Hiya girls,
I had my e/c this morning, it went ok, was a bit painful in parts but i don't really remember much.
Anyways, the outcome wasn't very good news, it is a total freeze all afterall. They collected 22 eggs so no e/t for me on Friday, have to wait about 6 - 8 weeks to have an FET. I was really gutted at getting this far and no e/t. Michael kept saying to look at the positives, it'll give my body a chance to calm down, only the best embryo's will survive etc etc, i know he's right but it still doesn't stop the disappointment. I've to phone up tomorrow morning to find out how many have fertilized.
So that's it, i'm no longer a March/April buddy, i'll probably be a June girl now.
I'll be keeping an eye on all my March/April buddies, wish you all the best luck in the world.
Going for a lie down on the couch now as i'm a bit uncomfortable sitting here.
Take care and talk to you all soon.
Lotsa love
Michelle
xxxx
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michelle_in_scotland
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Me 34 DH 33 male factor
1st ICSI - March 05 total freeze all
Natural FET - July 05 -ve
Natural FET - Aug 05 +ve
Baby GIRL due 15th May 2006 (Kady finally arrived on 26th May)
Complete shock on 22/10/09 when HPT came up +ve Natural pg
1st ICSI - March 05 total freeze all
Natural FET - July 05 -ve
Natural FET - Aug 05 +ve
Baby GIRL due 15th May 2006 (Kady finally arrived on 26th May)
Complete shock on 22/10/09 when HPT came up +ve Natural pg
Michelle 
So sorry to hear your news! It's very frustrating especially when you had your heart set on the next stage the ET but the only way to look at it that it's a set back but not all is lost! Try to stay positive - as Michael says you've been through a lot at this stage and this will give you time to rest and get your strength built up again for the next stage 
Good luck with your phone call tomorrow hope you get some good news Take care.
So sorry to hear your news! It's very frustrating especially when you had your heart set on the next stage the ET but the only way to look at it that it's a set back but not all is lost! Try to stay positive - as Michael says you've been through a lot at this stage and this will give you time to rest and get your strength built up again for the next stage Good luck with your phone call tomorrow hope you get some good news Take care.Amers
35 yrs old
1st IVF cycle
PCOS, Grade 4 Endometriosis, 1 Fallopian tube and 1 functioning ovary
IVF Mar '05 -BFN
2nd IVF Oct '05 - BFP
Baby girl born 21/7/06
35 yrs old
1st IVF cycle
PCOS, Grade 4 Endometriosis, 1 Fallopian tube and 1 functioning ovary
IVF Mar '05 -BFN
2nd IVF Oct '05 - BFP
Baby girl born 21/7/06
O Michelle, I am so sorry! I am sending a hug ok! Hang on in there girl!
Is this your first go?
Try to take care, and make sure Dh gives you plenty of tlc!!
Is this your first go?
Try to take care, and make sure Dh gives you plenty of tlc!!
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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my thoughts are we you...
ithat is great that they got 22 eggs..
i did better with fet..
and summer is always good.. everything is in bloom in the summer
ithat is great that they got 22 eggs..
i did better with fet..
and summer is always good.. everything is in bloom in the summer
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
Hi Michelle .. I know you're disappointed.... you've waited so long to get to this stage, and been through so much, for it to be swept away at the last minute ... I can understand ...
However - the risks just aren't worth it Michelle. Everyone's got your best interests at heart, and as Michael's said your body will be in a much less traumatised state to cope with a pregnancy !!
Get some rest, let your body heal, and use this as an opportunity to get your body in peak condition for FET.
Make sure you keep your eye on us !
Sandra x
However - the risks just aren't worth it Michelle. Everyone's got your best interests at heart, and as Michael's said your body will be in a much less traumatised state to cope with a pregnancy !!
Get some rest, let your body heal, and use this as an opportunity to get your body in peak condition for FET.
Make sure you keep your eye on us !
