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NickiMark · Post by **NickiMark** » Sat May 14, 2005 5:14 pm

Yes, indeed he is a male!! How did u guess?

The girls I work with all know and they all think he's a ****** too. They are willing to cover for me and dont mind me having time off they understand. MOst of them are mothers.

Enjoy your night on the razz. Dont get too p****d!!!

eskavon · Post by **eskavon** » Sat May 14, 2005 5:46 pm

Hi Nicola
Just read your post post about your boss

Good for you getting signed off for the 2ww!
Some people just don't understand and they really are awful. He sound like a real p**.
Enjoy the time off and chill during your 2ww
Take care
Eskavon x

loopylou57uk · Post by **loopylou57uk** » Sat May 14, 2005 7:35 pm

hello girls, i hope you dont mind me joining yous, i started my 4th ivf on the 26th april, and im due ec on 3rd june, i am really nervous about the outcome as the previous 2 i actually got a positive but then it disappeared soon after. i am sure you wonderful people will help me through whatever the outcome.
me and dh are off to majorca on tues, so will catch up after that.
love loopy.

NickiMark · Post by **NickiMark** » Sat May 14, 2005 8:07 pm

Hi LoopyLou!

We are all here to guide each other through this 'baby trail' Ive got so much comfort from this site, I am now quite addicted to posting and cant stay away. Our pc got a virus and yesterday was hell as couldnt log on! DH fixed it today, so here I am!!!

Where in Majorca are you going to? We go there on the 5th June. So just 2 days after your EC.
We are going to Alcudia

bucko1976 · Post by **bucko1976** » Sat May 14, 2005 8:08 pm

What a week everyone is having!! I have finally found time to read the board, been really busy at work this week almost done 12hr days, so really tierd.

Well, it's good to hear so much good news and although some of you had had some disappointments i'm glad you're keeping a PMA.

Eskavon - I really felt for you when you had such a poor EC and fertilisation. However, it has turned out well, so sending you lots of baby dust for a possitive result on 27th May.

Nicki - you must be having a real tough time of it. I can't believe your boss, especially his remarks about his pregnant wife, knowing what you are going through. I wonder what his attitude would be if his wife wanted time off work for IVF and her boss was being a complete s**t like he is being - I bet he wouldn't be happy. Well, good for you for getting signed off, just forget about work now and give yourself some TLC because you deserve it.

Update - had blood test on Friday, going for scan on Monday then I will find out if I am able to start stimming - I'm keeping everything crossed but am also really nervous as I know that this is another hurdle to cross and I really want to get onto the next stage of treatment.

NickiMark · Post by **NickiMark** » Sat May 14, 2005 8:16 pm

Jac, Good Luck for your scan on Monday. Me too having a scan!!
Are they checking your follicles too?

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Sun May 15, 2005 8:17 am

Hi Sher8 .... Hope ET on Friday all went to plan, and you are being a good girl and resting ....? Come over the the 2ww thread when you're up to it ..

Sandra x

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Sun May 15, 2005 8:46 am

Hi Jaqui ... Fingers crossed that all goes well at your scan tomorrow. Whatever stage we're at, we're always desperate to move onto the next part !

Sandra x

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Sun May 15, 2005 8:50 am

Hi Loopy .... Good to see you're back with us and raring to go for a successful 3rd time lucky eh ??!!

You have a good relaxing hol first, 'cos it'll be much more difficult with the bump !

Sandra x

NickiMark · Post by **NickiMark** » Sun May 15, 2005 3:20 pm

Now Sunday evening is here almost, I am starting to get that sunday night feeling, you know the feeling before monday morning. Ahhhh!!!

I am worried about speaking to my boss, i know i have the clinic's letter to say i am under going treatment, but I am wondering if i should contact my gp to get the official 'doctors note'
Just dont want to face him to be honest, just the sight of him will make me feel sick.

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Sun May 15, 2005 3:35 pm

Hi Nicola .. I don't think the hospital letter will cover you for the second week off ... as far as I know, you'll need an offical 'sick note' I'm afraid.

Sandra x

NickiMark · Post by **NickiMark** » Sun May 15, 2005 3:42 pm

Thats what I thought, I am worried as my gp is always booked up and if i see another gp he/she may not do it.

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Sun May 15, 2005 3:57 pm

Well, you don't need a sick note for the first 7 days off, so you can just ring in sick tomorrow ?? .. and in the meantime get an apptmt to see the GP for the end of the week, or even next Monday ?

Sandra x

NickiMark · Post by **NickiMark** » Sun May 15, 2005 3:59 pm

I know but i wanted a note straight away as I am truly dreading speaking to him.

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Sun May 15, 2005 4:11 pm

Well - what about going in to see him tomorrow, armed with the hospital letter. Explain that you've called to see him out of courtesy, to explain face to face that you are needing time take the next couple of weeks of sick, and that a doctor's note will follow.... that you have tried to fit your hospital appointments into your working life, but due to their inflexible attitude you are now stressed up to your eyeballs, and your tmt could be at risk due to this. This should shut him up.

I can't see you having any problems actually getting the sick note, from either your gp or one of the other doctors in the practice ... Just explain how tired, stressed and emotional you're feeling, and that you need a break.

Sandra x

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