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Alicia! Yeah for your babyshower! Wasn't it fun to get all of your "gear" home and unpack it, and find just the perfect spots for it? I loved all of the nesting.

I can't believe you don't get a babyshower in the UK Barny! I'm sad about it!
IN the US you register at different stores for everything you want just like a bridal registry.

Has anyone else had their tummy look like an alien encounter yet? I lifted my shirt last night for my dh to see just as an elbow or foot raked across pushing my skin up atleast an inch higher in the that area. My dh's eyes were as big as saucers. Unfortunately it kind of hurts! :x I think I'm running out of room.

5 weeks, 2 days....not that I'm counting ha ha.

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Paige- I know the feeling... my tummy feels like a mexican wave most of the time... she's an active little so and so!! Bless her little cotton socks!!! I really can't wait to meet her now!

I think a babyshower would be fab... last friday was my last day at work, and I figured that any leaving presents would be to do with the baby... but apparently it's bad luck in Germany to even give someone something baby related prior to the birth of the baby... how DULL is that??????

Barny- you're actually quite lucky you haven't arranged anything yet, as at least it will give you something to do when you finish work... I am twiddling my thumbs at the moment... although it does feel nice! Enjoy the countdown!!

Mountain now measuring in at 108cm or just over 43"!! Turning over in bed is very difficult.. which means that sleeping is also difficult and those long lazy lie-ins are definitely a thing of the past!!

Paige--- CONGRATS on becoming an auntie!!! At least it gives you a chance to practice on a newborn again! I'm going up to my aunt's on Friday, as my cousin is coming over with her son, so I can at least practice on a toddler!!

Do any of you know what the dangers are if you come into contact with a child with chickenpox??? I have already had it... but not sure whether it will be dangerous for Anna. Any ideas?

Look forward to hearing from you all.
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Tanya:

Sorry for the long reply....this is what babycenter says about chicken pox while pg.:

Is it risky to be exposed to chicken pox during pregnancy?
In most cases, no. It's not a problem if you've already had chicken pox because your body has developed antibodies to the virus, which in most cases makes you immune to further infection. And even if you think you never had chicken pox, there's a good chance you did; surveys show that about 95 percent of adults born and raised in the United States are immune. (Women who grew up in tropical climates are somewhat less likely to be immune because chicken pox is less common in those areas.) If you have any doubts, see your practitioner for a blood test to find out if you're immune.

If you're not immune and you do develop chicken pox while you're pregnant, there's a very small chance that it will affect your baby and some possibility that it will be dangerous for you. But keep in mind that this situation is very rare: Researchers estimate that there are only about six cases of chicken pox for every 10,000 pregnancies.

What can happen to my baby if I get chicken pox while pregnant?
It depends on how far along you are in your pregnancy, though in general, the chances of the virus harming your baby are very small.

If you get chicken pox during the first half of pregnancy, your baby will be at a slight risk (1 to 2 percent) for getting something called congenital varicella syndrome, which can cause birth defects, including scarring of the skin, limb defects, eye problems, and other serious abnormalities. (In a very small number of cases, it can cause a miscarriage.) You'll have a detailed ultrasound at 18 to 20 weeks to see if any there are signs of defects and a follow-up sonogram later to see how your baby is progressing. (Remember that a sonogram can't detect every problem, so it can't completely guarantee you a healthy baby.) Fortunately, though, the vast majority of babies whose mothers have chicken pox during the first or second trimester are not born with any of these problems.

If you get chicken pox in the second half of pregnancy but more than five days before giving birth, your baby will likely be fine. Here's why: About five days after coming down with chicken pox, your body develops antibodies to the virus and passes them on to your baby through the placenta, offering him protection that his own immature immune system can't provide. If you develop chicken pox five to 21 days before your baby is born, he might develop chicken pox within days after birth, but because of the antibodies he received from you, it's much less likely to be serious. (Some babies exposed to chicken pox in utero, particularly those exposed five to 21 days before birth, may develop a case of shingles during infancy or early childhood without having had chicken pox after birth, but it's usually not serious.)

