Wish me good luck

[ambywilliam]

Hi there. I am in need of help. I tried for straight six years to TTC. I was unable to get pregnant. I consulted the doctor after six years. My husband and I were not that serious about having a baby in those 6 years. During the sixth year, my in-laws started saying me to get pregnant. They started saying to my husband to divorce me if I do not get pregnant. My husband was totally fine for almost 5.5 months about not having a baby. However, at the end of the sixth year, he started threatening me that he will leave me if I will not give him the baby. That was really a tough time. We went to the doctor. We find out that I have to go to IVF in order to have the baby. We did so. The first round was a failure. We will be going for the second round after two weeks. Wish me good luck otherwise my husband would leave me.

[xenia]

Keep my fingers crossed

[Gia9]

Hi there. I am in need of help. I tried for straight six years to TTC. I was unable to get pregnant. I consulted the doctor after six years. My husband and I were not that serious about having a baby in those 6 years. During the sixth year, my in-laws started saying me to get pregnant. They started saying to my husband to divorce me if I do not get pregnant. My husband was totally fine for almost 5.5 months about not having a baby. However, at the end of the sixth year, he started threatening me that he will leave me if I will not give him the baby. That was really a tough time. We went to the doctor. We find out that I have to go to IVF in order to have the baby. We did so. The first round was a failure. We will be going for the second round after two weeks. Wish me good luck otherwise my husband would leave me.

Sorry to hear about your fertility struggle! However, it's totally not acceptable that your Husband threatens you that he will leave you if you couldn't have a baby. That's insanely naive. I landed upon this post very very late so I'm not sure if my comment can really help you much but I hope it will help others who happen to search something on the same line or just come across this post casually and could relate to it. Irrespective of the fact that most women find success sometimes soon with one or the other assisted fertility procedure... your ability to conceive is not in your own hands. In that case, I hope you're husband is educated enough to understand that part and not be such an asshole. Secondly, before you try everything to get pregnant so save your marriage ... think ... if a husband is willing to leave you if you don't have a baby is the marriage really worth saving? If you're already self-sufficient you should tell him inspite of having a kid you will leave him cause he is an asshole. Or instead of spending all your time and money on fertility treatment get self-sufficient. I don't trust men like these to last a lifetime or deserve to be even a dad.