June July Testers

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Dagny
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Post by Dagny »

Oh Lindsey :(

I am so sorry. As if getting a negative is bad enough when you don't even make it to test day is just horrid. I had the same on my 2nd TMT and it sucks.

Have some quality time with DH and take some time out to get you head straight which is what I have done.

Take care Lindsey and come back when you feel stronger or need to chat or vent, we are all here for you.

Thinking of you and DH.

Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Kel - July 1st - :(
Debra - July 9th - :(
DeeDee - July 11th - :(
Teresa - July 15th - :D
Loopy - July 16th - :(
Tammi - July21st - :(
Alette - July 24th - :D
Dagny - July 26th - :(
July ann - July 27th - :(
Hope - July 27th - :D
Janeya - July 28th - :(
Sophie-Jane - July 29th - :D
LindseyB - July 30th - :(
Macaroni - July 30th - :?:
JenF - July 31st - :?:
Nickie88 - July 31st - :?:


Come on the rest of you!! Let's see some smily faces for a change!!!

Good luck -Macaroni, Jen F, and Nickie. The law of avarages says that there are still some positives to be had so go get them!!!
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
macaroni
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Post by macaroni »

Hi girls
Sorry to bring more bad news but started bleeding monday eve - tested negative yesterday
julie
Dagny
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Post by Dagny »

What!!! :shock:

Oh Julie, I am so sorry :(

I just can't believe what is happening to all of us June/July-bies.

You know the rules, spend time with DH, have a BIG drink, eat lots of chocolate and go massacre the credit card.

Prehaps go on a little holiday for a week or a weekend. Thinking of you and DH.

Take care love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
Sand
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Post by Sand »

Lindsey and Julie

I'm soooo sorry to hear your news .... this happened to me on last cycle, AF day started day before test, so I know how crap you must be feeling.

You look after yourselves, and dhs, and take some time out to chill and do something you enjoy in life.

Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Dagny
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Post by Dagny »

:shock: I am quite shocked at the results on here. This is the worst I have seen it! :shock:


Kel - July 1st - :(
Debra - July 9th - :(
DeeDee - July 11th - :(
Teresa - July 15th - :D
Loopy - July 16th - :(
Tammi - July21st - :(
Alette - July 24th - :(
Dagny - July 26th - :(
July ann - July 27th - :(
Hope - July 27th - :D
Janeya - July 28th - :(
Sophie-Jane - July 29th - :D
LindseyB - July 30th - :(
Macaroni - July 30th - :(
JenF - July 31st - :?:
Nickie88 - July 31st - :?:


Come on the rest of you!! Let's see some smily faces for a change!!!

Good luck - Jen F and Nickie. The law of avarages says that there are still some positives to be had so go get them!!!
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Post by Guest »

OH Girls

I am so sorry!! This is the most awful thread in the world..........July is truely being a sh*t month to all of us!

I don't think i am going to be cheering this thread up much either as I have very definate Af pains like before.

Be good to yourselfs and take it easy........

Love

JenFx
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Post by Dagny »

Jen

Hang on in there buddy. It aint over till it's over, OK? AF pains can be a good sign as well as a bad one so just try to be positive. It's only 2 days to go.

PMA PMA PMA PMA PMA PMA PMA PMA PMA

Love Dagny xkx


ps I may put on the list whether a m/c has occured as at least it was a positive which should bring the stats of positives up a bit. Not sure if it would be a good idea though :?
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
AMITHIS
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Post by AMITHIS »

Lindsey and Julie,

Very sorry to see the bad news and I hope both of you are managing ok.

Dagny,

You are right. This month has to be a record low. I just don't understand it. Very sad to see so many people disappointed.

JenF and Nickie,

Wishing you the best of luck and looking forward to seeing some smiley faces!

Staci
Me 35/DH 41
TTC 4 years
Diagnosis: MF infertility
IVF/ICSI April 2004: -tive
FET Aug. 2004 (canceled due to cysts)
FET Jan 2005: -tive
FET Aug. 2005
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Post by Nickie88 »

Oh Dagny

I really don't like the look of the list - it has really depressed me :cry:

It just goes to show how this IVF lark is not quite so straightforward is it??

GOOD luck JENF

xxxxx
Nickie
1st Cycle ICSI - Cancelled before E/R due to poor response
2nd Cycle ICSI - April 2004 Negative
3rd Cycle FET - July 2004 - Negative
4th Cycle ICSI - Nov 2004 - BFP (Oh my GOD)
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Nickie

Good luck......I get the feeling you are going to be the one to end this depressing thread on a good note!! GO ON YOU CAN DO IT!!

JenFx
Dagny
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Post by Dagny »

Dear Nickie

Please don't let this list worry you. I have to admit that I have never seen such shocking results but there is still a massive chance for you to get that BFP.

We are all crossing our fingers, toes and eye's for you and you can do it. We must end this list off with a happy face.

I can understand youe concerns but be positive, not long to go now.

Love and hugs Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
Dagny
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Post by Dagny »

:shock: I am quite shocked at the results on here. This is the worst I have seen it! :shock:


Kel - July 1st - :(
Debra - July 9th - :(
DeeDee - July 11th - :(
Teresa - July 15th - :D
Loopy - July 16th - :(
Tammi - July21st - :(
Alette - July 24th - :(
Dagny - July 26th - :(
July ann - July 27th - :(
Hope - July 27th - :D
Janeya - July 28th - :(
Sophie-Jane - July 29th - :(
LindseyB - July 30th - :(
Macaroni - July 30th - :(
JenF - July 31st - :(
Nickie88 - July 31st - :?:


Good luck - Nickie. The law of avarages says that there is still a positive to be had so go get it!!!

Lets end this list with a smiley!!!
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
Nickie88
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Post by Nickie88 »

Girls

Thanks for all your messages of support -I REALLY do hope I can finish off this month buddy list with a smiley face :lol: . The pressure is on! I just want to tell you all that you are great and how much I have appreciated all your posts over the past few months. I'm getting quite emotional here :?: :?:

Here's hoping ............

Love to you all
Nickie
1st Cycle ICSI - Cancelled before E/R due to poor response
2nd Cycle ICSI - April 2004 Negative
3rd Cycle FET - July 2004 - Negative
4th Cycle ICSI - Nov 2004 - BFP (Oh my GOD)
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Post by tammi »

All right all of us sad faces :cry: . I am setting a challange for all of us!!!!!!!!!!We must all start over together and maybe we can be on a new thread of all happy faces :D . Please everyone look up and start thinking of a future with babies in it!! Come on everyone we need to try try try again! We can't lose hope!
11/03 1st IVF Neg.
Went on Lupron Depot 3 mo.
05/04 IUI Neg.
07/04 IVF Neg.
Thinking of changing Doc.
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