Dear All
Was meant to be testing tomorrow but have come on with avengance today.Sitting here with my hot water bottle and a bucket full of tissues trying to type through watery eyes.
This is the end of the road for me.
No more goes no more money and cannot put myself through this any more.
I will still look in and see how you are all doing.
Thank you for all your kind words and support.
S Brown thank-you for all your little messages
Dagny never give up hope and that goes for the rest of us!!!!!!!!
Good luck in what ever you all decide to do.
I'm going to look at holidays now
TTFN
Love
Jane
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Oh Jane... I'm so sorry. This happened to me last time, AF showed day before test ...I know how you must be feeling.
A hol sounds like a really good idea, and you need some me time, now, to lessen the pain.
Take Care
Sandra x
A hol sounds like a really good idea, and you need some me time, now, to lessen the pain.
Take Care
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Jane,
So sorry to hear your news. Nothing I can say to make you feel better. Its so hard to have our dreams shattered. Take it easy. Look after yourself .. you are the special one....
I picked up some holiday brochures today too ... need to have something to look forward too.
All the best Jane. Big hug
From Sophie-Jane
So sorry to hear your news. Nothing I can say to make you feel better. Its so hard to have our dreams shattered. Take it easy. Look after yourself .. you are the special one....
I picked up some holiday brochures today too ... need to have something to look forward too.
All the best Jane. Big hug
From Sophie-Jane
Brave lady...........don't make hasty decisions, take some time out rest have some fun with dh go on holiday.....chill and rest and chill and have lots of wine.
But when your ready, you will either rebuild your lives, or run the gauntlet of IVF again.
What you need to remember that all of us at one point are pg for the 2ww
it's a Long Hard Tough Very Very expensive road but there are always people trying to get the dream we all derserve, only we do it the hard way.
Take care little one and remember we are always here for you.
Love
Wibbs xxxxx
But when your ready, you will either rebuild your lives, or run the gauntlet of IVF again.
What you need to remember that all of us at one point are pg for the 2ww
it's a Long Hard Tough Very Very expensive road but there are always people trying to get the dream we all derserve, only we do it the hard way.
Take care little one and remember we are always here for you.
Love
Wibbs xxxxx
Jane,
So sorry to hear things have not gone well. I can sympathize with your desire to get on with your life. Thanks for being here with us and I hope your holiday is lovely! I hope you go somewhere romantic with lots of fabulous food, wine, and shopping.
Take care,
Alicia
So sorry to hear things have not gone well. I can sympathize with your desire to get on with your life. Thanks for being here with us and I hope your holiday is lovely! I hope you go somewhere romantic with lots of fabulous food, wine, and shopping.
Take care,
Alicia
TTC 2.5 years - Me 38 no tubes; DH 32
1st- IVF June 2004 - early MC
2nd - FET Aug 2004 - Twin boys born April 25, 2005!!!
1st- IVF June 2004 - early MC
2nd - FET Aug 2004 - Twin boys born April 25, 2005!!!
really gutted for you...............life is so unfair.....Jane
It's so unfair - I am so sorry and desperatly trying not to get on my soap box about the money situation and us lot forking out for George Best's new liver!
Take time out - maybe you won't change your mind but maybe you will find some more strength - good luck in whatever you do.........
Love
Tracey
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It's so unfair - I am so sorry and desperatly trying not to get on my soap box about the money situation and us lot forking out for George Best's new liver!
Take time out - maybe you won't change your mind but maybe you will find some more strength - good luck in whatever you do.........
Love
Tracey
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ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
Hi Jane
I am so very sorry. It just is so cruel especially when AF rears her fat ugly head early and you don't get to test even - it just sucks!
Like Wibbs said don't make hasty decisions as you are in a very emotional place right now and now the best time to make any decisions. I know for one that I will not be throwing in the towel just yet as hard as it all is to go through IVF year after year.
Thinking of you and DH lots and I hope you find some time to get through this with your DH. Have a good cry and go on a lovely holiday away from everything - very theraputic.
Take care
Love Dagny xkx
I am so very sorry. It just is so cruel especially when AF rears her fat ugly head early and you don't get to test even - it just sucks!
Like Wibbs said don't make hasty decisions as you are in a very emotional place right now and now the best time to make any decisions. I know for one that I will not be throwing in the towel just yet as hard as it all is to go through IVF year after year.
Thinking of you and DH lots and I hope you find some time to get through this with your DH. Have a good cry and go on a lovely holiday away from everything - very theraputic.
Take care
Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
Like Wibbs and Dagny said don't make hasty decisions , Have that holiday and think again in 6 months with fresh eyes , My heart goes out to you and I wish words made things better cause then I would write you a book!!!!
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Trace x
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Trace x
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
Dear all thanks for all your kind words
Have been keeping really busy
Been to the beauty salon for some treatments and had a new hair do!!!!!
been buying new clothes for my hoilday retail therapy really does work
I will keep tabs on how you are all doing from time to time.
Lots of love and best wishes to you all and I hope you all get your dreams
Jane
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Have been keeping really busy
Been to the beauty salon for some treatments and had a new hair do!!!!!
been buying new clothes for my hoilday retail therapy really does work
I will keep tabs on how you are all doing from time to time.
Lots of love and best wishes to you all and I hope you all get your dreams
Jane
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you have a great time on your hols with DH and worry about every thing else when you come back . I go away in 6 weeks to Mexico and cant wait .