Oh Bron and Nicki. I am so sorry to read your posts. I would still encourage you both to test on your test days. If nothing else it will help you to come to terms with what has happened and will aid in your recovery. Life is not fair and you two have been so positive and supportive of others that you deserve to get what you want. Take it easy and although it is hard, try and remain positive and focus on your next step. You are both incredible women and I know you will get through this.
Best wishes
Heather
May 05 - 2ww
My heart goes out for you
I've been there too where you can't stop crying. You're both right. This isn't fair.
Thank goodness you both have partners to lean on. Get lots of cuddles and take the time you need to get through this.
I'm choked up reading your posts, and how familiar this feels for me. Take care.
Thank goodness you both have partners to lean on. Get lots of cuddles and take the time you need to get through this.
I'm choked up reading your posts, and how familiar this feels for me. Take care.
IUI twins ~ July 2006
IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009
IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009
please know that you arnt crying alone...
i am tryley sorry..
have you called your doctor?
i am tryley sorry..have you called your doctor?
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
Nicki
I am so sorry - don't deny yourself the right to cry, it is a really horrible and difficult time. I just wanted to send you a massive cyber hug and let you know that I am thinking of you.
{{{{{{{{{{{{ H U G }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Take care sweetie and you know where we are when you feel like talking. Wrap yourself in cotton wool and indulge and pamper yourself.
Big hugs and loads of PMA
Little P
I am so sorry - don't deny yourself the right to cry, it is a really horrible and difficult time. I just wanted to send you a massive cyber hug and let you know that I am thinking of you.{{{{{{{{{{{{ H U G }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Take care sweetie and you know where we are when you feel like talking. Wrap yourself in cotton wool and indulge and pamper yourself.
Big hugs and loads of PMA
Little P
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Hi
sorry I haven't been on since last week but my parents arrived on Thursday. As it turns out I didn't have to have a 'bad back' as my DH says to my mum, did you know Pauline is pregnant to which my mum asked me and I said I don't know. So she would keep asking then asking when is my doctors appt. I told her Wedesday. I will only tell them it is IVF once I know the outcome. They are now gone to stay with my Dad's brother until the weekend so at least I can test tomorrow with them not here.
I'm feeling very emotional today and am crying at anything - I'm terrified for tomorrow. Desperately hoping for a positive and don't know how I will cope if it is negative. At least I won't have to go into work like last time. I'm back at work on Thursday.
Nicki & Bronagh so very sorry to read your news.
Clare1, hope you are doing ok.
I will be testing first thing in the morning.
Alison, finally you are on the 2ww, hope you don't go crazy.
Trying to stay positive and sending PMA to you all.
Pauline
sorry I haven't been on since last week but my parents arrived on Thursday. As it turns out I didn't have to have a 'bad back' as my DH says to my mum, did you know Pauline is pregnant to which my mum asked me and I said I don't know. So she would keep asking then asking when is my doctors appt. I told her Wedesday. I will only tell them it is IVF once I know the outcome. They are now gone to stay with my Dad's brother until the weekend so at least I can test tomorrow with them not here.
I'm feeling very emotional today and am crying at anything - I'm terrified for tomorrow.
Desperately hoping for a positive and don't know how I will cope if it is negative. At least I won't have to go into work like last time. I'm back at work on Thursday.Nicki & Bronagh so very sorry to read your news.
Clare1, hope you are doing ok.
I will be testing first thing in the morning.
Alison, finally you are on the 2ww, hope you don't go crazy.
Trying to stay positive and sending PMA to you all.
Pauline
Pauline
Do hope you are feeling a bit better this afternoon. If it's any consolation, I did the tears and waling on both Saturday and Sunday. I was convinced that AF was on its way as symptons were showing themselves. However, I am now too exhausted and worn out to worry anymore!
This group has been a fantastic one to lean on - so no matter what happens tomorrow for both of us, the girls will be here to guide, advise, congratulate or commiserate. What a place!
The best of luck tomorrow and my fingers are crossed for both of us.
Clare1
Do hope you are feeling a bit better this afternoon. If it's any consolation, I did the tears and waling on both Saturday and Sunday. I was convinced that AF was on its way as symptons were showing themselves. However, I am now too exhausted and worn out to worry anymore!
This group has been a fantastic one to lean on - so no matter what happens tomorrow for both of us, the girls will be here to guide, advise, congratulate or commiserate. What a place!
The best of luck tomorrow and my fingers are crossed for both of us.
Clare1
Bron
Sorry to here of your AF.
Looks like you Niccki and me have set June off to a sad start.
Every one says that we could all still test +ve and send plenty of PMA but its hard when your bleeding.
However good luck for your test hope June can be turned around.
Gail
Sorry to here of your AF.
Looks like you Niccki and me have set June off to a sad start.
Every one says that we could all still test +ve and send plenty of PMA but its hard when your bleeding.
However good luck for your test hope June can be turned around.
Gail
Me 40, DP 29, DS 10
IVF 1st Cycle - May 05 -ve.
IVF 2nd Cycle March 06 -ve
IVF 1st Cycle - May 05 -ve.
IVF 2nd Cycle March 06 -ve
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