Hi !
I am 9dpt3dt and I am feeling really nervous today. I've held out all along and my beta is on Tues 3/1. But today Sun its just me and DH in the house and its quiet and I"m really thinking about this a lot. SHOULD I DO A HPT??
Also, has anyone had mood swings towards the end of their 2WW? I'm saying its the meds but of course its also the anxiety...anyway, I'm being really snappy to DH for no reason and I feel bad, but its just coming out!...
dont test early...
you will make your self go nuts and no matter what it says you wont belive it...
you also need to post on the gen forum and also on the gen forum look for the march buddies..
there are some there that are waiting to test..
good luck
and dont test..
becky
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
DH and I had a fight last night - won't go into details there. I had asked him to read some of these boards to understand what women go through, I asked him when we first started to support me extra special even before I ask for it because we will need it - anyway, we had a fight. This morning went alone to the doc's office - haven't got the results yet - but I"m nervous that bad emotions and the fight last night could have an effect on Larry, Curly and Moesha (my 3 embies transferred.)
I know biologically, there's no proof, but I couldn't help feeling I could have swallowed my pride and anger and for the sake of L, C and M, just had a more pleasant night/morning and channel better energy right before the Beta...
I"m really sad this morning - I"m really trying not to make myself more sensitive or feel more princess just because I"m going though this - he is too - I know that. But I wish he'd show that sometimes. I have to stop being so self centered. Thanks for your shoulders and ears and hearts.
And right now, as I post this, felt a slight cramp. Already gone, but what the heck is that all about?
Anyway, my doc will call me this afternoon and I will keep everyone posted.
Hey, sorry to hear your DH and u had arguments, I hope all is sorted. My DH does bother with me on the boards etc.. just lets me get on with it. It's helping me a lot but men r different dont seem to be so emotional as us girls!!
Hope u have some good news! x x x
IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
ADOPTED DAUGHTER 2014
i think that all of us have had arguments with our dp about all of this..
it is awful to be so helpless. and with ivf that is what you are .. it is alot of waiting and up and down raw emotions..
hurt turns into anger very easily..
with me and my hubby we try and sit every night in our hot tub latte at night when everyone is sleeping and first 10 minutes we are just in there and not talking then we start talking about the day and how we feel..
and when we dont do this we start to argue...
make sure you let us know when the doc calls..
becky
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
Doc said I can tell people - I'm still pinching myself because I don't believe it. I don't really have "lucky" things happen to me - this is the first and best.
I'm also afraid to tell people as I don't want to do this too early - I think there are additional test in the next 12 weeks that will determine more info?
thank you to everyone who stayed by me - i will tell my DH in person tonight - of course we'll make up - but you all are the first to know...
you need to post this on the gen forum and let everyone oover there know and then get your bum over to the pregnant side.. theywillhelp you threw the next 9 months...
and again congradulations !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
becky
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
Suze
