Sand - test Friday 20th May

Emily Rose · Post by **Emily Rose** » Fri May 20, 2005 10:33 am

Sandra,

I am so sorry. When these answers are not what we hope for, it is so gut wrenching. Well, at least you have us (as we have you) when you're ready to talk more. We're here.

Emily

Susie · Post by **Susie** » Fri May 20, 2005 10:49 am

Sandra,
I really do not know what to say here. I am so sorry it didnt work for you. We're cycle buddies, and I'm so emotional at the moment that I'm crying for you as I am writing this. I really thought we would have 2 BFP's on here today.
I'm thinking of you, and sending you big cyber hugs, again I feel so sorry.
You have been one of my major supports through this treatment, I couldn't have got thru without you.
Thankyou
Susie

JaneR · Post by **JaneR** » Fri May 20, 2005 11:56 am

Sandra,

I am so sorry for you and DF. I really thought it had worked for you this time.

Sending you a big home. Take some time, and have a big glass of red wine.

Thinking of you.

Love,

Jane

taylorjools · Post by **taylorjools** » Fri May 20, 2005 12:17 pm

Sand I am so sorry sweetie, after all you have been through I did think it would be you today.

You have done so much for everyone on this board, and you have helped me tremendously, that love and kindness and generosity deserves to be a mum too. I know you will get there in the end.

we are here for you when you are ready, you know that. I hope you have lots of lovely cuddles with dh this weekend, and treat yourself to a lovely bottle of wine and a mega curry.

with very much love sweetie and a special bigJ {{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}

pauline69 · Post by **pauline69** » Fri May 20, 2005 12:44 pm

oh Sandra, I'm so very sorry to read about your -ve result. Take care of yourself & DH.

Pauline

Sher8 · Post by **Sher8** » Fri May 20, 2005 3:46 pm

Sandra,

Sorry to hear about your BFN.

Hoping that you find comfort from those around you.

Sher8

Sand · Post by **Sand** » Fri May 20, 2005 4:05 pm

Thanks so much to everyone for their sweet posts ... I've had a day of on/off tears and mad cleaning of the house ... Just pick your room, and you could eat your dinner off the carpet ! It usually takes a couple of days though to hit df. He's had to go to work this afternoon, so I will miss him tonight.

The good news is that you've all been spared my mugshot on photobucket ! The bad news is it will appear some day, as we will be cycling 'till this damn thing works.

Df offered to go up to Asda for me this morning, to buy me a bottle of my favourite wine. Now, that is some gesture from a guy who usually says he would rather stick pins in his eyes than go in a supermarket !! So, anyway, we both went in the end... I tell you - every baby in Lancashire was in Blackburn Asda at 11.00 am. Susie / Suz - if you tell me there were any babies in Preston / Bury, I won't believe you.

Thanks once again .... you are all worth your weight in gold .. xx

Sandra x

LittleP · Post by **LittleP** » Fri May 20, 2005 4:09 pm

Sandra

You hang in there and pamper yourself. Go fetch that bottle of wine and have that drink that you deserve.

Sending you huge cyber HUGS and much PMA - you know we'll always be here for you.

It's good to here your positive outlook and I have the same opinion "by hook or by crook" we will have our babies

Stay strong and take care

Little P

meandmine · Post by **meandmine** » Fri May 20, 2005 4:16 pm

Sandra,

I'm so sorry it wasn't the news you hoped for but good girl for your PMA and that you will keep trying 'til it works. Go girl, but in the meantime, have some time out, treat yourselves and refresh yourselves and I'm sure your dreams will come true.

Take care.

Love to you and your dh.

Sharon xx

michelle_in_scotland · Fri May 20, 2005 4:18 pm

Sandra,
I'm so sorry to read your news.
You have been a tower of strength to me and every other person here with all your words of wisdom. I'm afraid i can't offer words of wisdom but just want you to know you are in my thoughts and i know your dream will come true one day soon.
Take care,
Lotsa love

Michelle
xxxx

Maci05 · Post by **Maci05** » Fri May 20, 2005 6:31 pm

Sandra

I was so sure your dream was coming true. Utterly gutted for you and very sad.

You are a very special person with a huge heart and the ability to have supportive words for others that manage to neatly sum-up what I would struggle to put into words. You sound as if, for now anyway, you are coping ok - maybe the wine is partially influential?!

Take a dose of the medicine you so wisely dispense to others - take time to recharge physically and emotionally before you leap back on board the rollercoaster.

Thinking about you very much

Take care

Maci x

crasmus · Post by **crasmus** » Fri May 20, 2005 6:35 pm

i'm so sorry for your negative result!! I hope that you take time to yourself. i thank you for the support that you gave me, and i hope that if you need anything i can help in anyway....

see ya next cycle... +ve thoughts
colleen

Dolly · Post by **Dolly** » Fri May 20, 2005 6:47 pm

Sandra, I really am so sorry to hear it didn't work out for you this time. Take time out and spoil yourself - you deserve it.

Sending you the biggest hug
Love
Dolly x

DeniseM · Post by **DeniseM** » Fri May 20, 2005 9:20 pm

Hi Sandra...

Tough day today for you. Enjoy that wine, a nice long soak in the tub, etc.

Two steps forward, one step back.

I had my final bloodwork, and ultrasound today, so once this miscarriage is resolved, I'll be back in the saddle too.

PMA - I'll raise a pint in your name tonight.

randa2006 · Post by **randa2006** » Sat May 21, 2005 10:51 pm

Sandra,

Well $&@*$%!@*!!!!!
What a horrible shame!
Just not fair. Not fair at all!!!!!
You poor dear. You sound, as usual, really calm and already refocused on next steps. You are nothing less than a tower of strength.
I just sooooooo wanted it to be your turn. DAMN!
Sorry. I don't know what to say.
Take care of yourself, Sweetie.
We are here for you ALWAYS!
Your Friend,
Randa

Sand - test Friday 20th May

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