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Hey Michelle, all I can say is well done on your 22 eggs - I mean hello that's wonderful!!!! 
you need now a healthy womb and a healthy you so rest and wait are good although disappointing from timing point of view you have 22 of your own eggs - wow
Love and kisses bigJ
you need now a healthy womb and a healthy you so rest and wait are good although disappointing from timing point of view you have 22 of your own eggs - wow
Love and kisses bigJ
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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Michelle, I hope this morning you wake up feeling a little happier about yesterday 22 is an enormous starting number of eggs, good luck with how many fertilise.
The fact is you had no choice. Continuing was dangerous and wasn't an option. As the others have said, use the break to get ready for your FET, it won't be long and you'll be better prepared than doing it now when your body is under such stress.
Hope the pains have gone too. Let us know how many made it to the next stage.
hugs
Debra
The fact is you had no choice. Continuing was dangerous and wasn't an option. As the others have said, use the break to get ready for your FET, it won't be long and you'll be better prepared than doing it now when your body is under such stress.
Hope the pains have gone too. Let us know how many made it to the next stage.
hugs
Debra
Me: 44, DH: 31
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
WOW 22 eggs! That is fantastic - and your body will definitely need a break and get ready for the ET...I think it is positive news! Plus can give you more time to cut down the smoking....
Let us know how you are once you recover!
Let us know how you are once you recover!
Traci
me37,DH49
IUI 01/05:-
1. IVF - 04/05: -
2. IVF -cancelled -preg nat-m/c 5w3d
3. IVF -success
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me37,DH49
IUI 01/05:-
1. IVF - 04/05: -
2. IVF -cancelled -preg nat-m/c 5w3d
3. IVF -success
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Michelle
Like everyone has said...22 eggs is amazing!!! Sorry that you cannot proceed at this stage but just imagine how much better prepared you will be with all this experience behind you. Take good care of yourself and I look forward to hearing about your positive FET results!
Hugs
Heather
Like everyone has said...22 eggs is amazing!!! Sorry that you cannot proceed at this stage but just imagine how much better prepared you will be with all this experience behind you. Take good care of yourself and I look forward to hearing about your positive FET results!
Hugs
Heather
Me 39+4 DH 41
4th IVF May 06 - +ve
Natural conception Sep 07
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4th IVF May 06 - +ve
Natural conception Sep 07
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Hi Michelle
Like everyone else I am sorry and here's a big hug and some PMA for the coming days.
22 eggs is a fantastic number so try and focus on that rather than anything else if you can.
Take care of yourself and get plenty of rest.
Little P
Like everyone else I am sorry and here's a big hug and some PMA for the coming days.
22 eggs is a fantastic number so try and focus on that rather than anything else if you can.
Take care of yourself and get plenty of rest.
Little P
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Hi Michell,
I'm sorry you didn't get to ET - its a real disappointment but 22 eggs thats a brilliant result for EC.
I had EC on 18 March and developed OHSS and had to freeze all my embryos on the day transfer was due. I was gutted. Our Dr. told us that most people use their second best embryos for a FET whereas we would be using our best embryos for our FET, so our chances were just as good as a fresh transfer. So I'm all set for a FET around 21/22 May.
Take it easy and get all the rest you can to get your body back healthy. I know its hard but try and think of the positive result you got from EC. Thinking of you.
Pia xxxxx
I'm sorry you didn't get to ET - its a real disappointment but 22 eggs thats a brilliant result for EC.
I had EC on 18 March and developed OHSS and had to freeze all my embryos on the day transfer was due. I was gutted. Our Dr. told us that most people use their second best embryos for a FET whereas we would be using our best embryos for our FET, so our chances were just as good as a fresh transfer. So I'm all set for a FET around 21/22 May.
Take it easy and get all the rest you can to get your body back healthy. I know its hard but try and think of the positive result you got from EC. Thinking of you.
Pia xxxxx