dagny need some advice

SQUEW · Post by **SQUEW** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 6:10 pm

Hi Dagny Was absolutely thrilled to read your news today. To be honest I didnt post yesterday as was in a bit of a state and didnt want to make you worried re your scan. As you know I too had the brown discharge, this got worse yesterday, and by the evening I had a little blood, was totally convinced it was all over as af had started and spent a very tearful night with dh. I called my clinic and they told me to carry on with the pessaries and still test on Thurs. Question is why did you have to have a scan, did they give you a reason,what did the hospital say re the discharge, do you still have the discharge, if so whats it like(sorry)and have you had any blood at all? Today I had nothing at all until lunchtime, then it got worse, with a few pink bits, but seems to have eased up again. If you thought you were going mad on Sun, I am def awaiting the men with the white coats. Sue xx Ps, dont have af pains just a few sharpish ones in my tummy, still dont have sore boobs though. If I get a positive I will eat my hat! [Edited by SQUEW on 07-Oct-03 11:12]

SQUEW · Post by **SQUEW** » Wed Oct 08, 2003 6:12 am

Update Dagny Dont worry about it as now have bleeding so it was the start of my af after all. thought so when I started to get blood, but I guess reading your fantastic news gave me a last bit of hope. Sue xx

Dagny · Post by **Dagny** » Wed Oct 08, 2003 8:32 am

Oh my goodness Sue I am so sorry. I was so hoping and praying for you. I have still got a bit of discharge and a bit stringy too. Have you done a test as some people do bleed in pregnancy. I think you should just to set your mind at ease. The docs wanted to scan to see if my ovaries and womb were ok as I had some pain (not AF) stabbing type pains. I was quite dehydrated too and they wanted to admit me but I promised to drink lots and rest. Phew close one!! I haven't got sore boobs at all. I feel sick occasionally and feel tired. I don't think there is any pattern to follow. Hang in there honey and in the words of Wibbs 'It aint over till the fat lady sings'! Love and lots of HUGS Dagny xx

alisonb · Post by **alisonb** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 1:34 pm

Hiya OC buds How ya all doing? I ditto all that Kathryn has just typed on everybodys tmt becos it saves me typing it again, and becos its my 1st day back at work today and im on my lunch half hour !! Kathryn, ive been feeling the same but it is normal with all the hormones its not surprising we're screwed up. But i have huge ++tive vibes that ur gonna be a ++++tive and get the ball rolling for us OC girls !! I'll feel as though im building myself up for a fall aswell with the tummy pains on day 3,4, & 5 ive convinced myself they've imbedded and im so tired today im convincing myself thats another good sign but it cud be becos ive been sat on my arse all last week and now ive come back 2 work today so ur not mad Kathryn i think we all our when we're on 2WW !! Hows everyone else on 2ww? Well better go and do some more work !! Take care girls ++++++ Alisonb xx

beckym · Post by **beckym** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 1:34 pm

Hi guys Well af arrived this morning with a vengeance - hot water bottles at dawn! That hot bath did the trick I think plus loads of positive thinking on the lines of ..come on!!! Unfortunately, no dh still though, they are still keeping him in although he is feeling fine and is eating downstairs in the staff restaurant every day now cos the hospital food is so bad!! They say they want to do a CAT scan on him to look at his pancreas as they think it is still inflamed. At this rate he won't be out before ec (at which his prescence is rather critical, methinks)!! He and his mates on the ward rigged up TV plus speakers to watch the football and the rugby over the weekend. bless. they're not having such a bad time, except one of them isn't allowed to eat and keeps looking longingly at my dh's supper. hope everyone's having a good day. i'm off to the hospital now. beckym xxx

alypraying · Post by **alypraying** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 3:42 pm

Hi Becky Hope DH is feeling better sounds like he's not doing too bad! great that AF has finally arrived. katheryn and Alison I know how you feel this 2WW IS a bit of a mind game. Not long now I have a good feeling about both of you. Feeling lots more positive than I did with the ivf not knowing what the embryo quality is like helps I gan make belive that the eggs are all grade 1 and I'll end up with triplets! Only problem with this is come Thursday when implantation should have occurred I'll be going into analyst mode. Guess you all know what it's like, good thing with IUI is you don't have to wait between cycles which is a real help. Anyway hope all the gils jabbing are progressing nicely when do you have your scans?? love and hugs Aly xx

Grace · Post by **Grace** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 6:22 pm

Hi to you all Just to let you know I am still hanging around. Had a bit of a jittery old day today...don't quite know why, no particular reason, perhaps am just going madder as the days are going on!!. I just get quite worked up about every scan and have all these impossibly horrible scenario's in my head before hand. Is anyone else as mad as I?????? Feeling calmer this evening though. All is going well, so far so good. Follicles growing and getting a "nice" womb lining etc. Hopefully ready for ec on Friday. I have had two scans now and back for another and bloods on Wed to check that it will be okay. Won't go through everyone's cycle because I think I am becoming brain dead and will probably mix it all up. Have to go into work tomorrow though and pretned I am normal!! Thinking of you all, love Gracexxx

Lisa_P · Post by **Lisa_P** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 6:45 pm

