April 05 - Test Dates Thread.

me · Post by me » Fri Apr 22, 2005 10:18 am

Follow up app 10th May next treatment August. I work with boys that are in care they are some of the naughiest boys in the country, they come from back grounds of abuse violence and sexually as well as drugs and drink there families are generally worse than useless most of them are violent as well as verbally abusive alot of them also have criminal history. It can be very hard and stressful esp and alot of them have no respect for women but the rewards out way the bad stuff, when they give you a hug or when you have had a good day or when they have positive family contact it makes you feel like you really are helping these kids.
Anyway i was pleased to see you had a positive, congratulations.
Kerry

me · Post by me » Fri Apr 22, 2005 10:29 am

I would also like to say that untill I found this site I felt like no body else understood not properly, i felt like our tears and pain through the years was only ever understood by DH and I. There is so many amazingly strong and wonderful women here that have made it all a little bit easier to deal with, with out stupid remarks like when you stop trying it will happen, or you are still young or al least you can try again!
I have been able to say what I really feel instead of sugar coating it for my family so they dont worry or think Ive gone mad.
Everybodys help and support has made everything much easier to deal with, I have shed many tears and Im sure i will shed many more but I now know i am not alone and what ever i think or feel how ever stupid it may seem i know there is others who understand.(mainly because you are all a little bit crazy, but it works for me???)
Thank you
Kerry
I am now going to spend the next few months being me again. I must I must increase my PMA.

hlloyd · Post by **hlloyd** » Fri Apr 22, 2005 10:54 am

So sorry Kerry, my heart goes out to you and DH. I think it is very wise to spend a bit of time focusing on you!

Sending tonnes of hugs and I hope all your dreams will eventually come true.

Heather

joy · Post by **joy** » Fri Apr 22, 2005 4:07 pm

Kerry-

I am so sorry! My thoughts are with you? What is your next step! Just try and stay positive, although give yourself some time to grieve!

Joy

me · Post by me » Fri Apr 22, 2005 4:17 pm

Next step is go again, have ordered Zita West so I can try and follow her advice. Spend next 4 months getting fitter healthier and prepared for round 2. Am going to try yoga as well every little helps.??

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Fri Apr 22, 2005 4:52 pm

Kerry my dear ... I can only say I'm sorry this wasn't your turn. I know it 's not much, and I know how much you're hurting ... it will slowly get better for both of you.

Sandra x

LittleP · Post by **LittleP** » Fri Apr 22, 2005 4:53 pm

Kerry

Glad to hear you sounding so positive about the future

Big hugs and PMA - you keep going girl

Little P

me · Post by me » Fri Apr 22, 2005 4:55 pm

Think the dark cloud has began to lift for now.

LittleP · Post by **LittleP** » Fri Apr 22, 2005 5:02 pm

You're doing really well.

Stay strong

Little P

AliasR · Post by **AliasR** » Fri Apr 22, 2005 5:17 pm

Dear Kerry

Very sorry to hear about your news but loved all the positive thoughts that kept coming out of your words! Well done!

i feel the same way as you, this has been a life saver and hey crazy is my middle name. And i guess you've become one too? ....

Take good care and join the crazy threads any time...at least we're busy!

Love
Rita

me · Post by me » Fri Apr 22, 2005 5:24 pm

Thanks Rita I'm glad i'm not the only one who has become crazy from this site.

leigh · Post by **leigh** » Fri Apr 22, 2005 7:29 pm

Tested negative. Thanks for being there girls.

love Lisa xxxxxxxx

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Sat Apr 23, 2005 7:28 am

Sorry Lisa .... I know it's so difficult, but I hope you both get through the next few days, then pain will get slightly easier. Take time to cry, and get it out of your system when you can.

Thinking of you

Sandra x

DebraP · Post by **DebraP** » Sat Apr 23, 2005 7:47 am

Oh Lisa I'm sorry. It is really, really tough. Many of us know how it feels to get -ve results. Like Sandra said, take time and give yourself and DH the time to be upset/angry. A follow-up apt. often helps to give focus for these first few days and sometimes helps things fall into place re. what-next?

Be good to yourself, enjoy the things you've been denying yourself. Talk lots to DH, it helps both of you.

hugs
Debra

DebraP · Post by **DebraP** » Sat Apr 23, 2005 7:56 am

Ladies, with 12 definite results in so far, we're at 41% - pretty good! Mrs A, Dolly, Elle, Joy and Delly - it's up to you now

1 April - Joy -

4 April - CarolineP -

4 April - LoobyLoo -

5 April - Liz -

10 April - Hugo -

10 April - Jude -

13 April- LOS -

15 April - Isabel -

19 April - Tracii -

20 April - Dancola -

21 April - Debra -

22 April - Leigh/Lisa -

22 April - Me/Kerry -

22 April - Mrs A -

25 April - Dolly -

26 April - Joy -

27 April - Elle -

27 April - MissMolly -

29 April - Delly -

April 05 - Test Dates Thread.

Kerry

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