If you come down with chicken pox between five days before giving birth and two days after delivery, then your baby will have been exposed to the virus but won't have had time to receive antibodies from you before birth. In this case, he has a 30 to 40 percent chance of developing what's called neonatal varicella, or newborn chicken pox, which can be serious and even life threatening, especially if left untreated. Fortunately, your baby's risk of a severe case can be greatly reduced if he gets a shot of varicella zoster immune globulin (VZIG), a blood product that contains chicken pox antibodies. (He'll get it soon after birth if your chicken pox showed up within 5 days of delivery or during labor or as soon as you discover your rash if it's within two days after delivery.) If your baby shows any sign of developing the infection — such as coming down with a fever or showing a rash of even a few spots — he'll be treated intravenously with the antiviral drug acyclovir.

What should I do if I'm exposed?
If you're not already immune or if you're uncertain of your status, call your practitioner and have a blood test done to confirm your status. If you find out you're not immune (or are unable to get results within four days of exposure), your practitioner may recommend that you get a shot of VZIG (varicella zoster immune globulin). Getting this shot within four days (96 hours) of exposure can lessen your chances of a severe infection, though it won't do anything to protect your baby. (Note: This protection lasts only about three weeks. If you're exposed to chicken pox again more than three weeks after your injection, you'll need another shot.)


This is all from www.babycenter.com.

You're over 43"! I love that! I think that you are winning! I can't believe it's bad luck to give a pregnant woman a baby gift! Maybe you will be showered with gifts after your little girl arrives! A lot of help that is when you need stuff pretty much in the next 5-6 weeks right?

I think my Mom is coming this week to paint a mural all over the nursery. We have it narrowed down to an oversized garden with lots of butterflies, dragonflies, and lady bugs! The nursery will be my project for the next month or so.

Is anyone starting to hurt when they sleep? I have to switch sides several times during the night now because my hips will start aching. I wonder if it's because they are spreading out and the joints are lose, or if it's just because I'm packing an extra 35 lbs.

I'm getting so excited after seeing my sisters new little bundle of joy. I forgot how sweet they are.

I'm also having some colostrum....anyone else having this?

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Paige,

Thanks for all that info... I think I should be fine... when I had chickenpox as a child, I had it sooooo bad, so I guess that was my lot for life (let's hope!) and as the doc said, she's unlikely to be putting in an appearance in the next 2 weeks, so it should be fine. The slightest little thing can get you so worried, though!

I know what you mean about sleeping... I HAVE to get up fairly early in the morning because my bum cheeks really hurt.. it's as though I've run a marathon the previous day... WEIRD!!!

I have had a few colostrum leaks, but they were about 6 weeks ago.. haven't had anything since... will that mean that I won't produce enough???? Talk about not a clue!!! :lol:

DH gave me a book for my birthday yesterday called 'Child of our time' by Tessa Livingsone... basically, they've been following a bunch of pregnancies and the subsequent births from 2000- they have TV programmes once a year as well to show the development of the children... it is soooo fascinating... if any of you have the chance, you should try and get a copy.

Better go..... baby getting hungry (or is that me, and I'm using her as an excuse???)

T x
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Hiya
I haven't posted for awhile.Glad to hear we are all doing OK and our due dates are fast approaching. I'm 34+3 now and have been booked for an elective on March 18th...agghhhhh! I'll be 36wks then fingers crossed
One of the twins has stopped growing although everything else is OK so I'm being closely monitored and have to be vigilant about foetal movements which has turnee me into a neurotic mess!
The nursery is decorated and waiting for the flat pack furniture to arrive for DP to get cracking with....but we have the moses baskets ready and the pram and car seats at out local nursery shop.

I daren't measure my stomach. Isn't it a stange feeling turning over at night. My tum feels like concrete. Does anyone wake up with burning hip pain that worsens when you try and stretch?

Anyway once the bumps have gone and we feel lighter....won't that be strange. No more spilling food down our fronts!

Take care everyone
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Janem,

You are so right about spilling food down my front! And I hate it because I refuse to buy anymore maternity clothes. So most meals find me in the bathroom with soap and water trying to minimize the risk of a permanent stain. I can't believe you're over 34 weeks! That must feel great - what an accomplishment. Good luck to you for these last few weeks.

