April 05 - Test Dates Thread.

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Post by DebraP »

MissMolly, sorry you didn't get the result you wanted this time. It does take time to get over the 'why me'? and 'it's not fair' feelings. Talk to DH about it all too.

Take good care of yourself.
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1 April - Joy - :D :D
4 April - CarolineP - :D :D
4 April - LoobyLoo - :(
5 April - Liz - :(
10 April - Hugo - :?:
10 April - Jude - :D :D
13 April- LOS - :(
15 April - Isabel - :D :D
19 April - Tracii - :(
20 April - Dancola - :(
21 April - Debra - :D :D
22 April - Leigh/Lisa - :(
22 April - Me/Kerry - :(
22 April - Mrs A - :(
25 April - Dolly - :?:
26 April - Joy - :?:
27 April - Elle - :?:
27 April - MissMolly - :?:
29 April - Delly - :?:
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Post by DebraP »

:oops: :oops: :oops: I meant Mrs A not Miss Molly, I'm not doing well today. :oops:

Sorry, Debra.
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Post by missmolly »

That's ok Debra, I sure I will be added to the list of -ve results, as I have my AF as we speak!!!!!!!!!!!

Missmolly :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
1st IVF 04/05 -ve
2nd IVF (FET) 06/05 -ve
FET July - cancelled as embryo did not survive
3rd IVF (stimulated cycle) - no embryos!
4th IVF 02/06 -ve
January 07 - went interstate to a new clinic and got BFP!!!!!!!
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Post by ogr1 »

you hang in there
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Heather - I have cried & eaten the biggest bag of hot chips ever!!!!! I have had a 'gut' feeling for the last few days that it had not worked, & did'nt really feel like posting - I have got on at least 3 times a day & read everyone elses posts though (which has helped).

Traci - As for retail therapy, I will be doing some of that tomorrow!!!!!

DH & I have decided to have next month off, to allow my body to get back to normal (my whole family thinks I am looking very, very pale & run down at the moment). We will still have a go naturally. Hopefully by June I will be ready for my first FET.

I have to keep telling myself that it was our first ever go at IVF & not that many people have success on there first attempt. Even though our Dr told us that we have an excellent chance of success with IVF, I still feel like a bit of a 'loser' at the moment.

Its so frustrating! All of my friends fell pg by just looking at there husbands!!!! Almost every one of them got pg first try, so it's hard for them to understand what we are going through. My heart feels as though it has broken (similar to the feeling you get when a boyfriend breaks up with you!!!!!!).

I'm sure I will feel much better in a few days.
Missmolly
1st IVF 04/05 -ve
2nd IVF (FET) 06/05 -ve
FET July - cancelled as embryo did not survive
3rd IVF (stimulated cycle) - no embryos!
4th IVF 02/06 -ve
January 07 - went interstate to a new clinic and got BFP!!!!!!!
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Post by ogr1 »

you are not a loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

traci's advice is always good..

be kind and gentel to eachother ..
i know you have friends
becky
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Hi Missmolly - I know how you feel....my sister and mother don't understand ....no problems conceiving...I go through good days and bad days....and it is so hard because being pregnant is one thing we really, really want but it is something you can't control. We will get pregnant - our time will come but right now we need to concentrate on getting our minds and bodies ready for the next cycle. You can be lucky that you have some FEs...we only had 1 egg fertilize so I have to go through the entire cycle again.

hang in there - buy something nice for yourself...and we will get ready for our next round - our turn is coming up!
Traci
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IUI 01/05:-
1. IVF - 04/05: -
2. IVF -cancelled -preg nat-m/c 5w3d
3. IVF -success
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Thanks Traci, you are very kind & sweet. We will hang in there together!!

Missmolly
1st IVF 04/05 -ve
2nd IVF (FET) 06/05 -ve
FET July - cancelled as embryo did not survive
3rd IVF (stimulated cycle) - no embryos!
4th IVF 02/06 -ve
January 07 - went interstate to a new clinic and got BFP!!!!!!!
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Missmolly
I am so sorry AF has arrived. Cry scream do what ever you feel you need to, its all so very confusing physically and mentally.
I know what you mean about your heart breaking, just because it was your first go doesnt mean you cant feel sad hurt angry and pretty much every other emotion possible.
Sending you big cyber hugs.
Kerry
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ICSI april 05 neg
ICSI August ++++++++++++++
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Post by Dolly »

Hi Guys, as expected my test this morning was negative.

A massive GOOD LUCK to all those testing in the next couple of days. My fingers are crossed for you.

Lots of love

Dolly
Me 38 / DH 40. TTC 8 yrs
3 natural pg - 2 ectopics and 1 miscarriage
2nd IVF +ve but miscarried
1st, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th IVF all -ve
Moved to the ARGC.
Just started for the 7th time (!) Feb/March 2006.
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Post by Tracii »

Dolly - :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
Remember we are here for you...big, big, big hugs coming your way.
Traci
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IUI 01/05:-
1. IVF - 04/05: -
2. IVF -cancelled -preg nat-m/c 5w3d
3. IVF -success
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Dolly
I am so sorry to hear about your result.
It is such a hard thing we all go through.
My thoughts are with you. Take some time
Hugs Kerry
TTC 5yrs
ICSI april 05 neg
ICSI August ++++++++++++++
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Post by missmolly »

Dolly,
My heart goes out to you.
Missmolly
1st IVF 04/05 -ve
2nd IVF (FET) 06/05 -ve
FET July - cancelled as embryo did not survive
3rd IVF (stimulated cycle) - no embryos!
4th IVF 02/06 -ve
January 07 - went interstate to a new clinic and got BFP!!!!!!!
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Post by delly »

:cry: So sorry to hear your news.
Take care of yourself,
My thoughts are with you.
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