january buddies??

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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lesleypb
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Post by lesleypb »

Thanks Alison B for including me. I'm getting worried about Saturday, this is our second attempt and I've already said our last. It's not fair on our 11 year old.

My historys similar to yours, got pregnant with Dan in 1993 naturally after a year of trying, then after an ectopic in 96 (after a year of trying), It took another 6 years before I took the courage to find out why I wasn't getting pregnant and it turned out I only ever had one tube which was now blocked from the ectopic. Tried IVF Aug 03 but negative, would have tried again sooner than now but I had a a big bereavement and felt I couldn't go through the hormones!

Anyway it's all set for this Saturday.

I used this site last time and found it helped.

Good luck to everyone whatever stage you are on.
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danica
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Post by danica »

hello everyone!
wow, i missed heaps due to the festive season as well as having family visit from interstate - i hope everyone had a good break!

alisonb, i have started taking the pill now, its been such a long time since i've taken it, it seems weird to be taking it to get pregnant - i tried for so long not to get pregnant now that we're trying it seems so ironic!
i see the ivf nurse on the 18th which is when i start sniffing i think... i just want it to all happen NOW - im becoming impatient for some reason!
omg, goodluck with your scan tomorrow, i'm sending you positive vibes!

hope everything is going to plan for all you girls...
chat soon,
d xo
danica [img]http://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/tiere/d026.gif[/img]

Our little man Luka, born 30th May '06 weighing 8pounds 4 - truly a precious miracle!
alisonb
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Post by alisonb »

Afternoon Ladies,

Hope your all well, just a quick post sorry im on a rush lunch break, so hope to catch up with you all individually later,

Danica, Have you started to count the days down yet ? the 18th will be here before you know it.
Lesley, Best of luck for tomorrow, Yes unfortunately are histories are pretty similar, and this is my 2nd fresh cycle, hopefully we both wont need another try, Does your son know you are havng treatment ?
My son Andrew does know i explained to him fully this time so he can understand if im upset or hormonal or whatever and i must say hes been fantastic. Anyway will talk later, Best of luck again,
Well i have been for another stimms scan this morning and after being dead fed up on weds because i only had 8 follies i know have 13 in double figures and a further 8 at 8mm so im back on monday morning when they think i will be ready so its looking like i will have EC on Weds so im chuffed, giddy, excited and nervous all at the same time, fingers crossed i get enough eggs for my recipient and myself xx

Catch up later ladies
Ali xx
Dh 39, Me 34, Wonderful DS age 12yrs,
concieved naturally 1992 ,
Ectopic 1994
Ist IVF 1997 -tive
Fet 1999 -tive
Fet Oct 2003 -tive
IVF Dec04/Jan05 Egg-Share -tive OHSS
IVF May/June 05 Egg share +++++++20/06/05
AMITHIS
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Post by AMITHIS »

Hi all,

Was hoping to catch up on where everyone is at today but we're headed away for the weekend pretty soon (nothing fun; DH has to work and I'm only tagging along because I need him for the shots).

Anyway, had my scan today and I am actually downregged. I can't believe it actually worked in 10 days this this time and I actually didn't feel half as bad as I remember feeling the last time around (although I was stuck on it for like 18 days that time!). So, tomorrow I start taking estrogen tablets. I guess that will make things feel like they are moving along.

Guess I'd better get moving. I will be doing a lot of reading on Sunday when I return!

Hope everyone is doing well.

Staci
Me 35/DH 41
TTC 4 years
Diagnosis: MF infertility
IVF/ICSI April 2004: -tive
FET Aug. 2004 (canceled due to cysts)
FET Jan 2005: -tive
FET Aug. 2005
Traci
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Post by Traci »

AlisonB Stacy
and all you Jan buddies
I just wanted to wish you all a happy new year and lets have some BFP's please , I am not doing TMT this year as I need to get my sanity back so perhaps I will be a Jan 06 buddie and you by then will all be Mummys hopefully . PMA PMA PMA I will be keeping an eye on you all
All my Love
Trace xxx
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
lesleypb
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Post by lesleypb »

Started 'sniffing' this morning, forgotten about the awful taste. Worse this time as I've given up smoking as well. At least this treatment I only take it twice a day, last time I had to take it four times a day so I wasn't just hormonal but tired too!!!

Good luck to everyone.

Lesley
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Post by JaneR »

Hi all you JCB's,

Firstly wishing you all lots of luck and hoping for lots of BCPs.

I signed up to be a JCB early Dec i think but now not sure if it will happen this time. I had my down regging (single lasts amonth) injection on 17/12 at the time my lining was 7 mm thick so thought great have an AF on the drugs for 10 days then pop the little frosties back. But at the end of Dec had another scan and my lining had gone upto 13mm thick had another last week and now my uterus is full of fluid and they are talking of more scans and possibly stopping the cycle.

But, PMA is all I need to say next weeks scan everything will be OK and hopefully they won't give me another injection and let me inject myself daily, I don't seem to react in the same way to those drugs and then I can start the other drugs and have the transfer at the end of Jan. I really don't want to stop this cycle If do Ido it will be the third time and I don't know if I could go through it all again. This just seems to happen to me evertime. I feel so down I know the drugs are making it ten times worse, I spent 6 months on this poison and was hell to live with the entire time.

ANyway lets hope next weeks brings some hope.


