Help me, please

[MickySul]

Hello
I'm a single man who had a beautiful wife. We lived together for 4 years, enjoyed every minute. That day she called and asked to take her from work. It was pouring with heavy rain. She died as a result of an accident on the road. I drove home and crashed into a tree. I didn't get any scratch. Doctors tried their best, but they failed to save my wife.
I'm only 30, and my parents ask me to find a new wife. But I can not. I can not even think about it. I love only her, and I miss her. Her only dream was to make me a daddy. Since I don't want to get married again, how about if I go for surrogacy? I just want one child, with whom I can spend rest of my life. I really need some serious advice or suggestion. How and from where shall I start?

[Ghost]

You can be sure that soon some poster will claim, without evidence, that some clinic in the Ukraine is the best for surrogacy.

It's a dishonest form of advertising.

[MickySul]

You can be sure that soon some poster will claim, without evidence, that some clinic in the Ukraine is the best for surrogacy.

It's a dishonest form of advertising.

What's wrong with you? I have no right to share my problem?

[Ghost]

You can be sure that soon some poster will claim, without evidence, that some clinic in the Ukraine is the best for surrogacy.

It's a dishonest form of advertising.

What's wrong with you? I have no right to share my problem?

Where did I say you have no right? Nowhere.

[MickySul]

Where did I say you have no right? Nowhere.

Ok, than I apologize. I misunderstood you

[Honey_Sunny]

Hello
How and from where shall I start?

I am very sorry to read about your loss. This is a terrible tragedy. I am so very sorry.
Yes, you can pursue surrogacy. The first step is always Research. It will be important to determine who will be your egg donor. Will you ask a family member to donate eggs? Or will you work with an egg donor? This is the most important choice you have to make in the beginning!

[MickySul]

Will you ask a family member to donate eggs? Or will you work with an egg donor? This is the most important choice you have to make in the beginning!

I'm definitely not ready to do this with my relatives. So I'm considering the option with the donor. So, how much does it cost me?

[Honey_Sunny]

Will you ask a family member to donate eggs? Or will you work with an egg donor? This is the most important choice you have to make in the beginning!

I'm definitely not ready to do this with my relatives. So I'm considering the option with the donor. So, how much does it cost me?

It's not cheap. It can also potentially take a few cycles to have success. You may have a surrogate fall through and need a second one. Your surrogate may have a complicated pregnancy. A lot can go wrong and the costs add up.
I think the least expensive journey I have ever heard of was in the ballpark of $30k for everything. I have also seen cases of it costing the IPs $100k or more. Especially with travel associated with international matches.

[Ghost]

Surrogacy cycles (actually the wrong name, but it seems to be routinely used here) can cost anywhere from $4000 to almost $100,000. Some are fortunate and have a friend or sister that will carry for them for free, and if they use donor embryos, they can avoid most of the IVF costs, too. That would be a very rare case.

[pagerelvia33]

Surrogacy cycles (actually the wrong name, but it seems to be routinely used here) can cost anywhere from $4000 to almost $100,000. Some are fortunate and have a friend or sister that will carry for them for free, and if they use donor embryos, they can avoid most of the IVF costs, too. That would be a very rare case.

I have never heard of a surrogacy cycle to cost as low as 4k. That sounds incredibly cheap though. Usually, clinics offer the cheap option for as low as 20k or something. that's not including the flight expenses. however, if I think about it. They are (the clinic in the country of my choice) providing with all kinds of stuff you would expect to pay for yourself.