Not our lucky day

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
becky
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Post by becky »

Sorry girls ..adding to the -ive stats..<br><br>feel poohy..numb..stuck...cant see through the tears and can't believe that it hasnt worked..<br><br>love becky b
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Alison
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Dear Becky - posted on your other thread too but just wanted to say in a rather more coherent way that I'm really sorry about your news. I was so sure it would work for you. Look after yourself and know that it will work one day - from what you said on other othe thread it sounds as if you had a biochemical pg which means that you were really close to a proper one - which makes it seem all the more unfair I know but it will work for you one day.<br><br>Lots of love<br><br>Alison xxxx
Tracey D
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Post by Tracey D »

Oh becky, I'm so sorry. I know there's nothing I can say to make it beter. I just send you lots of love and cuddles and go get pissed on a lovely bottle of wine.<br><br>Lots of love<br><br>Tracey D
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Post by woppa »

Becky <br>I am so sorry to read your news. Chin up girl. Go and get drunk, eat loads of munchies and have a good old snuggle with your man.<br>lots of love<br>woppa<br>xxxxxxxx
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Post by caz »

Becky - so so sorry. Am not expert in this.....but I suggest getting very drunk on an exceptionally nice bottle of wine, having a good cry and then have a relaxing christmas doing things for yourselves. You might find Things might look a little brighter in time?? If you decide its the right thing to do maybe we'll cycle together in the New year......Loads of love in the meantime<br>Cazxx
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Post by Nina1 »

Becky, I'm really sorry. It's just not fair and I know you'll be feeling so horrible right now. Am thinking of you tons.<br>love,<br>Nina
beck
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Post by beck »

becky just to let you know im so sorry to see your sad posts.........god i felt for you tonight!!<br>like you said have some time out and try and find the strength to carry on in january.<br>lots of love<br>beck x<br>do come back when your ready we are all here for you.<br>x
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Post by suzannemorris »

Becky<br><br>I'm so sorry to hear your sad news, I can only reiterate what the others have said.<br><br>Thinking of you both.<br><br>Take it easy,<br>Suzanne.x
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Post by Michelle »

Dear Becky and dh<br>I am so very very sorry for your result today - I wish that hadn't been the case. You deserve to be pg and one day soon it will happen for you - please don't give up. Just take a little time and perhaps after Xmas start planning your next steps.<br>I'm really thinking of you and sending you love.<br>Michelle x
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Post by julie mins »

Becky<br><br>Really really sorry to hear your news.<br><br>Nothing will make it any better right now. Stay strong and allow yourself to grieve.<br><br>Thinking of you<br><br>Best wishes<br>
amanda
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Post by amanda »

Hello Becky, I am a very late November Cycle Budddie. Have read your progress and had my fingers and toes crossed for you today. I am so so sorry it did not work out for you. I guess like everyone else, we feel your devastation. My test date is monday 2nd, I have a bad feeling about it, so if it fails then I guess we may become January buddies.......... Try to smile and stay positive (easier said than done, I know!!)<br><br>Take care<br><br>Amanda
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Post by fiona_lk »

Becky, these are horrible times, and I'm so sorry that you have to go through it now.<br><br>I am thinking of you and hope that you will soon regain your strength. Take care of yourself and your hubs and do what feels right for the moment.<br><br>My love, as always, and my shoulder if I were closer.<br><br>Fiona xxx
Me:36 Dh:46, ttc 5+yrs, M/F (96% abnormal).
13 unsuccessful Txs From 2000 [4xClomid (NHS), 7xIUI(d)s & ICSI#1 (MFS), ICSI#2 (MFS) Oct 02 (ectopic)] Natural pg Jan 03 m/c 5.5wks
ICSI#3 (CARE) +ve boy (Xander) EDD 21/03/04 - so excited!!!!!!
bibby
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Post by bibby »

Becky,<br><br>Sorry I wasn't around yesterday - computer went wrong and I spent the whole night running scandisk, defrag, etc trying to get online. I've posted under our usual thread but just wanted to explain why I wasn't here yesterday.<br><br>As I said, I'm back now and around if you need me and I know the other girls on this site are always here to give kind words and hope.<br><br>Take care<br>Bibby
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Post by Savannah »

Hi Becky,<br>I've only just read your news, and I feel devistated for you! I can't say anything that is different to all the other girls, but why don't you and your dh go away for a weekend or something? You sound like you will need some time out! You can enjoy Xmas with loads of booze, not only wine, and stuff your face until you pop! Doesn't that sound comforting?<br>I am so sorry again! 2003 will be a good year! It has to be!<br>Take care<br>Savannah xx
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Post by sammy »

hi becky,so sorry for you both.<br>You must be feeling like absolute shit.<br>Time is the one thing now,no words at the moment are going to make you feel any better.<br>I REALLY am thinking of you and sending you a very big cuddle.<br>Take care of each other<br>love and thoughts <br>sammyxxx<br>xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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