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[Jules R]

I'm not really sure what's been happening, Debra, because I don't get the time to check this side of the board much any more. I'm so sorry to hear that someone's upset you because you're an absolute gem and have been a great support to so many people. And in times where the board has been really quiet, you've kept it going in the way that Tracey and the other girls used to. I hope that you will reconsider your decision in the light of all the supportive comments here.

Jules

P.S A belated very happy birthday to your beautiful daughter.

[JudeM]

Debra

I just wanted to add my voice to the others.

I can't begin to understand why somebody would send you (of all people) spiteful messages. You are one of the kindest and most helpful people on the board.

I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I do hope that you will continue posting on the 'other side'.

Love

Jude

[taylorjools]

D I am very sad that this has happened to you, I can't believe it.

I will join you on the other side soon I hope

Love bigJ

[Alison]

Hi Debra - I too was baffled and saddened by your message here. I don't post on this side often but have read a lot of your posts and have been touched by your compassion, support and humour. I'm also hoping you will be my role model! Like you, my "last" cycle was an FET where the embies didn't survive, and I then decided to do "one last cycle" which I'm doing now - and hoping to follow you with a positive result.

Very best wishes for your pregnancy

Alison x

[eskavon]

debra
don't go, you've lots of support and friends here. why let one spoil your fun. you're very supportive and we're all so pleased with your ++ result. make sure you keep us up to date with how things progress and dish out that thoughtful advice that you always do
xx

[me]

Debra,
Havent been around much lately, trying to keep busy stop my mind whirling all the time and when i read your post i was shocked! I dont know what has happened but how mean and nasty to upset you in this way. I have found your words and continued kindness and support have helped me survive this crazy treatment ride. You are a wonderful strong woman who we will all be sad to lose, I understand you feel the need to move on because you do not need to be made to feel like this you need to be stress free and enjoy your pregnanacy,you as with the rest of us have worked hard to get where you are.
I want to thank you for everything you have done for me and want you to realise how much you will be missed.
Many cyber hugs and good wishes for a wonderful future, you will be greatly missed.
Kerry xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[julesg]

Debra

I was truly shocked and very sad when I read this message. I don't understand what has happened - you a valued member of the group and I know I am not the only one who is kept sane (well midly) by all the help and advice we receive. I am shattered to think that someone could spoil this life line for us all

Good luck with your pregnacy you deserve great hapiness

Take Care
Lots of Love
Julie

[Tessa]

Debra... I'm stunned
Little P said it perfectly, why should we all miss out on your company because one person has been spiteful (not sure what's been said or done?) Please reconsider

Tessa