Sandra

Mia · Post by **Mia** » Sun Aug 22, 2004 3:24 pm

Good luck Sandra on your test tomorrow!

I will be thinking about you.
Hoping for a BFP
Mia

belsy · Post by **belsy** » Sun Aug 22, 2004 3:33 pm

lots of positive vibes Sandra!!!

Good luck ... Belinda x

Barny · Post by **Barny** » Sun Aug 22, 2004 4:45 pm

Hi Sandra,
Wishing you lots and lots of luck for tomorrow.
Barny

Traci · Post by **Traci** » Sun Aug 22, 2004 5:23 pm

I have lit my candel all ready so I dont forget , lets get another smiley face on the list .

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}]

Trace x

Jeanie · Post by **Jeanie** » Sun Aug 22, 2004 7:08 pm

Will be thinking of you tomorrow. So hope it's what we all wish it will be. Aaaaaaaaaah!! Hang on in there!! You've been a huge support throughout and I really am rooting for you.
lots of hope and love, Jeanie xxxxx

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Sun Aug 22, 2004 7:30 pm

Thanks a lot girls to everyone for their support. Once again, I haven't even made it to test day. Friday's discharge has slowly turned to AF today. Although there's not that much of it, have had severe cramps all through last night and today, so there's no mistake.

Anyway ... have had a few crying sessions, but I don't think it's really hit me yet. Will look forward to that delight in the next few days !

.... and sorry to bump down the stats !

I wish everyone all the luck in the world, and will still be watching you all ...PMA PMA !

Sandra x

alicia · Post by **alicia** » Sun Aug 22, 2004 8:12 pm

Sandra,

How cruel - to not even get to test

I just felt numb after getting the news that I would not be having a baby after the last IVF. You're right that crying will help, but it will come when it's ready.

We're all here for you - most of us have gone through this too, so you're not alone. Take especially good care of yourself for the next few weeks/days. Remeber, no social obligations you don't really WANT to attend for now.

Alicia

DebraP · Post by **DebraP** » Sun Aug 22, 2004 9:00 pm

Sandra I'm sorry about your news. Will you still test, just in case?

I had the same as you last time, AF before test date, but needed the blood test's confirmation to move on.

Let yourself be angry/pissed off/upset. It's so important to deal with how you feel.

love
Debra.

belsy · Post by **belsy** » Sun Aug 22, 2004 9:40 pm

Sandra, I am gutted for you

Scream, shout and cry if you need to ... it really helps to rid those demons.

Much love to you and your DP

Belinda x

sfisch · Post by **sfisch** » Sun Aug 22, 2004 9:44 pm

Sandra,

My friend had IVF and had a full blown AF around the same time she was supposed to test and was still pregnant! She thought for sure it was over, but she is delivering her baby girl any day now! Please go test tomorrow and continue your progesterone if you are taking it -- that is what fy friend's doctor said really helped!

Please don't give up hope yet -- it could very well still be positive!!!!

Love,

Ellie · Post by **Ellie** » Mon Aug 23, 2004 6:45 pm

Sandra
sorry to hear you sad news. I know how much you are hurting at the moment.Do whatever it is that eases the pain even for a minute.It is only time that will let you heal and move on. You are in my thoughts.

Barny · Post by **Barny** » Mon Aug 23, 2004 7:33 pm

Sandra, I really do feel for you.
I was hoping so much that it would be good news.
As Jeanie says - you are such a huge support to many ladies on here.
You seem such a kind person and you really don't derserve this.
Thinking of you.
Take care of yourself and DH.
Barny

Jeanie · Post by **Jeanie** » Mon Aug 23, 2004 7:42 pm

Oh no, Sandra. So sorry to hear your news. Like a few have said over the weeeks, it may not be AF. I hope you do take the test to confirm, because you just never know. Have read about some women bleeding whole way through. Isn't there a glimmer of a chance? If you know yourself then please know we are gutted for you and thinking of you. You're still so supportive for us even after this! You are so selfless and deserve to have a baby and you WILL, I really do so hope so. Do whatever it takes to help ease the pain, not that much will at the moment. Take care of yourself and keep in touch.
lots of love Jeanie xxxxx

AMITHIS · Post by **AMITHIS** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 1:06 am

Sandra,

I'm so sorry to see your news. I had the same thing happen on my first try and I know how horrible it is not to even make it to the actual test.

Take care of yourself. We're all here for you.

Hugs,
Staci

Mandy Miller · Post by **Mandy Miller** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 8:15 am

To Sanda & any others who have just come on before their test date.

I am so sorry for you. Been there, done that. It's devasting. It happened to me on my first go in February. I still tested though, as had been told to. It's still worth a try as the others say, but at least you will be prepared now.

I test on 2nd Sept & am more or less convinced that I am not pregnant this time. I have had no implantation bleeding that everyone talks about & am still trying to keep positive. However, my thinking is that if I convince myself it hasn't worked again, then imagine how good I will feel if it has. It would be even more of a surprise.

Life is very cruel for us isn't it. Only we here understand what you are going through.

Keep you chin up. We are all thinking about you.

Try & arrange a nice little break somewhere to cheer you both up. It doesn't have to be expensive, there are plenty of bargains about if you look on the net etc.

Good luck for your next attempt if this isn't your time, I hope it will be next time.

Love & best wishes, Mandy.

Sandra

Sandra

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