IUI HELP ASAP!!

Discussion forum for those particularly interested in insemination using partners sperm, or donor insemination.
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ababy4us
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IUI HELP ASAP!!

Post by ababy4us »

HI! i AM NEW TO THIS BOARD, i NEED ADVISE.

I'AM 39 AND TRYING TO BECOME PREGNANT, I HAVE DONE A IUI LAST
YR. I BECAME PREGNANT AND AT 15WKS, I HAD A MISCARRIGE. THIS TIME I AM TRYING IT AGAIN AN IUI, FOR THE 3RD TIME. I TOOK GONEL F DRUGS, AND I HAVE NOW MANY MANY FOLICALS. MY PROBLEM IS THAT NOW THE DR. SAYS I HAVE TOO MANY. THERE IS A CHANCE THAT I COULD HAVE MORE THAN 2 PREGNANCIES IF I CONTINUE THIS CYCLE. SO I'M CONFUSSED ON WHAT TO DO. I ONLY DID WHAT THE DR. SAID, SO NOW I'AM FACED WITH THE DESSISION OF CONTINUING OR STOPPING?????? IF I CREATE MORE THAN 2 OR 3 PREGNANCIES, I MAY HAVE TO END 3 OF THEM, WHICH WOULD HAPPEN AROUND 14WEEKS. YES 14WEEKS, AND I'M NOT SURE IF I CAN DO THAT.

ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVISE?????? :cry:
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Post by ogr1 »

i am so sorry that yoou are having to go threw this...

i cant even amagen...

i dont know what to say..

you should post this on the gen forum..

hopefuly some one else may have gone threw this or know something..

i wish that i could help..

becky
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Post by NickiMark »

You poor thing, what a delemma!

I really cant help you, I am starting my first iui very soon. But i have been told that if i have too many they will stop it and i get no choice..

Post on the general boards, hope to see u about!! Good Luck! Let us know how u get on? :)
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by LittleP »

Firstly hi and welcome

I am so sorry that I can't help in any way, but I would urge you, like the others have, to post this on the General Forum as well because you will get more replies and hopefully somebody can help you out.

I wish you loads of luck and PMA to get you through this.

Take care

Little P
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leigh
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Post by leigh »

Hello and welcome "ababy4us"
Just had cycle of iui, didn't work. We were warned about things you are talking about. If there were more than 2/3 follicles they would do a follicular reduction and if they missed a follicle and there were more than 2 embryos they would remove one, probably as you are going through now. they said that if we couldn't bare thought of that we shouldn't go for iui. Of course we didn't seriously consider this and just thought how awful if we did have to make that decision. i am so sorry to see you having to make that decision. Based on nothing but my gut instinct, I would go ahead with treatment if poss and have some embryos 'removed' if it becomes necessary. Even as I write this I'm cringing at the word 'removal' as it is horrible when linked to a new life. i cannot tell you how I would cope with that decision or if i would actually make that decision if I were in your place.
Sorry i know I haven't been very helpful. I hope you find the strength to make the decision that feels right for you and dh. i wish you all the luck in the world.
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DeniseM
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Just a thought

Post by DeniseM »

When they discussed IUI with us, they said that if we came into a situation like that, you can convert to in vitro.

May be too late for your situation, but something to think about.
IUI twins ~ July 2006
IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009
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