Bad news

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jill dickens
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Bad news

Post by jill dickens »

Hi Buddies,
Thank you all for your good wishes. I am afraid today has knocked me for six. My 7 week scan showed a sac but no embryo, I am devastated and don't know what to do. My Ecg had gone up to 7000 but my nurse said this is probably because the placenta had been working. I have to carry on with all drugs and have another scan next Thursday. This has been such a terrible shock the nurse said it really wasn't looking good and I should be prepared for the worst but to cover themselves I should stay on the drugs.
I can't do much else but cry at the moment I suppose I am in shock.
Thank you all once again love Jill xx
TTC nearly 9 years
Raised FSH
natural pg M/C, 12 months on Clomid +ve M/C
1st Egg Donor IVF Cycle Oct 04 +ve M/C my dream is over
Nov 04 Began the adoption journey
Nov 06 our beautiful baby girl has come home we were matched at just over 12 months
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DebraP
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Post by DebraP »

Oh Jill. My heart sank at the title of your post. I didn't want to open it at all, I'm such a coward when it's your pain, not mine.

I'm so sorry to read what happened today. It must have been a terrible, terrible shock. I can only imagine how upset you must be. Our group seemed to have so bad news, yours was one of the few good stories. It's good to cry but they haven't told you to give up hope yet so although it must hurt like hell, you'll have to carry on looking after yourself and the possibility that you're still pregnant.

My heart goes out to you and DH.
love
Debra.
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Post by Kim »

Jill

My heart also sank at the title of your post and I'm so sorry. I wish I could find the right words but all I can say is that I'm thinking of you. Am posting this with tears in my eyes - it's so unfair.

All my love and thoughts are with you

Love

Kim xx
Kel
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Post by Kel »

Dear Jill,
I just can't believe it.. I am so so sorry, I am lost for words..
I will be so praying for you to be ok.. This is so unfair, I feel useless and wish everything can be ok after all you have been through..
I'm thinking of you and always here for you,
Love Kel xx
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Post by sophiejane »

Oh the biggest hugs to you and dh. I don't know whether I should be saying how sorry I am or whether I should be encouraging you to hold onto the hope that next week they will be able to see the embryo.

What a horrible position for you to be in. After being so excited you must be devastated.
I am truly thinking of you, nd am stamping my feet at how unfair life is to us sometimes.
Best wishes Jill, and let us know how your days are going. We are here for you, and you can shout, cry and be angry with us you know.
Love from Sophie-Jane
Me 33 dp 30
me tubal damage
ist ivf Feb04 -ive
fet July04 -ive
ivf Nov04 +ive twins, but sadly one twin died at 10 weeks gestation. Freya born 21st July 2005. She's amazing!
alicia
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Post by alicia »

Jill,

So sorry to hear that things are not looking good. I was so hopeful for you. It seems so unfair that so many things can go wrong for us. Please take good care of yourself. You will be in my thoughts this week.

Alicia
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Post by Sand »

Jill

I've just read your post and am so sorry that you're in this turmoil. Next Thursday seems such an age away I'm sure. Pls keep thinking +ve thoughts, and my heart is with you

Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
londongel
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Post by londongel »

Jill
I was so sorry to hear your sad news.I know nothing anyone can say will help with both your pain at this terrible time.just hang in there
Tricia
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unexplained infertility
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debbieed
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Post by debbieed »

Hello Jill,
sorry to read your news. I know that nothing I say can help how you must be feeling but here is a big hug which I'm hoping might help a little bit.

Love
Debbie
Age 40
Dh 42
ttc#1
1st IVF Oct 2004 -ive
2nd IVF March 2005 -ive
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eacole
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Post by eacole »

Jill,

So so so sorry to hear this news. This is so distressing, there is just no getting around it. Please hang in there-though I can just imagine what you and your hubby must be feeling right now. We will all do our best to help you through this.

Love Elizabeth
kate H
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Post by kate H »

so sorry don't know what to say to be honest.
thinking of you
kate xxx
Alette
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Post by Alette »

big hug for you and your husband, this is really cruel.

xxx
Alette
after lots of IUI, 4 FETs and 5 IVF's
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Susan L
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Post by Susan L »

jill

i am so very sorry to read your bad new its so unfair i wish there was something i could say to make you feel better.
I will be thinking of you

sue
Me 27 DP 28
ttc 6 years started ivf Oct 03 due to M/F
ICSI Oct 03 negative
ICSI April 04 Positive but ended m/c at 10wks
FET Nov 04 positive boy girl twins born 5th july 2005 at 35weeks Blake 6lbs13oz kirsten 6lbs10oz
christine202
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Post by christine202 »

Hi Jill

Have been following your progress even though haven't been posting.


Was so shocked when I read you post.

My heart goes out to you and DH, take care of each other.

Thinking of you lots of love

christine x
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