My tummy does seem to be inhabited by aliens! The boys are very active and strong. I have developed this horrible rash right around my bellybutton that itches like crazy. I can hardly stand it. Doing research on the internet, it seems to be PUPPS, which is not harmful to me or the babies and goes away at birth. I use lotion and sometimes hydrocortizone cream when it is unbearable. It seems to be more common in first time moms, women pregant with boys and twin pregnancies - hmm, I have all of those...

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OH my Gosh Janem & Alicia:

I was cracking up while reading your messages. I have been out several times and had to ask my husband to give me his shirt! He'll just walk around in a t-shirt then while I hide the huge stain running down my front with his clothing!

Janem: I absolutely have the burning pain in my hips (whichever one I'm laying on), then you have to roll over...which is near impossible, or sometimes when I get up to use the bathroom one of my legs is totally crippled. I think I must be on my sciatic nerve when I try to sleep on my right side. Your date is coming soooooo quickly! yeah! My b-day is March 19th... So you have been able to hold out, last time we heard from you, you mentioned that you might be delivering at 30 weeks. Good girl being able to wait it out a bit. You're going in for a scheduled C right? Last time around my Dr. gave me this white elastic waist support thing that you can velcro around you for support (because you won't be able to use your lower abdominal muscles) it really helped out a lot. I think I wore it for 3 weeks. It's amazing how much you use those muscles, and that elasticy thing held my big old tummy in too. Ask you Dr. for one if they don't volunteer it. IT seriously helped.

I too am refusing to buy any more maternity clothes. Stains or no stains. I feel like hibernating anyway, because real clothes are starting to hurt around the middle when I sit down.

To make matters even more jolly over here, I seem to be coming down with bronchitis, so every time I cough intestines stick out of the small hernia around my bellybutton that this pregnancy has blessed me with as well. Oh well, 4 1/2 weeks and it will all be worth it.

Take care......and Janem...you need to measure! I think that Tanya might be winning right now!

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Blah. The rash has spread to my feet, hands, arms and legs. I'm going to the dermatologist this afternoon. Hope it is not a liver problem.

On a cheerier note, I washed the baby blankets and preemie clothes yesterday. They are so small and adorable! Folding them made it all seem so real...

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I can't believe that you can manage to keep your tops clean past brushing your teeth in the morning!!! EVERY morning, WITHOUT fail, I end up with toothpaste down my top! I did buy some maternity clothes at the weekend (all the other stuff was ebay bargains!), so I thought I deserved some new tops that would do me for breast feeding as well. Great logic, eh!?!?!

The hip pain gets me in the bottom (as well as the hip).. it gets so bad that I just have to get up and can't sleep any more.... does anyone suffer from cramps in the middle of the night? I'm sure I never used to stretch as much as I really want to now. Still, not long til we can all stretch as much as we like and sleep on our tummies again!

Janem, not long for you now.... I'll be thinking of you. Wow, I can't believe that one of us is that close. Good for you for hanging in there for the extra 6 weeks!

Paige, sorry to hear that you're coming down with bronchitis... take it easy and have lots of hot lemon and honey.

Hope everyone else is ok...... look forward to hearing your news.
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Paige,

Sorry to hear about the bronchitis. Being sick and pregnant is such a drag. I hope you recover soon.

Tanya,

I'm looking at breastfeeding tops too. It makes me a little sad, because sometimes I think they are even uglier than maternity clothes! I do like this one website though, http://www.motherwear.com. Or if anyone else sews, you can find breastfeeding patterns at http://www.elizabethlee.com.

I had a liver function test for the itching and it turns out my bile salts are elevated. Not the best thing that can happen, but I'm off to the pharmacy now to get the right medicine, finally. I could use a good night sleep after being up for 2 nights applying icy compresses and scratching all night. I hope nobody else gets this, because it is horrible.

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We are quite a bunch aren't we ladies?

We have experienced all kinds of fun stuff. I'm on an antibiotic Z-Pack for the bornchial infection and cough syrup with codeine in it. I'm feeling better, I just really need to get rid of this cough. I swear when I have a coughing seizure I can feel my abdominal muscles tearing, from the strain of being stretched out some and then having multiple forced flexing due to the cough. It got so bad that I had tears running down my face and my 5 year old runs upstairs missing for a moment, then comes back down with her blankie hoping that will make Mommy feel better. She is so sweet.