Love,

Jane
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Post by AMITHIS »

Traci,

Thanks for the good wishes and for keeping an eye on all of us! I know what you mean about needing a break. If this go doesn't work and I have to use all my frosties for it, I think I may be taking a permanent break! We have to pay for everything here and I want to make sure we have enough money left that adoption is still an option.

Anyway, I will be looking out for positive news from you next year!

Jane,

I'm not sure I understand what happened. Do you mean your lining is too thick? What would cause fluid build up in the uterus like that? It sounds like you are taking estrogen by injection? If I recall correctly, you also had a cycle cancelled due to cysts, right (like I did)?
What day is your scan? I will definitely be wishing the best for you. I know how frustrating it is to finally get moving along then have to cancel.

Hello to everyone else.

Just got back from traveling so have to go unpack and try to straighten up my messy house!

Staci
Me 35/DH 41
TTC 4 years
Diagnosis: MF infertility
IVF/ICSI April 2004: -tive
FET Aug. 2004 (canceled due to cysts)
FET Jan 2005: -tive
FET Aug. 2005
alisonb
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Post by alisonb »

Hiya Ladies,

Just a quick post as im rushing around like a headless chicken at the moment,

Traci, hiya mate how you doing ? thanks for the good wishes i think i need them, thanks for the emails aswell xx Know what you mean about taking a break i had a 3-4 year gap before starting again and i needed it to be honest to get myself both mentally and physically for this cycle, Anyway thanks and im sure 2006 will be a good year for you to be a mum xx
Jane, Hope that things take a turn around for the better and that you get to carry on with your cycle, fingers crossed for you xx
Staci, How was your break ? How are things going with you ?
Lesley, hope the sniffing isnt too bad when do you have a first check up ?

Well as for me things have progressed quicker than anticipated, i was supposed to have EC on weds but when i got home from work on friday they said could i come back in on sat for another scan and bloods, then had a call on sat about 2pm to say to take my HCG that eve at 10.30pm so ladies im in for EC TOMORROW YIKES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
so i've had a bit of a nightmare trying to re-arrange my work at short notice as i'd told them all id be off from weds, but hey bugger it, its only work this is my main priority,

Right ladies must go hubby is giving me the internet widow look,
Take care, Will let you all know how tomorrow goes asap.

Luv Ali xx
Dh 39, Me 34, Wonderful DS age 12yrs,
concieved naturally 1992 ,
Ectopic 1994
Ist IVF 1997 -tive
Fet 1999 -tive
Fet Oct 2003 -tive
IVF Dec04/Jan05 Egg-Share -tive OHSS
IVF May/June 05 Egg share +++++++20/06/05
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Post by DebraP »

Ali, good luck with EC tomorrow. Be sure to rest up afterwards but let us all know how you got on as soon as you're ready.

LOL re. the 'internet widow' look...I get that too! I'm giving him the 'Lord of the Rings widow' look back as I type....

hugs for tomorrow,
Debra.
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Post by AMITHIS »

Ali,

My break was good...although I have to say that 50% of the time I was just obsessing over this next try so I'm a little relieve to just be getting on with it.

That must have been a shock that your EC will be tomorrow. Good luck!!
Wishing you the best.

Staci
Me 35/DH 41
TTC 4 years
Diagnosis: MF infertility
IVF/ICSI April 2004: -tive
FET Aug. 2004 (canceled due to cysts)
FET Jan 2005: -tive
FET Aug. 2005
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Post by sammys »

Hi everyone, I'm starting ivf work up in Jan/Feb, I've done the iui's with no success and I'm really scared that ivf will let me down too...it's just so hard to keep the faith, ya know? But of course being the "sucker for punishment" that I am, here goes nothing! I pray that all of us someday will hold our little bundle of joy(or joys) :)
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Post by alisonb »

Hi Ladies

Hope your all well, just a quick post from me so no personals, because i have the internet police (DH on my shoulder telling me to get back on the sofa Ooooops) on my case.
Just to let you lovely ladies know that i had my EC this morning and i had 23 eggs collected so 11 for me to keep and 12 for my recipient so im happy about that.
Right i think my alloted time is coming to an end,
Hope to catch up with you all soon but im thinking of you all xx

Take care everyone,

Ali xx

Promise to catch up with everyone soon x
Dh 39, Me 34, Wonderful DS age 12yrs,
concieved naturally 1992 ,
Ectopic 1994
Ist IVF 1997 -tive
Fet 1999 -tive
Fet Oct 2003 -tive
IVF Dec04/Jan05 Egg-Share -tive OHSS
IVF May/June 05 Egg share +++++++20/06/05
AMITHIS
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Post by AMITHIS »

Ali,

Just wanted to say well done!! Your recipient must be quite pleased as well.

It sounds like you'll even have some frosties. :)

Staci
Me 35/DH 41
TTC 4 years
Diagnosis: MF infertility
IVF/ICSI April 2004: -tive
FET Aug. 2004 (canceled due to cysts)
FET Jan 2005: -tive
FET Aug. 2005
lesleypb
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Post by lesleypb »

Well done Alison, you've got loads!

First day back at work today since started 'sniffing' on Saturday. Don't go for first scan until 31.1.05 then start injections. EC due for 14.2.05-very romantic day!!

All the best to everyone.

Lesley
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