Sandra
Thanks. How do you cope? I think we have coped well so far my biggest worry is how I will cope if it hasnt worked. We have been trying for nearly 5 years during which time we managed to deal with the heartache and jealousy when my sister became pregnant which when my neice was born all melted away she is now pregnant again and I found it even harder to deal with this time as it was before we had started our treatment and all i kept thinking, very selfishly i know, was couldnt they have just waited a little longer? I am generally a positive determine person but this waiting is so hard so many things start to worry me, my words of advice are normally, have a day to cry to be at your lowest but get up the next day and start a fresh with a smile on your face but at the moment i am struggling with getting away from my low, although i am finding this site very helpful and felt a bit like me earlier.
sorry i do go on.
me x
1 April - Joy -
4 April - Caroline -
4 April - LoobyLoo -
5 April - Liz -
10 April - Hugo -
10 Jude -
13 April- LOS -
15 April - Isabel -
19 April - Tracii -
20 April - Dancola -
21 April - Debra -
22 April - Leigh -
22 April - Me/Kerry -
22 April - Mrs A -
27 April - MissMolly -
30 April - Delly -
My numbers are in! I am HCG is 325!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Prog is at 25!!!
Day 5 trans was on the 3rd!!! Yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee yahoooooooooooo Those are good numbers right!!! Maybe twins?? !!!
Hi people,
Having a pants day am far to emotional. I nearly cried today asking for a lucky dip lottery ticket! Whats that all about ay? Since when has that been an emotional task? My moods have also been going up and down yesterday and today could have thumped DH yesterday for no real reason other than he was just there and it was bugging me??????????????????
My washing also got completly soaked out on the line today i found this rather upsetting too.
Its official i have gone completely and utterly crazy. Is there any cure i ask myself........
Help me!!!
Me
Kerry - whilst asking for a lucky dip ticket hmmmmm not sure but I'm sure DH understood even if the cashier didn't
Accept that your emotions can be anywhere they like right now. We can do our best to control them (HA HA) but maybe just let them scamper free and don't stress
The cure comes at the same time as the widest grin in the world when you get your +ve result
So far: 4 of our 7 results = +ve = 57% = FANTASTICO!
1 April - Joy -
4 April - Caroline -
4 April - LoobyLoo -
5 April - Liz -
10 April - Hugo -
10 Jude -
13 April- LOS -
15 April - Isabel -
19 April - Tracii -
20 April - Dancola -
21 April - Debra -
22 April - Leigh -
22 April - Me/Kerry -
22 April - Mrs A -
27 April - MissMolly -
30 April - Delly -
and you have nothing to feel sorry about. you have gone threw alot and are going threw alot.
we cant just shut off our emotions.. nor should we.
i am not even on anything anymore and my emtions go all over the place....
i go by my old clinic and i cry cause i know that that is where my son was given to me... and that is where so many womens hopes and dreams are...
so dont beat your self up..
a good cry is good for us or at least for me and as i have said i give myself permision to do it then i go on..
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
Hello one and all
Hope everyone has been enjoying there Saturday?
Been enjoying myself at garden centres today, and people say I dont know how to enjoy myself????? Bought myself some really funky toadstool things which Im sure DH will hate when he gets home.
Having a better day today but a extremely tierd and achy, nearly cried when I went round my mums but managed to control myself a little bit better today and my boobs hurt so much just getting dressed was painful. Fingers crossed this is all good stuff, not long now, i am counting the days.
My first shift back at work is Sat 23rd and I cant get it off so i am worring about that as my test is only on Fri22nd and Im not sure if I am going to mbe in the right frame of mind whatever the result, always something to stress about..
How is everyone else coping with this waiting business???????????
Hope to hear from someone soon.
Me (Kerry)