I've tested.......

[anjela]

Dagny
There's no reason to this- its just another piece of random bad luck and doesn't mean that it won't work again in the future. What it does mean is that you've now got licence to feel sorry for yourself, stuff chocolate, cry, drink wine, spend money - do what you want for a couple of days.

But - after that no more. After that you've got to roll your sleeves up, start eating vegetables and taking vitamins and get on with preparing your body to make more babies. It didn't work the first time with Katelyn either remember, but you got there with her, and you'll get there with Katelyn's baby brother or sister.

Big big hugs from me (but also a sharp punch on the arm so you don't feel too cossetted from all this sympathy around you!)

Don't lose sight of the dream - it is there waiting for you.

All my love
Anjela
x

[Tracey S]

Anjela

That was very well put and I know Dagny would agree.

Dagny - hope you didn't mind me ringing (too late now) and you know where I am if you need me....

Love
Tracey
xxx

[Bronagh]

Sorry about your news, I just wanted to say that since my negative I've started living life again went on holiday and generally did what ever I felt like and it feels so good to be normal again. Because this process is not normal those hormones realyy f*** us up and I really thing you should move your mind away from it for a while....................go on holiday.........dance whatever.


But bre good to yourself.
B

[GB]

Hey Dagney
Am so gutted for you after all that you've been through!
You only deserve happiness...
Just hang in there and things will work out eventually!
I am really thinking and praying for you and your DH!!
Take care!
Gila.

[Dagny]

Hi you lovely girls

Thank you so much for all your wonderful messages. I feel very special and honoured to have so many of you with care and support. It's very humbling.

I have had a few days off the site to try to get my head straight and re-charge my body but it's been hell.

I have left a message on my 'Dagny' thread with all my thoughts and feelings. I am not really coping very well and miss my darling Katelyn like never before. She seems so far away from me now and maybe I am beginning to realise the enormity of my loss. Grief takes on so many different guises and can get you from behind when you least expect it. my grief has reached an all time low and brought me crashing down and I am finding it hard to keep my head above it all.

My bleeding is so heavy and painful which is another kick in the guts when I know the embies are deserting me as well.

I can safely say I have had better days than these...........

Love Dagny xkx

[kju]

Hi Dagny

I hope you don't mind me butting in as we haven't 'spoken' much but you were so welcoming to me when I made my first posts

I have seen some of your posts during this cycle and was so hoping that it would be the positive result you deserve

I am really sorry that it did not work for you this time, it is so unfair

I can't begin to understand how you must be feeling but I really admire the way you are still supporting everyone else on the boards

take care,
Kirsten