Fellow OCB hellloooooooooo! Hope you all had a good weekend, we had a weekend away though it was hard to explain why I wasn't drinking, as I'm normally one of the first ones to the bar! Oh well, it's my baseline on Wednesday - as it's my first treatment I really don't know what to expect. As long as they tell me everything is going to plan I don't mind though the prospect of injecting doesn't thrill me, especially as I'm going to be letting my dh to do the deed. When do they suugest is the best time to inject? we're hoping to do morning, not sure if that's going to be a problem. Aly, Kate, ALison and Bel - hope you're all coping well with your 2ww, we're all counting on you to begin the OCB +ivessssssssss Beckym, glad your af arrived and you're now ready to begin. Hope you are all well and a big thank you to those that have typed the lists so that those of us, like me, who get 'lost' with it all can keep a tab on things - much appreciated, thanks

I'll let you know the outcome of my baseline Take care everyone! Lisa x x

LORRAINE G · Post by **LORRAINE G** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 7:05 pm

Hi all Just a quickie to let you all know that I am still here keeping an eye on you all! Still stabbing away, getting a little bruised now and have been having slight stabbing pains in both ovaries today (at least I think thats what it is, could be the large packet of maltesers!) My scan is 3.45 on Friday, will post when I get home to let you all know the day of EC!! Love to all Lorraine G

gem · Post by **gem** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 7:36 pm

Hello Everybody Hope everyone is keeping up the positive thinking. I've just had a hot bath so hopefully this will start af to come,I keep having some stomach ache so it should be just round the corner I've never wanted her to come so much. When do they say the embryos implant? I've asked for the 1st week off work to rest and make sure they implant! as last time I went back to work on the monday when the et was on the Sat,work are being really understanding and letting me have as much time off that I need,I work at a special needs school as a nursery nurse so only have 2weeks til half term-cant wait. To everyone whos on the 2week hope you all get ++++,Kathryn and Alison it sounds ++++++ already. Becky-hope your dh comes out so bet its awful travelling there and back,glad your af arrived I'm waiting for mine shes due any day from now. Well speak to you all soon Love Gem xxx

wales · Post by **wales** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 7:45 pm

week one is over thank god, wifey says we will do pg test on sunday should be 20th on the monday,but by then it will or wont have worked . best of luck alison . mr wales.

beckym · Post by **beckym** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 8:55 pm

best of luck everyone. I'm off to the in-laws tomorrow morning until dh comes out of hospital, but will try to log in from their computer. am having my baseline scan Friday a.m. cross fingers Lisa P for your baseline beckym xxx

Kate W · Post by **Kate W** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 10:38 pm

Hi everyone I have been in hiding a bit over thge last few days. Sorry about that. Kathryn - that is fantastic how you have listed everyone. I hope everyone is doing well. There are lots of positive vibes coming through in the posts. Today is exactly one week before i test. I test on the 21/10 although the clinic have said that if it doesn't work I should expect AF to arrive on 17/10. Does that sound normal to everyone else or do you normally test at time you expect AF to arrive? I thought you could do hpts on the day your af was due. Isn't 2ww tortuous?? I am inserting crinone gel every night (not pessaries just squirting the cream inside - sorry for being so graphic!!) and it has made my boobs so enormous I can barely do my shirts up over the top of them! I have also been feeling a bit (just a weeny bit) nauseous but when I looked at the side effects of the crinone and discussed it with my friend who has just had a baby it sounds like they have all the same side effects of early pregnancy. How cruel is that? Looks like to only thing to do is wait. Becky - I hope your dh is out of hospital soon. everyone is so busy! good luck to everyone - i am sending lots of PMA. Love Kate

BelB · Post by **BelB** » Tue Oct 14, 2003 6:57 am

Hey OCB gals, Completely relate to the madness of the 2ww..I'm like Kate, officially at the half way point today, I test on the 21st..Also seemed wierd to me that you don't test on the day that AF is due, but 14 days after embryo transfer; guess though by then AF will be three days late and the test is more accurate??? We're doing HcG injections in my bum on a natural FET cycle, evidently you don't use the lovely sounding pessaries as part of this process. Dh did one for me on Saturday and was playing golf this morning so one of the nurses at the hospital I work in gave me the other this morning. My good friend who is on an IVF cycle is using the cream as well, sounds truly delightful! Am going completely bonkers, get concerned that I had no implantation spotting, but the clinic assures me that it is neither here nor there, and no indication of the ultimate outcome. Have also been feeling tired, emotional and a bit sick in the tumm at times, so who knows, am working really hard at PMA!!! To my fellow 2ww'ers, looking forward to all of our positives All the best to all of the OCB gals! B

vickib · Post by **vickib** » Tue Oct 14, 2003 10:08 am

Hi All Just checking in making sure everyones OK. PMA ++++++++ for all you 2ww. You say the 2ww makes you mad I think I've been mad for weeks, keep positive and look after yourselves. Becky Glad to hear AF has arrived Hope DH comes home soon. Gem I'm sure your AF is just around the corner, she likes to mess us around at times like this. Lorraine Good luck with Scan on Friday. Lisa Ch how did baseline scan go I've got mine on 16.10. Lisa P good luck with baseline 15.10. Grace glad to hear things are progressing well hope all goes well for EC Friday. Love to All Vicki B XXX [Edited by vickib on 14-Oct-03 03:08]