Angxxx
Our dream came true after 5 yrs ttc we know have 8month old twin boys Adam and Kieran and our gorgeous 9 yr old daughter.
Hang in there miracles really do happen
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Post by Ellie »

Hi JulieAnn
I am quite new to this board but just wanted to add my heart felt sympathies IVF is so cruel and awful.

Ellie
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Post by july ann »

hi girls

thankyou so much for all your kind words they really help. Well will phone and book in for final di next month and I have 4 in the freezer that need usung. Hope in April that might get a funded go you never know.

thankyou so much again I will not give up just yet, ivf has become away of life..

plus I'd miss you all

july ann
been in tmt for 4 years.Male factor. Have had 3 icsi, one ivf with donor sperm.Went for fet with 7 eggs but none made it to blastocyst. just had 5 DI. test date 27 july
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Post by Traci »

I know what you mean about missing everyone I am supposed to be weening my self away from this board and having "time out" but I love every one of you .

right day out 15th August London can you make it? we are gonna have some wine and chocolate and shop!!!!
Hope you can

Trace x
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sorry for any negatives

Post by Bronagh »

Hi I'm sorry about reading your negative, its been a while since I had mine and i am finally getting a review appointment on Friday. In between times I havbeen aon holiday got away from this board and generally just done what ever I felt like and boy do \i feel alot better for it. I've even enjoyed my AF because I am having Chinese herbs and it has become so much less painful, in fact I am having no pain which for me is a miricle.

Spend some time with yourself .and enjoy.
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