May 05 - Test dates thread

taylorjools · Post by **taylorjools** » Tue May 17, 2005 5:46 pm

we'll have a test date for you too Nicola by tomorrow

DebraP · Post by **DebraP** » Tue May 17, 2005 6:44 pm

BigJ, how long have you waited to say those wonderful words?

hugs
Debra

crasmus · Post by **crasmus** » Tue May 17, 2005 7:37 pm

well a BFN for me.... tests are back and nothing good..... we are trying to figure out if we are going to try again... i have always had hopes for a large family, but it looks like it might not happen.... more positive thoughts to the rest waiting !!!!!

colleen

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Tue May 17, 2005 7:43 pm

Oh Colleen - I'm sorry it hasn't worked out for you this time. Try not to rush into any decisions. This cycle has taken a lot out of you. I think it's only actually after a cycle that you realise just how much. Take time to be angry, to be sad, to grieve .... it will hurt, but it will slowly ease.

Take care

Sandra x

jamato253 · Post by **jamato253** » Tue May 17, 2005 7:45 pm

Colleen,

I am really hoping that you can come through this....I know how you feel and I am here (like the rest of us if you need to talk) - screaming really loud helps too!!! How many times have your tried??

crasmus · Post by **crasmus** » Tue May 17, 2005 7:50 pm

i've actually tried a TON!!! we started infertility treatment back in 1998 and went through everything starting with clomid... i have severe PCOS and this was our 8th, no 9th IVF cycle _
1st IVF +ve =boy 4 years old
2nd-3rd IVF canceled for drops in my E2 or OHSS
4th ivf -ve
5th ivf cancled cycle OHSS
6th ivf +ve, then HCG dropped -ve
7th 8th ivf canceled for drops in E2
9th ivf(this one) -ve

so i think that i have put my body and mind thought a lot.... i do not know if i really want to try again!! I"M SO tired and bloated and sad!!

LittleP · Post by **LittleP** » Tue May 17, 2005 9:09 pm

Colleen

I am so sorry about your news - I know words are meaningless to you right now, but we're here for you when you feel ready for our support.

Take time for yourself to come to terms with this before making any decisions, now is not the time.

PMA and hugs to you

Little P

LittleP · Post by **LittleP** » Tue May 17, 2005 9:10 pm

03 May - CJB / Claire -

05 May - T.J. -

05 May - Jamato253 -

06 May - Meandmine / Sharon -

09 May - Katylark -

09 May - Tylerb -

11 May - Maci05 -

13 May - Julesg -

15 May - Lana -

16 May - Divinagracia -

17 May - Emily Rose -

17 May - Crasmus / Colleen -

18 May - Mil -

20 May - Sandra -

23 May - Susie -

23 May - Suz -

26 May - Taylorjools / Big J -

27 May - Eskavon -

27 May - Sher8 -

27 May - Hopeful / Jules -

28 May - Princess / Joy -

Dates to be confirmed for late May/early June

Nickimark
Pauline69
Alisondrake
Brandi
Smiler31
Bucko1976 / Jaqui
JaneR

Emily Rose · Post by **Emily Rose** » Tue May 17, 2005 9:17 pm

Colleen,

I'm so sorry. I think you are extremely brave to have tried 9 times.

Thinking of you,
Emily

CC · Post by CC » Tue May 17, 2005 10:10 pm

Just popped in to see how you may girls are getting on- congratulations to those BFPs and so sorry to hear about the BFNs - my thoughts are with you and I sincerely hope it happens for you all soon,

Cherylx

randa2006 · Post by **randa2006** » Wed May 18, 2005 1:53 am

Colleen,
So sorry, Dear. Please pamper yourself for the next several weeks. You've been through a lot!
Others are right, delay making any decisions about another try. Your heart and soul must take a good rest.
Peace to you and yours.

Brandi · Post by **Brandi** » Wed May 18, 2005 3:24 am

Hey Sandra,

I am on a medicated cycle. Lupron, estrace and 4 estrogen patches every 3 days for now. It's going well...

I hope you're having a great night,
Brandi

julesg · Post by **julesg** » Wed May 18, 2005 7:37 am

Collen

I am soo sorry to see you sad news this was only my first full cylce and first -ve so I only know a little bit of how you feel

Hope you are ok - don't rush any decisions - look after yourself

Love and a big hug from me

Julie

LittleP · Post by **LittleP** » Wed May 18, 2005 8:15 am

Brandi

How are you getting on - to you have a test date yet?

Fingers crossed for you and hoping that everything is going positively for you.

PMA and hugs

Little P

LittleP · Post by **LittleP** » Wed May 18, 2005 11:33 am