APRIL 2ww's

eskavon · Post by **eskavon** » Tue Apr 19, 2005 1:28 pm

Traci and Dancola
Sorry to hear your news, huge hug and here's every positive wish for your next time.
Eskavon x

Maci05 · Post by **Maci05** » Tue Apr 19, 2005 1:40 pm

Traci and Dancola, anything I can think of writing to you both just doesn't seem to say it.........I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. I don't how it really feels but you both must be utterly devastated. After everthing we go thru.

Take care of yourselves and your DH's and take time to heal physically and emotionally.

Maci x

AliasR · Post by **AliasR** » Tue Apr 19, 2005 2:14 pm

Never been through treatment myself, only took a lot of pg tests while we were ttc and of course they were all -tive.

I'm deeply so sorry! Woke up today thinking i had to check on you girls and feeling very excited. It broke my heart to hear the news.

Not being much of a comfort, i know. But i am here. Whatever it takes. Whatever you need.

Rita

Tracii · Post by **Tracii** » Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:23 pm

Hi All, Thank you for all the kind words. To be honest I am not overly upset...but completely frustrated and down.. I had my huge cry when I ovulated naturally and I only had 6 follies to begin with....this was the worst for me. I am staying with my healthy habits..although I did have a cup of coffee today and a donut! I needed it!!

Debra - my thoughts are with you tomorrow!! And I have everything crossed and the baby dust cloud (which never came to Munich) is heading up your way!!

ogr1 · Post by **ogr1** » Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:23 pm

just wanted to let you know that i am so sorry for your loss..
for me a neg was a huge loss...
please know tha you both have friends here when you are ready

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Tue Apr 19, 2005 4:41 pm

Dancola and Tracii ... Thinking about you two today, after your horrible news. It will take a while, but it will get easier ..

Take care

Sandra x

hlloyd · Post by **hlloyd** » Tue Apr 19, 2005 6:54 pm

Dancola and Traci

Sorry about the results, my heart goes out to both of you.

Coffee and donuts are two of the major food groups, aren't they?

Heather

Tracii · Post by **Tracii** » Tue Apr 19, 2005 7:13 pm

Hi Heather - well my colleagues were shocked to see me with a huge coffee and donut! (I seriously could have used a bottle of wine with a straw in it!) They thought I was celebrating leaving work next week

hlloyd · Post by **hlloyd** » Tue Apr 19, 2005 8:59 pm

I too gave up coffee and wine.....gave up sugar a long time ago! I am still drinking decaf though as it is getting a bit cooler here and I can't imagine winter without hot drinks.

I trust that you will be spending the weekend with DH and will get that glass of wine you are hankering for.

I totally understand your decision to give your body and mind a rest...I know I feel like a train wreck at the moment. I guess I am also like you in that I experienced the most stress prior to EC and up until fertilisation, and although I am remaining positive about the result, I don't think I will be totally shattered by a negative result. I have very much focused on my clinic's stats for 1st timers in my age group (about 46%) and have remained realistic about my chances. The stats for compounded treatments are much better (about 68%) so I am positive that one day it will happen!

Take it easy and enjoy your little break (and the wine).

Cheers
Heather

me · Post by me » Tue Apr 19, 2005 9:16 pm

Dancola and Traci t
Sorry to hear your sad news. There really is no words to help how much you both must be hurting, but we are all here for you.
Cry if you need to cry shout if you need to shout it is important to vent your sadness and anger to help you deal with how you are feeling
Many cyber hugs for you both Kerry

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