failed again!

cath · Post by **cath** » Mon Nov 25, 2002 4:34 pm

hi everyone well my wait is over af came today as i knew she would she never lets me down, i'm so gutted and don't know where i go from here really i don't know if i should try again it always seems like a waste of bloody time, money not to mention all the stress. i just feel it's never going to happen i'm so fed up thank's for letting me moan xx

beck · Post by **beck** » Mon Nov 25, 2002 5:05 pm

hello cath and dh. im so sorry to see your sad news, nothing i say will ease the pain. but dont make no dississons yet as its early days, give your heart time to heal and give your body a break. lots of love beck xx

Lucy · Post by **Lucy** » Mon Nov 25, 2002 5:06 pm

Hi Cath I am sorry about AF turning up as normal. Just to let you know that I have been drifting around this site for over a year now and I have seen people come and go. There are plenty of lucky ones that get pg first or second time but there are still plenty of us that take a bit of time. (I start my 6th attempt in Jan 2003)A lovely lady I met on this site recently got pg on her 6th attempt she never gave up hope and was cetainly a insperation to me to keep going. Whilst IVF is a huge cost both physically and mentally it is a process we have to put ourselves through because as human beings we live in hope. So keep up with the hope. Wishing you and all the other ladies on this site who feel that they would rather give up, lots of courage and hope for future attempts. Lucyx

tshepher · Post by **tshepher** » Mon Nov 25, 2002 5:13 pm

Hi Cath So sorry to hear it hasn't worked again for you and thanks for replying to my surrogacy dilemma. What a great offer from your sister, must have been something in the air on Saturday. Whether we take up the offers or not isn't it nice to know that we have people so close to us prepared to do something so fantastic for us. Hang in there, pamper yourself and don't make any decisions until you feel stronger. Loads of love your way Terri xxxx

Wicked Lady · Post by **Wicked Lady** » Mon Nov 25, 2002 5:33 pm

Dear Cath I'm so sorry. Sending you lots of love and hugs. Nicola xxx

Michelle · Post by **Michelle** » Mon Nov 25, 2002 6:15 pm

Dear Cath I am so very sorry that af arrived - bloody hell (excuse the pun). I'm sending you lots of love and please don't give up you deserve to have a baby - and one day you will. Love, Michelle x

Alison · Post by **Alison** » Mon Nov 25, 2002 8:02 pm

Hi Cath, as you know I'm in the same boat and probably know pretty much exactly how you feel. My wisdon on the basis of one and half days' of knowing that its not worked is that we can't make any big decisions about what to do next now - we just need to survive the moment. Take care, lots of love Alison x

heather · Post by **heather** » Mon Nov 25, 2002 9:14 pm

Cath, Just wanted to let you know that i'm thinking of you, and sending you loads of love. Take care of you, Heather xxx

alison p · Post by **alison p** » Tue Nov 26, 2002 9:44 am

Cath, So sorry about your news. It's so hard when it keeps failing and I know that only too well. It just takes time to get over it and gather enough strength to start again. Hang in there - hopefully eventually we'll get there! Alison P

Andie · Post by **Andie** » Tue Nov 26, 2002 12:25 pm

Hi Cath So sorry to hear it hasn't worked for you. I've just had exactly the same so know how you feel, it makes you feel completely empty inside. Mind you, each day has got alot better and I'm feeling almost back to as normal as I can possibly be. It makes my life easier as I have two beagle puppies and two horses - no time to get upset as they still need to be walked and mucked out every day! I hope you feel more positive soon and have a good Christmas. We are going to try again in January, it's definitely worth trying, you never know when it will be your turn. Take care of yourself Andie

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