Alicia: I had no idea that the rash/itching could be associated with liver function. What do they do to help you?

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Paige,

Oh you poor thing. That sounds so miserable. I hope the medications kick in soon. It must be scary to cough like that. I also feel like if I move the wrong way it will cause contractions.

I have a prescription for a gall bladder medication that's supposed to fix the liver problem. They will test it every week to see how I'm responding. I've heard that if it gets very bad they sometimes induce labor early. Of course with twins I think they would wait until at least 34 weeks. That's still 2 weeks away...

We are falling apart, aren't we? Well, so long as the precious little bundles are not in danger, I suppose we can get through these last few weeks. Good luck to all!

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I can't believe we're all getting this close to our actual "meet and greet" days (delivery). I'm going to the Dr. every week now and have to carry around my "stats" in my purse in case I would go into labor unexpectedly. I was diagnosed last night with viral pneumonitis (a nicer way of saying "pneunomia we can't do anything about". And the only thing I can do is rest. Which is what I've been doing for the last 12 days. I have to get my nursery in order and this whole thing is driving me crazy. I guess better to be sick now then in 3 weeks when the baby will be here.
They did a chest x-ray last night and I was kind of freaking out due to the baby being exposed to radiation (they shielded as much as they could), but it was kind of scary. I was reading on the Inet that the risk is extremely minimal with exposure from a chest x-ray being something like .5, while someone who lives in Colorado who is pregnant is exposed to over 200 times that due to the uranium content in the soil alone. So I'm feeling better.
I just feel like this baby has been through so much already...amnio, antibiotics, gestational diabetes, now pneumonia.....hopefully there is no "what next".
On a lighter note, I'm having this baby in 3 weeks + 1 day! We're really getting down to the final countdown.

Alicia: is your medication helping or do you think you'll go somewhere around 34 weeks?

Janem: You must be getting very close, or maybe even have had your twinnies already, we're both "officially" 36 weeks right and they were going to hold out until 35 or 36 weeks for you?

Tanya: You are also 36 weeks! Congratulations, we are officially full term next week!

Cate: Now how far are you along? 33 weeks? It's getting to be so real.

Angela: Are you close to Alicia as far as your actual due date? I know with twins you don't have to wait as long to see those little angels!

Barny: How are you holding up? Getting close!

Hang in there ladies. Try to stay away from anyone who is sick...I guess this pneumonia thing probably stemmed from catching influenza from someone and my body not being strong enough to get rid of it due to my immune system being compromised during pregnancy.

I just noticed another special treat last night as well...I got a huge vericose vein in the back of one of my legs...gross. Will it go away?

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Paige,

You poor thing! I hope you recover quickly and thoroughly. It must be a drag having to rest when you have so much to do, but you are probably exhausted anyway. Hopefully you will have lots of help with the final preparations so you can just take it easy and get better. It must seem like the vericose vein is just a cruel joke after all of this, but I think they usually go away after birth.

The medication is helping tremendously for me, after a slow start. I'm so relieved, and have even been able to go out of the house a couple of times. The only good thing about the rash is that it makes all other pregnancy symptoms seem like nothing. It even seems easier to move around and get comfortable.

So it looks like some of us are actually almost ready to go! Thanks for the update on everyone's status, Paige. I've been horrible about keeping up with where we all are. Good luck to all of us, and I can't wait to see some birth postings and hopefully some cute photos of our little miracles!

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Hello I am 32 weeeks as of yesterday 17th suddenly seem to have gone very big but still only at the front around the bump the midwife said on Monday did I work out? because my stomach muscles are so good hoot hoot!!!!! I was at pains not to say no there is just a baby in there filling every bit of space! It's turned and is no longer breech which is much more comfy.
I have scan on Monday Jess off for Easter so coming with, then Tuesday medical disordeers clinic when hopefully will get date...... for c. section.
We went shopping last night anfd now I have loads of little suits and vests hanging in new wardrobe it all looks very sweet. Jess chose all sorts of teddy bear shoe foot bag things etc she really does seem happy about everything though I think still a little scared, she asked me last night how long will I be in hospital I said 5 days max and she said can they take the baby home even if I have to stay in!!!! Which is funny but surely a good sign!!!!? Cate xxx
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