MARCH/APRIL BUDDIES

[LittleP]

Debra and Traci

To both of you loads of PMA and hugs. Don't give up, stay positive and focused.

Will keep fingers firmly crossed for you guys

Eskavon - I am fine, now I've got a way forward and dates I feel like things are really starting to happen, how about you?

Little P

[eskavon]

Hi LIttle P
All is ok here just plodding along with injections, now waiting for AF to arrive but feeling rather chilled at the mo - long may it continue.
So pleased you've got a way forward - it really makes a difference doesn't it when you've got key dates to work towards. I hope it goes really well for you.
eskavon x

[Maci05]

Morning girls!

Heather - I can only imagine how disappointed you must feel but I think that 4 eggs is really really great news. Please don't beat yourself up over it. Cuddle up to DH and keep watching movies and flicking thru the trashy mags.

Debra and Traci - you guys......sorry you are both feeling wobbly. I'm not an expert on good/bad signs but please just keep hanging on in there and keep telling your embies to stay calm and nestle down.

Kagome and Eskavon - my last AF was 3 days late. It will arrive - it's just being a pest and teasing you right now - as if there wasn't enough to worry about eh!

PMA to everyone.

Maci x

[Maci05]

LittleP -
Morning to you

Good to hear that you are riding on a positive wave and that you have a plan of action now. Any chance you can cyber-send me some positive stuff today?

I'm really sad today. No one specific thing really just a cumulation of lots of little things. DH's work is super busy right now with some major deadlines looming. He leaves house at 06:40 and isn't coming home until about 20:30. Last night it was 21:50. He never even asked me how I got on yesterday. I feel like I've hardly spent any real time with him recently and I feel very alone. Have been crying most of the morning so far as we didn't part company this morning as we usually do. I'm sure I'm being silly but I just need and want him around me just now.

Anyway soooo sorry to moan on. It sometimes feel wrong burdening other's who have their own woes too. Hope you don't mind.

Anyway thanks for reading. Hope you have a good day.

Maci x

[Tracii]

Hi Maci, It is tough not having our Dhs around at such a vulnerable time for us...I am sure he wants to be with you too but sometimes this work crap gets in the way My DH has been gone during the weekdays and we see each other on the weekend - but it is really only 1.5days..it really sucks but then you realize how much you actually love someone and crave to be with them...this is what love is!!

Hang in there, he will be home tonight

(P.S. - from experience..the only thing I can really suggest..is don't complain when he gets home - since he is working so much and probably under a ton of stress and I am sure he understands your feelings..have a good weekend with him (breakfast in bed, dessert by candelight... and both try to relax and enjoy your time together!))

[LittleP]

Maci

BIG HUGS

I'm so sorry you're having a bad time - I'm sure if DH could be with you he would, it must be frustrating for him too knowing he has to spend so much time away from you when you need him the most

Hold to the fact that it is Friday, the w/e looms and really treasure your time together - I'm sure he would appreciate the cuddle as much as you need it

Hope the day ends on a high note for you and that the w/e goes well. Take care and remember keep plenty of PMA with you

Little P

[LittleP]

Eskavon

Thanks for that - I will obviously keep you posted.

I hope everything goes well for you

Little P

[Maci05]

LittleP and Traci

Thank you both for your kind and sensible words of support. You're right. I know he doesn't want to be working so hard and he's not doing it to hurt me. I'm just feeling a bit wobbly at the moment. Unfortunately he is also expected in on Sat and Sun so I'll have to wait until 23rd April for a full day with him

Your words have really helped and I'll welcome him with open arms rather than a lecture, when he finally does come home tonight

Bye for now,
Maci x

[LittleP]

Maci

Sorry that DH has to work this w/e, but make the most of the time you do get together.

Remember words can only say so much, but a cuddle means everything

Hope that things improve for you

Little P

[DebraP]

Maci, sending a cyber hug right back at you! I've just said something so stupidly mean to DF, no idea why. Now he's unhappy and I feel small. The problem with blabbing without thought is you can say 'sorry' all you like, doesn't make it go away though. Greet DH with a big smile and a hug when he comes home and remind him of why he's working so hard - to help make a home for you and his future family.

Sandra. No idea what that drug does. sorry petal.

Tracii. Oh my, we're both in a bad way today aren't we? I've driven DF mad with my list making and wanting to 'get on' when I'm not able to do much myself. I want the house sorted but he wants to relax. We're driving each other insane right now. Lucky DH being in Oslo, nice city although anywhere on work usually means meetings and a hotel + taxi from the airport, rarely much more. We need to support each other through this wobble. I still feel very AF-ish, can't ignore the feeeling at all. No spotting yet though.....I'm limiting my loo visits otherwise I'll go crazy.

Roll on Thursday....
hugs to everyone
Debra

[kagome]

AF still haven't arrived. Had a scan anyway and saw that my lining is very thick. Should come anytime now. Unfortunately, my EC date is now around about 9th of May now, Instead of 26th April. They had to pospone by 2 weeks as they don't want it falling on bank holiday Thats an extra 2 weeks on top of the 2ww.

Anyway, best wished on all on the 2ww, EC or ET. I'm sure everything will be fine. lots of PMA for everyoneXXX

[delly]

Hi all..
Hope u r all ok, sorry to hear how u feel Debra, keep positive...PMA to you.
I can't help myself thinking that i'll probably be in the same situation very soon, i am sure i'll get paranoid about little signs, af, spotting...Not looking foreward to the 2WW.
I'm from Normandie, Debra but been living here since 1993...Came here to work for 1 year, learn English, work experience and met DH...and been here since.
Well had a nice 3 days rest, going to do a bit more housework so i won't have to do anything this week end!!!!Still a bit sore in the lower tummy but no more bleeding, hope all is well and ET will take place in the morning.
Will keep u posted, good luck Elle with our EC tomorrow...loads of PMA and baby dusts.....
Luv
Delly

[LittleP]

Kagome

Hang in there - AF will arrive very soon.

I know its frustrating having to delay the treatment by 2 weeks, but you want to make sure that you have the best chances for a positive result

Try not to let it get you down and remember we're all here if you need to shout and scream.

Little P

[Sand]

Just a quicky tonight ....

Debra .. as I said on the other thread, hope you're feeling a little brighter ..? As you've said yourself, so many times, there is just no knowing. Don't condemn yourself to an early -ve. Lots of PMA pls.

Maci .. these drugs are so crap. Hope you do manage a warm smile and hug with dh later tonight ..

Heather .. I've posted on the other thread ... 4 eggs is 3 more than you actually need. Don't be too disappointed.

Hope everyone's doing okay today ... and looking forward to the weekend !!

Sandra x

[elleR]

Hi y'all!

I'm still waiting to hear from the clinic regarding ET time tomorrow. I'm hoping my 4 fertilized eggs are showing signs of cell division.

Delly- yeah, like you I'm still feeling good and positive. Hope ET goes well for us both. I've been trying to get some things done around the house while waiting for some news. But I can't seem to get anything done. Just waiting for the phone to ring.

Sand- Sorry I don't know what the side effects of estrogen tablets.

Little P- Thanks so much for the PMA. Like you said, hopefully more positive news to come. Positive news for us all too!

Maci- How are you with the gonal injections?

Heather- 4 eggs are great girl! Hope you are feeling better today.

kagome- I agree with Little P. Hang in there!

eskavon- Hope your AF arrives soon.

Tracii, Debra, miss molly- Continue to stay positive ladies!!!

Have a good weekend! TAKE CARE!